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How to Find The G-Spot

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How to Find The G-Spot

 

It’s a topic I enjoy revisiting, and today is no different. I’ve included g-spot vibes today, because sometimes we don’t want to do all the work.  If you’re interested in other G-spot stimulation methods – Check Out “Awkward Question; Where Is The G-Spot?”  or “The A Spot; Set Your GPS for Pleasure”

Peep the video below, as well as step by step instructions after the jump.

 

Find the g-spot
The Gyno Position

Try the “Gyno” Position

First, wash your hands. Then, prop yourself up on your bed with your legs spread like they would be if you were visiting the gyno. Put lube on your middle finger and insert it into your vagina with your palm facing up. Your G-spot is on the top wall of your vagina halfway between your vaginal opening and cervix. The spot should feel a little rough, almost like the surface of a walnut.

 Find the g-spot

Use a Helper

Can’t reach that far with your fingers? Use a vibrator or wand with a curved end. Once you think you’ve hit the spot, gently rub the toy back and forth over the area. It should feel amazing.

Read More on Vibrators for Sexual Pleasure Here

Find the g-spot vibe here

Sexy Couple
Play around with new positions…

Get Your Guy Involved

Lay in the same position as you would if you were exploring on your own, and prop your back up with a lot of pillows. Have your guy insert his middle finger and curve it back towards himself once it’s inside you. He can also stimulate your clitoris with his thumb at the same time for an added sensation.

 

Respect The Curve
Respect the Curve

Take Advantage of His Curve

Every penis is different, but a lot of guys have a slight curve when they’re erect. Take advantage of the way your guy curves to try to hit your G. Think: Whichever way it curves, you want that angle hitting up against your G-spot.

Do the Butterfly

Find the g-spot

No, not the Jamaican dance craze. If your man has a pretty straight erection, try to hit your G with the butterfly position. Here’s how to do it: Lay down on your back on a counter or table. Then, lift your legs and rest them on his shoulders. Tilt your pelvis upward so that your back forms a straight line angling up toward him and your crotches meet. Have him place his hands under your hips so he can hold you close while he thrusts.

 

 

 

Doggie Style Kamasutra
Try standing Doggie Style for more control

Try Standing Doggie Style

This position puts his penis right in line with your G-spot. Stand in front of a wall or mirror with your back to your guy. Have him enter you from behind and slowly thrust in and out. You can experiment with the angle to find out the best way to hit your G.

Missionary Kamasutra
Use pillows for better leverage

Prop Up Your Pelvis

Love missionary? Put a few pillows under your butt beforehand—this angles your pelvis in a way that makes it easy for your man to target your G-spot.

The Big O

Okay, so how will you know whether you had a G-spot orgasm or clitoral O? You’ll feel like you need to pee (in a good way), and may have some extra lubrication as a result.

 Got a question? Ask me: 

Resources:

Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex; sex coach Amy Levine, founder of IgniteYourPleasure.com

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Sex and Disability ; Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy

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Awkward Question: “I have a disability (Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy), but I need to spice up my sex life with the hubby.

How can a woman with a disability and who isn’t interested in sex toys spice up her sex life?”

Honestly, not everyone looks at sex toys as the ultimate indulgence or answer to their sexual problems. The truth is, they are not. Toys are used as aides in sexual exploration and enjoyment, and cannot always solve a problem. In this instance, we have to look deeper at the issue to find a real and practical solution.

What Is Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy? 

LGMD is actually a group of disorders that affect the voluntary muscles, primarily those around the hips and shoulders.

The girdle term refers to the shoulder girdle; the bony structure surrounding the shoulder area. The bony structure around the hip area is called the “pelvic girdle.” Collectively they are called limb girdle, and the muscles connected to the limb girdles are primarily affected by this type of dystrophy.

What Are the Symptoms of Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy?
LGMD, like other muscular dystrophies, is primarily a disorder of voluntary muscles. These are the muscles you use to move the limbs, neck, trunk and other parts of the body that are under voluntary control. Over time, muscle weakness and atrophy can lead to limited mobility and an inability to raise the arms above the shoulders.

 LGMD can happen at any age.

LGMD and Sexual Performance

Due to the constant changes that this disorder may bring, individuals can encounter difficulty enjoying sexual activity. While I continue to research trends in LGMD research,  I have come up with a list of suggestions that may return sex to a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.

Adore Swing

1. The Adore Swing

This love swing provides leverage to the wearer, which allows for free-flowing movements.  One of the signature effects of LG is weakness of muscles. Using the harness as an aide means that muscle weakness will not hinder sex. When placed in the correct location, the individual can open and raise his/her legs at a variety of angles. Mounting and dismounting are so easy, most individuals can do it alone.

Adore Swing – Features and Benefits: 

  • Two heavy duty adjustable harnesses
  • Each harness has two loops to fit arms and thighs
  • Two acrylic tubes
  • Each tube is draped over the top of the door before it’s shut (and locked)
  • 300 lb. weight limit
  • Free blindfold
  • Transforms door into a love swing
  • No permanent hardware required
  • Adjustable
  • Makes it easier to access and target specific areas during lovemaking
  • Fluid positions encourage lovemaking to last longer, and feel better
  • Easy to use – drape over door and enjoy

 

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Love Furniture Sex
Love Furniture

2. Love Furniture 

This is a new(er) concept in the world of intimacy, but may prove to be effective when solving the issue of sex. Love furniture allows both partners to comfortably position themselves in various sexual poses, without being suspended in the air. Some pieces don’t even require any limbs being in the air, which eventually may be helpful as degeneration progresses.

3. Adult Toys

I understand that toys are not something that everyone is comfortable with, however if degeneration of the muscles progresses it may be a great solution. A common stigma with adult toys is that they are for “freaks” or sexual deviants, which is far from the truth. People from all walks of life enjoy toys and enrich their sex lives with them.

My suggestion is to start off easy. A simple lube and vibrator can make missionary style far more exciting than you’ve ever experienced. An example of a  toy we consider to be a “marriage aide” would be the Progressor. It is a bullet vibrator with a c-ring (cock ring) addition. The vibration of the c-ring allows both partners to enjoy simultaneously, while removing it creates an entirely different toy.

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“Take your lovemaking to the next level with this ultra-powerful, hi-tech vibrating c-ring. Slip over an erection to experience six extraordinary levels of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. The super-stretchy jelly ring hugs the penis with amazing sensuousness, and the nub-studded pouch transmits pleasure for her.”

Progressor Bullet and C-Ring
Progressor Bullet and C-Ring

I always suggest starting off with a mild toy and a great lubricant. There is no need to overwhelm yourself; on the quest to sexual liberation there will be plenty of rest stops. Disabilities do not have to hinder sex or sexual gratification. As long as the individual(s) understand that finding pleasure starts with exploration. Unless you taste a fruit, you will never know whether it is something you like or not. Don’t be afraid to branch out and try new things. The worst that can happen is a lesson learned.

As always, I am available to answer questions at any time – vforvadge@gmail.com

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Red Leaf White Matcha Tea, for Energy

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If you are experiencing low energy, you may be looking for alternatives to your average energy drink. Green tea is a natural energy booster with lots of added health benefits. Matcha tea is the powdered version that’s green tea and loaded with what you need to get that engine running.   I had the pleasure of receiving Red Leaf’s Green Matcha Tea for review.

 

* Disclosure: I got this product as part of an advertorial. *

On a regular basis, I enjoy tea as a breakfast drink. I will also drink it when I am not feeling well, for a common ailments such as menstrual cramps and stomach aches. As we all know, green tea has notably more caffeine than coffee. If you are looking for the light taste of green tea, but not all the caffeine, white tea is for you. Coffee in drinkable form lacks most of the medicinal benefits that white tea offers. White Tea:

  • Is antioxidant rich (kills free radicals)
  • Boosts energy
  • Reduces certain cancer risks
  • Contains only 1% caffeine content of coffee
  • Many more

I am typically a tea bag kind of girl (pun intended), but this White Matcha tea proved easy to use. The powder dissolved nicely in hot water, and the remaining sediment settled at the bottom of the cup without disturbing me as I sipped. My tea tasted light and pleasant, so much that I didn’t need any sort of sweeteners.   I sipped it throughout my morning at work and felt steady energy up until lunch time. I didn’t get the spike that coffee often brings. If I had a matcha whisk, I don’t know what it would have done to make the experience any better. It tasted good and went down smooth – that’s all I needed.

My next cup will include a little honey for sweetness, but it needs nothing more. I definitely suggest Red Leaf’s White Matcha Tea if you love tea like I do.

You can find it here:
http://www.redleaftea.com/matcha-tea/white-matcha.html

And here:

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=B001KNB906
What do you drink to get your day started?

Note: I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

My First Trip to the OB/GYN – What Should I Expect?

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I don’t want anyone poking around in my stuff – what exactly do they do in there? 

ShineNatural Peppermint Sugar Scrub – Unleash Your Sexy, Naturally.

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I had the honor of experiencing two of Shinenatural’s newest products. One of which was the Peppermint Sugar Scrub.  Let  me start off by saying that this is not a paid advertisement.

I was able to snag this as one of the swag items at Power of the Vadge, and I am officially hooked.

First off, there are like five ingredients – all of which are natural. Some people are skeptics of natural products because they underestimate their potency.

Natural products are far more beneficial to your skin than most of the chemically made products on the market.

Each ingredient usually has a medicinal or restorative property. Let’s dissect, shall we?

ShineNatural Valerie

The owner of ShineNatural, Valerie Z.M. aims to create all natural alternatives to our favorite body care and cleaning products. So far, she is doing awesome.

For starters, this Peppermint Sugar Scrub is better than some of the products I have purchased in stores. It’s all-natural and is made locally, which is even more awesome.

All Natural Sugar Scrub
ShineNatural Peppermint Sugar Scrub

I jumped in the shower and scrubbed my face and body, it felt like a spa quality product. The granules of sugar are small enough to gently clean pores, but big enough to massage the skin. I felt such a pleasant tingle when I stepped out the shower, and my skin felt oh so soft. I could see a difference in the size of my pores, and the oils smoothed out my skin tone instantly.

Scrub Review - After Face

Note: I do not wear makeup on a normal basis. In this picture, I have on blush and lip stain – nothing more. That skin is all me!

Sexiness isn’t all about your vagina/penis. Feeling sexy helps you look sexy, and looking sexy helps you feel sexy! Taking care of yourself inside and out is crucial to both, and I am an advocate of natural self-care methods. Take some time out to love you!

Thanks to ingredients like coconut oil, I look forward to seeing a change in my overall skin tone and brightness. It’s a great product, and I’m honored to feature it at LeVadge Shop.

Get $1.00 off each order of sugar scrub with coupon code VSHINE

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2014 ShineNatural LLC

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MorningHead – Review for Natural Hair

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MorningHead  Cap

Morning Head for Natural Hair

Hey Vadgesters! So if you are a Shark Tank fan like I am, you may have seen the eposiode with a dope product called MorningHead. The creator demonstrated how users could fix their bedhead  without having to wash their hair each day. That demonstration looked something like this…

MorningHead Instructions

This may be a bit less attainable for curly/kinky individuals,  but I have found a practical use nonetheless.  Many of us love the effects of steaming our hair, but don’t have the time to sit under a steamer every day. Not to mention that hair steamers are pricey for those on a budget.

I was honored to receive a sample MorningHead box to review,  and now I can share the results with you all.

Note: This is not a paid advertisement. I received the product in exchange for my honest feedback.

I modified the standard instructions to suit my natural hair needs:

The night before, I twisted my hair up into bantu knots to retain lenth.

I put a shower cap over my shrunken morning afro, then added hot water to the MorningHead cap.

MorningHead cap on natural hair
MorningHead cap on natural hair

While showering, I let the cap steam my hair up.

MorningHead Review

I let the knots down and removed the twists after they air dried on my way to work. Then, I pulled my hair up in a bunny tail (ponytails are straight, lol) for the day.

MorningHead review on natural hair

It worked great! I didn’t even do all that I wanted to do with it, but I was able to retain more moisture and length than usual. On my next go round, I’ll try hotter water, as well as a leave-in conditioner before steaming. I can’t wait to do it again. This is perfect for morning after hair. Just keep a cap in your purse, lol.

For about $10, this is a useful purchase for natural hair. It may not be what the MorningHead creator had in mind, but it worked perfectly. Shoppers have the option to purchase one-time or subscribe monthly. Let’s see how long this one lasts, I may need one at my door all the time!

Check out the MorningHead website here

How to Use a Male Masturbation Sleeve…

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Many of my video tutorials lean more towards women’s preferences – mostly because much of the sex toy market is women’s products. Tonight, I feature the

Gigi Male Masturbation Sleeve by Passion Parties. Fellas need love, too! The treat in this video is that ladies can reap the benefits of this awesome toy. Take a peek after the jump.

*This video has been transcribed for the deaf and hard of hearing – enjoy!*

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How to Use a Masturbation Sleeve:

 

1. Ensure that the toy is clean before use.

 

2. Drop a few drops of lube in the sleeve, and on your penis.

3. Gently insert the penis.

4. Enjoy!

Oral Sex
Photo Credit

For Oral Sex:

1. Drop your favorite flavored lube or Oral Sex Gel onto the penis

2. Insert penis into sleeve until the tip of the penis exits the other end.

3. Enjoy!

Carpal Tunnel Relief Exercises

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Carpal Tunnel Relief Exercises

Many of us suffer from Carpal Tunnel Syndrome for various reasons. As a writer, I encounter its symptoms much more often that most people. If you experience C.T. symptoms – these exercises may work very well for you. 

*Note: I’ve included a few affiliate links to help with your remedy shopping. Enjoy!*

Read: Can I Get Carpal Tunnel From Masturbating?

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Easy Exercises for Carpal Tunnel Relief

Before starting these exercises, you may want to prep the muscles with a few drops of essential oil. Peppermint oil and ylang ylang are known to have relieving, anti-inflammatory benefits without chemical ingredients.

Carpal Tunnel
via Amazon.com

You can also use natural supplements for muscle relief, like Arnica Montana.

Now, back to the workout. These simple exercises may help alleviate some of the pain and pressure of carpal tunnel. I typically do these moves throughout the day, as a way to stretch the tendons and loosen the muscles while working.

Carpal Tunnel

Carpal Tunnel

Flexion and Extension Exercises

Flexion and Extension relax and stretch the muscles for maximum relief.

These are great moves to use if you sit at a desk and type often, as the repetitive motion often causes muscles to seize/tighten.

Each motion serves a purpose and targets a specific muscle area.

 

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Photo Credit: Healthwise, Inc.

 

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Carpal Tunnel Relief

The above motions are helpful for those who lift/hold items in the same position on a regular basis (weight lifters, machine operators, drivers, etc.).

Flexing the inner muscles can help relieve tension. It may also alleviate  discomfort experienced through prolonged squeezing (I’m looking at you, chronic masturbators).

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Carpal Tunnel
Hand Stretching Exercises for CT

Have you tried these moves? Did they work for you? Feel free to add your tips and suggestions in the comments below – you never know who you may help!

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“Power of the V” (Pole Dance and Passion) – Photo Recap

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If you missed my first event, consider this your re-up. Power of the V was my first women’s gathering, and it was awesome. The evening gave guests a chance to unwind, relax with friends and dance all night. 

5Ten Lauderhill
The Studio 5Ten lounge

Drinks and sweet treats were out for the ladies to enjoy.

**Side Note:** Photos are limited, the ladies were having too much fun**

We started off the night with chair dance lessons from “Diamond’s Den.” She empowered the Guests to get seductive to  the sounds of Beyonce. Boy, did we dance!

After intermission, we sat down and I introduced my guest vendors.

Tiffany with "those crazy wrap things"
Tiffany with “those crazy wrap things”

Tiffany came through from ItWorks Global – she’s got an amazing 45lb ssuccess story.

She looked awesome, too!

Johanna Dazzle Her Now
Johanna from Dazzle Her Now

Johanna from Dazzle Her Now surprised the girls with 50% Off her awesome jewelry and accessories – they went wild. My mom and I snagged some great accessories which I’ll share on my personal blog (sn3akrfr3akr.blogspot.com).

 

 

Valerie ShineNatura
Kimi’s Awesome Sauce by ShineNatural

Valerie came through with goodies fron ShineNatural. In celebration of  My new toys – she

Made a chocolate body butter just for me! “Kimi’s Awesome Sauce will be available at shop.vforvadge.com very soon.

 

Studio 5Ten
The Passion Party Preview

 

I opened the floor for questions and we talked about various taboo topics like kegels and vaginal health. The ladies were given samples courtesy of Healthy Hoohoo, and I stressed the importance of taking proper care of your vadge.

 

 

Event Goodie Bag
Goodies from Power of the V

All in all, it was a great night. I appreciate everyone who came through and had a good time.

Can I Get Carpal Tunnel From Masturbation?

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It may seem like a trivial question, but if you know what I know -this is actually one that has a great answer.

So, can you get Carpal Tunnel Syndrome from masturbation?

 

First, let’s talk about the scientific stuff first. What is Carpal Tunnel Syndrome?

Carpal Tunnel Masturbation
What Is Carpal Tunnel

Carpal Tunnel is one of the most common nerve entrapment syndromes. The median nerve is compressed at the wrist, causing many symptoms.  Paresthesia is most common; a Sensations of tingling, tickling, prickling,  pricking or burning with no long term physical effects. Essentially, the main signs of Carpal Tunnel are numbness and clumsiness of the hands.

Carpal Tunnel Masturbation
Can I Get Carpal Tunnel from Masturbation?

Now, to the question at hand – can you get CT through masturbation? The answer is yes.

Damage from CT is created after repetitive use of the hand(s) in the same motion. Individuals may experience weakening of the muscles,  making gripping other items a challenge. For a man, his hand may begin to cramp when making cupping motions.  For a woman, focal points may vary based on how she masturbates (manually, with a toy or both). Either way, both males and females are capable of developing this disorder.

Carpal Tunnel and Masturbation
How Do I Treat Carpal Tunnel?

How Do I Prevent Carpal Tunnel?

Typically, people protect their hands from Carpal Tunnel with the use of hand braces and special gloves. This may prove to be both uncomfortable and unsanitary if masturbating. Consider alternating hands on the days/times you masturbate in order to give your hands a break. Using stimulation aides like toys may also alleviate some of the pressure applied when pleasuring oneself.

How Do I Treat It? 

There are a few exercises that can alleviate much of the pain endured by carpal tunnel hands.

Easy Exercises for Carpal Tunnel Reilief