In case you just tuned in, we’re continuing our interview with a gentleman who is considered to be a rarity. Measuring at 11.63 inches, it’s no wonder that we’d want to know how he functions…
Read our first interview here:
http://vforvadge.com/interview-with-the-super-endowed/
“Thank you again for participating, I’m learning so much through my interviews. It really helps for my research. ”
Are you a “grower” or a “shower”?
– Grower, definitely. At least, to what my understanding of a grower is.
Photo courtesy of freedigitaimages.net
What is it like going to urinals?
– A little nerve racking. I won’t use them unless it’s an emergency. I normally go into to the stalls, preferably the handicapped ones, lmao don’t judge me.
Do your friends know about your gift? – Some of them do. Actually as I think about it, an alarmingly high number of my (female) friends know as of late. I’ve been uncharacteristically chatty lately.
Photo courtesy of thenewage.co.za
Has size ever been an issue in your serious relationships? If yes, how so?
– I’ve been cheated on twice with my size having been sited as the reason for doing so. More specifically that sex was a chore. Honestly, I think some of the more negative self-image complexes stemmed from those relationships.
Have you ever has the urge to do something unusual with your penis that others may not be able to do? If so, please explain.
– Hmm, I’m not entirely sure to be honest with you. I don’t have a traditional, “normal” reference point.
Have you joined any groups/clubs specializing in extra-endowed men?
– Physically, no; Online, yes. Back when I was more self-conscious about myself, I joined a support group of sorts. The group to a wicked turn to basically becoming a site for lusty folks looking for a “unique” encounters, swingers ads and people generally discussing other people/celebs and not about personal experiences or actual discourse. Stay tuned for more Interviews With…
Unfortunately, my travel plans have been jacked up and I’m going to miss out on all the fun in NYC this weekend – but you don’t have to! If you’re in New York and are looking for a great time, join LadySteele at the Hudson River Cafe today, May 26, 2014 for the NYCFleet Week Music Festival.
There will be live entertainment, NYC congressmen and women as well as the chance to buy a drink for your troops. For all they’ve done, it’s the least we can do.
Support our troops at the Hudson RIver Cafe
The event will include raffle for goodies from LeVadge Shop today, but since I cannot be there – I am offering 20% the entire site until May 31, 2014. Perfect time to send some “love” to the troop in your life.
Fleet Week Special
My cousin is a former Navy seal, and I am grateful every day that she returned from her deployments safely. I am forever appreciative of all the troops and their sacrifices. I’ll be spending the day with my loved ones, knowing that we have some of the best security protecting us wherever we go.
Our newest guest writer chronicles her “growing pains” during pregnancy. Today’s lesson is about the quest to find inner peace, especially important with another life inside of you…
So my boyfriend recently broke up with me at 10 weeks pregnant. I still have no idea why but I am working on moving on. People say that I am supposed to find a “happy” place and stay there until the baby comes but there are days when I sit and listen to my “Total” station on pandora and instantly get into “my feelings”. I’ve since stopped listening to that station and stick to reggae and hip hop. R&b bring havoc to the mind. Life.
I am now 15 weeks pregnant and still sad about the break up but making myself feel beautiful helps with that. Doing my hair, nails, and feet. Oh and don’t forget my monthly wax. Now let’s get into the waxing thing….. At first I was so nervous. The room was cold and Lord knows I didn’t know what was coming but i believe that since I was able to give birth the first time I should be able to do this.
The place was really nice but super cold (I think that was for germs and to keep the wax hot). Catherine, a really nice Russian woman called my name within 5 mins of me being there. Shook my hand and smiled.
Walked me into her tiny room, shut the door behind her : read my slip that had what service I wanted and asked me to take everything from the waist down.
She then smiled and said … “Its okay I wall make this easy for you.” She started chatting me up which helped. I layed on the bed, bottom of both feet touching each other and she went to work.
As she worked she talked and advised that I should take deep breaths when it’s time to pull. *Tip alert* Ask the rep to let you know when she is going to pull. Take a deep breath in and slowly out. IT WORKS! The pain was minimal. Hurt for a few seconds then stopped. She was really nice and in 21 mins I was baby soft from waist to ankle. Being pregnant meant I was a little more sensitive in special places but like I said that pain only lasted a few mins and the beauty …. I’ve never loved my skin so much! After waxing exfoliate in the shower and LOTION UP!
I decided to wax because I was too sick to manage in the bathroom. You don’t have to go all out like I did but I don’t regret it for one min.
Although I am still pregnant, horny and just got dumped I still feel great about my body and myself right now.
In lieu of the elevator aftermath with Solange and Jay-Z; SolAngel’s song “T.O.N.Y.” has been stuck on repeat for days. It took on a new life in my playlist, because I see so mmany women having the Tony experience. Let’s talk about it, shall we?
You know the guy; the one you know is bad for you but you can’t seem too let go. “He’s got so much potential,” “he’ll grow out of the player ways,” “I love him.” Things we’ve all said before; you love him but are you really in love with him? Is there something real that’s making you stay? Sometimes, we get blinded by characteristics I like to call,”Decepticons.” Nice car, money in his pocket, cute face, good sex and women in pursuit. These things in combination can build a weapon of mass destruction. I mean, why wouldn’t you want the guy everyone wants – right? He may look like a package deal, but is he the only one getting benefits?
“Still, he wasn’t just some regular guy. Tony’s actually The Other Night, oh whY? I could’ve been in love by now – if it wasn’t for TO.N.Y….”
When you start to get out of the dumbfounded stage, you may pick up on some traits that concern you. Lean into your female instinct. If he doesn’t call as much as he should or use to take note. Not making you feel special anymore? Red flag. If time passes and he’s not expressing interest and commitment, run. It takes two weeks to create a habit, so if three, four, five months have passed without progression – chances are he’s not that into you. Have you met his family? What does his house look like? If you have no answer for these basic questions, it’s time for a re-evaluation. What’s the point of being with someone if you still feel single?
In this day and age, there’s no excuse to sell yourself short. Open a dialogue with your Tony, and put the bug in his ear. You’re concerned about the potential future and want to know if he sees one with you. If the answer sounds sketchy, you know exactly what to do.
There are enough single men on this earth who are looking for a great woman. Consider yourself like shelf liquor; it is the hardest to afford, because it took more time to craft. Don’t put yourself on tap for a Tony to drink up all your resources for free. You are of much higher value than that.
In the self-help book “Don’t Be a Dumb Bitch,” author Ayana Ellis discusses the popular disorders called “Dickmatization” (hypnotism from good sex) and “Lackadickaphobia (desperation from lack of sex).” Both of which can shape the kind of men we attract…
“A Predator can always tell when a woman is suffering from Lackadickaphobia. We are so thirsty and don’t even realize it. We leave food in the microwave and the key under the mat for this dude.”
Read More of Don’t Be a Dumb Bitch here: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Ddigital-text&field-keywords=Don%27t%20be%20a%20dumb%20bitch
Essentially, we as women often make it easy for men to take advantage. Now’s the time while youre still “single” or in the “complicated” stage to cut your losses and move on. Great investors know what a bad move looks like, and they’re not afraid to back out. Investing your heart and time, and body require the same thought process.
So, before you get caught up, listen to Solange. If he’s sounding like a T.O.N.Y., skip to the next song.
Energetic. Stimulating. Maybe even a bit unnerving. All of those adjectives, in a sexual context are absolutely delicious…And all can come from simply having someone eat your pussy well, or from your basic missionary position. Nothing new there.
But what if that’s what you want, that exciting and potentially earth-shattering sexual experience? You’re tired of the same ol’, same ol…You want something that arouses you differently. Something sensual. And maybe most of all, something unusual.
That’s where you enter the world of fetish, and perhaps if you’re really adventurous, “untraditional” sex. Things with names like BDSM, ménage á trois, swinging…Activities with out-of-place names like water-sports, cum-swapping, and paraphilia…
Now, before we go any further, please understand that, in all instances, your personal safety and health – and that of your partner(s) – should be paramount, both mentally and physically. So, before you decide to engage in any of these behaviors, make sure you’re taking precautions. At all times, practice safer sex, and be with a person or people you trust.
With that said, let’s get into it.
I had my first sexual experience early in life. While it wasn’t physical, it was still a sexual experience. It occurred when I inadvertently observed one of my babysitters (a neighborhood girl) engaging in – no, let’s keep it real – getting fucked by who I can only assume was her boyfriend. She thought I was sleeping in another room of the house. But I wasn’t.
I wasn’t repulsed by seeing what I saw. I wasn’t scarred by it. If anything, I was intrigued by it. Dare I say, mentally aroused by it.
The sight of that teenage boy vigorously fucking, what even I knew then to be a beautiful girl, was intensely interesting to me. When she wrapped her ankles behind his head and he drove into her, hard and deep, making her both pant and blurt out unintelligible utterances, I remember thinking “that is what I want to do…I want to make girls feel good.” You see, I knew, even at that age, that what she was feeling, what she was experiencing was pleasure. Unadulterated, simple and base, pleasure. I knew then that power could come from delivering pleasure.
And since that moment, I’ve been dedicated to finding whatever I could do to bring a woman that same, intense pleasure.
It’s raining. Lighting flashes, thunder rolls – your partner finally stops watching the game. It’s time.
“Lightning flash, and thunder roll…”
But, how do you start it off differently from the last session?
**Cues saxophone solo and Michael Bolton**
How about a little body chocolate?
ShineNatural LLC was awesome enough to name this sensual body butter after me in celebration of my first event. I have fallen in love with the product – they can pay me in Awesome Sauce.
This post is straight to the point. I like all-natural food. The ingredients in Kimi’s Awesome Sauce are very simple:
1. Almond Oil
2. Coconut Oil
3. Shea Butter
4. Beeswax
5. Cocoa Powder
6. Honey
7. Vanilla Bean
8. Glycerin
8 things that can make your night very special. Since the ingredients are food-based, you can pretty much put this chocolate
ANYWHERE.
Coconut oilis a naturally anti-bacterial food. Shea butter and almond oil nourish the skin. Honey has anti-oxidant and moisturizing benefits and the natural aphrodisiac Vanillajust tastes so good.
I love the taste of it, and it leaves this light trace of coconut oil that can be used as a gentle lubricant, lip balm or body moisturizer. It’s multipurpose and a little goes a long way.
So – with that said. It is currently raining, and I have a fresh tin of Awesome Sauce on my nightstand waiting to be warmed up. Just rub a little between your fingers, or let the tin sit in a bowl of warm water. The party has just begun…
Peep the video below, as well as step by step instructions after the jump.
The Gyno Position
Try the “Gyno” Position
First, wash your hands. Then, prop yourself up on your bed with your legs spread like they would be if you were visiting the gyno. Put lube on your middle finger and insert it into your vagina with your palm facing up. Your G-spot is on the top wall of your vagina halfway between your vaginal opening and cervix. The spot should feel a little rough, almost like the surface of a walnut.
Use a Helper
Can’t reach that far with your fingers? Use a vibrator or wand with a curved end. Once you think you’ve hit the spot, gently rub the toy back and forth over the area. It should feel amazing.
Lay in the same position as you would if you were exploring on your own, and prop your back up with a lot of pillows. Have your guy insert his middle finger and curve it back towards himself once it’s inside you. He can also stimulate your clitoris with his thumb at the same time for an added sensation.
Respect the Curve
Take Advantage of His Curve
Every penis is different, but a lot of guys have a slight curve when they’re erect. Take advantage of the way your guy curves to try to hit your G. Think: Whichever way it curves, you want that angle hitting up against your G-spot.
Do the Butterfly
No, not the Jamaican dance craze. If your man has a pretty straight erection, try to hit your G with the butterfly position. Here’s how to do it: Lay down on your back on a counter or table. Then, lift your legs and rest them on his shoulders. Tilt your pelvis upward so that your back forms a straight line angling up toward him and your crotches meet. Have him place his hands under your hips so he can hold you close while he thrusts.
Try standing Doggie Style for more control
Try Standing Doggie Style
This position puts his penis right in line with your G-spot. Stand in front of a wall or mirror with your back to your guy. Have him enter you from behind and slowly thrust in and out. You can experiment with the angle to find out the best way to hit your G.
Use pillows for better leverage
Prop Up Your Pelvis
Love missionary? Put a few pillows under your butt beforehand—this angles your pelvis in a way that makes it easy for your man to target your G-spot.
The Big O
Okay, so how will you know whether you had a G-spot orgasm or clitoral O? You’ll feel like you need to pee (in a good way), and may have some extra lubrication as a result.
Awkward Question: “I have a disability (Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy), but I need to spice up my sex life with the hubby.
How can a woman with a disability and who isn’t interested in sex toys spice up her sex life?”
Honestly, not everyone looks at sex toys as the ultimate indulgence or answer to their sexual problems. The truth is, they are not. Toys are used as aides in sexual exploration and enjoyment, and cannot always solve a problem. In this instance, we have to look deeper at the issue to find a real and practical solution.
What Is Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy?
LGMD is actually a group of disorders that affect the voluntary muscles, primarily those around the hips and shoulders.
The girdle term refers to the shoulder girdle; the bony structure surrounding the shoulder area. The bony structure around the hip area is called the “pelvic girdle.” Collectively they are called limb girdle, and the muscles connected to the limb girdles are primarily affected by this type of dystrophy.
What Are the Symptoms of Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy?
LGMD, like other muscular dystrophies, is primarily a disorder of voluntary muscles. These are the muscles you use to move the limbs, neck, trunk and other parts of the body that are under voluntary control. Over time, muscle weakness and atrophy can lead to limited mobility and an inability to raise the arms above the shoulders.
LGMD can happen at any age.
LGMD and Sexual Performance
Due to the constant changes that this disorder may bring, individuals can encounter difficulty enjoying sexual activity. While I continue to research trends in LGMD research, I have come up with a list of suggestions that may return sex to a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.
Adore Swing
1. The Adore Swing
This love swing provides leverage to the wearer, which allows for free-flowing movements. One of the signature effects of LG is weakness of muscles. Using the harness as an aide means that muscle weakness will not hinder sex. When placed in the correct location, the individual can open and raise his/her legs at a variety of angles. Mounting and dismounting are so easy, most individuals can do it alone.
Adore Swing – Features and Benefits:
Two heavy duty adjustable harnesses
Each harness has two loops to fit arms and thighs
Two acrylic tubes
Each tube is draped over the top of the door before it’s shut (and locked)
300 lb. weight limit
Free blindfold
Transforms door into a love swing
No permanent hardware required
Adjustable
Makes it easier to access and target specific areas during lovemaking
Fluid positions encourage lovemaking to last longer, and feel better
This is a new(er) concept in the world of intimacy, but may prove to be effective when solving the issue of sex. Love furniture allows both partners to comfortably position themselves in various sexual poses, without being suspended in the air. Some pieces don’t even require any limbs being in the air, which eventually may be helpful as degeneration progresses.
3. Adult Toys
I understand that toys are not something that everyone is comfortable with, however if degeneration of the muscles progresses it may be a great solution. A common stigma with adult toys is that they are for “freaks” or sexual deviants, which is far from the truth. People from all walks of life enjoy toys and enrich their sex lives with them.
My suggestion is to start off easy. A simple lube and vibrator can make missionary style far more exciting than you’ve ever experienced. An example of a toy we consider to be a “marriage aide” would be the Progressor. It is a bullet vibrator with a c-ring (cock ring) addition. The vibration of the c-ring allows both partners to enjoy simultaneously, while removing it creates an entirely different toy.
“Take your lovemaking to the next level with this ultra-powerful, hi-tech vibrating c-ring. Slip over an erection to experience six extraordinary levels of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. The super-stretchy jelly ring hugs the penis with amazing sensuousness, and the nub-studded pouch transmits pleasure for her.”
Progressor Bullet and C-Ring
I always suggest starting off with a mild toy and a great lubricant. There is no need to overwhelm yourself; on the quest to sexual liberation there will be plenty of rest stops. Disabilities do not have to hinder sex or sexual gratification. As long as the individual(s) understand that finding pleasure starts with exploration. Unless you taste a fruit, you will never know whether it is something you like or not. Don’t be afraid to branch out and try new things. The worst that can happen is a lesson learned.
As always, I am available to answer questions at any time – vforvadge@gmail.com
If you are experiencing low energy, you may be looking for alternatives to your average energy drink. Green tea is a natural energy booster with lots of added health benefits. Matcha tea is the powdered version that’s green tea and loaded with what you need to get that engine running. I had the pleasure of receiving Red Leaf’s Green Matcha Tea for review.
* Disclosure: I got this product as part of an advertorial. *
On a regular basis, I enjoy tea as a breakfast drink. I will also drink it when I am not feeling well, for a common ailments such as menstrual cramps and stomach aches. As we all know, green tea has notably more caffeine than coffee. If you are looking for the light taste of green tea, but not all the caffeine, white tea is for you. Coffee in drinkable form lacks most of the medicinal benefits that white tea offers. White Tea:
Is antioxidant rich (kills free radicals)
Boosts energy
Reduces certain cancer risks
Contains only 1% caffeine content of coffee
Many more
I am typically a tea bag kind of girl (pun intended), but this White Matcha tea proved easy to use. The powder dissolved nicely in hot water, and the remaining sediment settled at the bottom of the cup without disturbing me as I sipped. My tea tasted light and pleasant, so much that I didn’t need any sort of sweeteners. I sipped it throughout my morning at work and felt steady energy up until lunch time. I didn’t get the spike that coffee often brings. If I had a matcha whisk, I don’t know what it would have done to make the experience any better. It tasted good and went down smooth – that’s all I needed.
My next cup will include a little honey for sweetness, but it needs nothing more. I definitely suggest Red Leaf’s White Matcha Tea if you love tea like I do.
You can find it here:
http://www.redleaftea.com/matcha-tea/white-matcha.html
And here:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=B001KNB906 What do you drink to get your day started?
Note: I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.
