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What can happen if I do? Will it ruin my sex life? 

In male human anatomy, the foreskin is a retractable double-layered fold of skin that covers the glans (bulbous end of penis) and protects the urethral opening when the penis is not erect. Male circumcision is the surgical removal of some or all of the foreskin from the penis. (Beverly, 2012)

Many men of various ethnicities and ages have spent their lives living with uncircumcised penises. While many studies claim health and sexual benefits to keeping the foreskin on the penis, some complain of pain and discomfort during intercourse. Weighing out the pros and cons of this major procedure is crucial to making the right decision.

When considering the procedure itself, one must recognize the difference between infant circumcision and adult circumcision. As a baby, the foreskin is thin and easy to cut, while the adult foreskin is loaded with extremely sensitive nerve endings called Meissner’s corpuscles, which help increase penile sensitivity. Once these nerves are cut, they do not regenerate – results may give you no change in feeling (after healing) or no sensation at all.

How It Works: 

Once the penis is numb under local anesthesia, the procedure only takes about 30 minutes. The inside of the foreskin is detached from the shaft using a blunt probe; the foreskin is then grabbed and pulled forward over the head of the penis and clamped straight across with a long forceps. The skin is carefully cut, as not to injure the head of the penis. (Beverly, 2012)

After the procedure is complete, doctors advise that patients do not masturbate or participate in any sexual activity for four to six weeks. Most normal activity can resume in  a matter of days.

Despite claims that circumcision helps fight penile cancer and AIDS contraction, the number of infants being circumcised has dropped over recent years. In 2010, the rate of U.S. male-infant circumcision was approximately one out of every three — 33%. Pretty soon, that may be even lower.

Benefits of Saving Your Foreskin: 

According to polls, The majority of women rate intercourse with an intact male (uncircumcised) as more pleasurable than with a circumcised male. (AskMen, 2011)

Post-adult circumcision, many patients felt regretful for their decision.

Benefits of the Procedure: 

Studies show that adult circumcision increases the amount of time men take to ejaculate, which may be seen as an advantage. This may be due to the weakening of nerve sensitivity – which may mean the man feels less sensation during intercourse.

Any man considering this procedure is urged to consult with a licensed physician prior to making their choice. The surgery cannot be reversed.

Resources:

http://www.circumcision.org/adults.htm

http://men.webmd.com/news/20040202/adult-circumcision-affects-sexual-performance

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer_700/710_adult-circumcision.html

http://www.beverlyoakssurgery.com/urology/adult-circumcision

[dropcap]C[/dropcap]an my vagina fall out?

The answer is yes, but probably not for the reasons you think. This event is called Vaginal Prolapse, and is quite common. Prolapse takes place when muscles are strained beyond their ability to stay in place, and certain repeated actions can trigger this:

• Obesity
• A long-lasting cough
• Frequent constipation/straining
• Tumors on the pelvic organs

Pelvic prolapse tends to be more likely in older women, during or after menopause. Childbirth and prior surgeries in the pelvic area may cause the organs to weaken and fall through. Bladder prolapse is the most common, followed by urethra, uterus, vagina, small bowel and rectum. The organs literally fall through the orifice and protrude from it.

Symptoms of pelvic prolapse include:Feeling pressure from pelvic organs pressing against the vaginal wall. This is the most common symptom.

Other Symptoms of Pelvic Prolapse include:

• • Feeling very full in your lower belly.
  • Feeling as if something is falling out of your vagina.
  • Feeling a pull or stretch in your groin area or pain in your lower back.
  • Releasing urine without meaning to (incontinence), or needing to urinate a lot.
  • Having pain in your vagina during sex.
  • Having problems with your bowels, such as constipation.
  A physical exam as well as a pelvic exam will be necessary to properly diagnose this disorder and treat it according to the specific organ – but a doctor’s visit is a must. The severity of prolapse can vary, and treatment may range from kegel exercises (discussed here) to invasive surgery.
  As always, if you feel pain or discomfort and feel that this may be the cause – please see a doctor immediately.
  Medical Reference from Healthwise.

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From The Writer’s Desk: 

Women ask me all the time about vibrators and how they work. Do they hurt? Does it have to go in me? Will my guy get upset? How do I know what size to get? I don’t know what to do! 

Don’t panic – I’m here to walk you through choosing your first vibrator.

The key is to know what you want out of a vibrator before you even look at one. Are you into penetration? Do you prefer clitoral stimulation? Do you want both?  These are the main points, everything else is secondary.

As for the question of whether your partner will get upset – always remember that sharing is caring 🙂

Nuff Love,

Kimi 

Many options are available. This week, we will begin with:

                                                                                       The Bullet/Egg: 

This is primarily for clitoral stimulation. Some egg shaped bullets may provide mild penetration, but they’re not built to go very far into the vagina. Multi-level bullets give you various stages of intensity, while single-level bullets still get the job done with less.

Also Try:

 Doc Johnson’s Go Vibe for a

quick fix.

Finger Vibe: 

The Finger Vibe can be used by yourself or with a partner, as it provides interactive participation for both of you. A good finger vibrator is multi-level, and  waterproof like the one featured on our store site. It’s small, but very powerful.

Black Steel (AKA “Rabbit”) G-Spot Vibrator:

This is a top-tier vibrator, as it provides multiple methods of pleasure in one package. Rabbit vibrators are the most popular types of adult toys on the market, and come in various sizes with different functions.

The featured Black Steel provides G-spot stimulation as well as clitoral with an added bonus of rotating steel beads inside the shaft. These beads, while working with the vibration power, increase sensation to the G-spot for an awesome experience.

All of these products are available for purchase at our store site –

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Sources:

http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/803194/fun-sex-facts

http://shop.vforvadge.com

What is a UTI? 

Your urinary tract is the system that makes urine and carries it out of your body. It includes your bladder and kidneys and the tubes that connect them. When germs get into this system, they can cause an infection.

Most urinary tract infections are bladder infections. A bladder infection usually is not serious if it is treated right away. If you do not take care of a bladder infection, it can spread to your kidneys. A kidney infection is serious and can cause permanent damage.

How are UTI’s Caused? 

Urinary Tract Infections are often caused by bacteria getting into the urethra (the tube that transports urine from your bladder to outside your body). The germs that usually cause these infections live in your large intestine and are found in your stool. If these germs get inside your urethra, they can travel up into your bladder and kidneys and cause an infection.

Women tend to get more bladder infections than men. This is probably because women have shorter urethras, so it is easier for the germs to move up to their bladders. Having sex can make it easier for germs to get into your urethra.

What are the symptoms?

You may have an infection if you have any of these symptoms:

• You feel pain or burning when you urinate.
• You feel like you have to urinate often, but not much urine comes out when you do.
• Your belly feels tender or heavy.
• Your urine is cloudy or smells bad.
• You have pain on one side of your back under your ribs. This is where your kidneys are.
• You have fever and chills.
• You have nausea and vomiting.

Call your doctor right away if you think you have an infection and:

• You have a fever, nausea and vomiting, or pain in one side of your back under your ribs.
• You have diabetes, kidney problems, or a weak immune system.
• You are older than 65.
• You are pregnant.

How are UTI’s diagnosed?

Urine samples are tested by your physician for bacteria that causes the infection.

 How do I prevent a Urinary Tract Infection? 

Drink lots of fluids (water)

Limit sugar intake (UTI’s tend to be higher in those with diabetes)

For women, urinate right after sexual intercourse

Do NOT attempt to hold urine; if you have to go – do it when possible.

Post-menopausal women may want to ask their doctors about using vaginal estrogen to prevent recurrent UTIs.

Over-the counter remedies are available to fight urinary tract infections, such as pure cranberry juice and plenty of hydration. Please see a licensed physician if you are experiencing symptoms of a urinary tract infection. Only a doctor can prescribe antibiotics to rid you of the infection.

Information courtesy of WebMD