Many men and women are on the constant quest for natural remedies for low libido (sex drive), and the name “Peanut Punch” rings bells for lots of people. It is a very popular sexual energy remedy in the Caribbean, where every island puts their special twist on the blend. Today I decided to put my own spin on the recipe to add a healthy kick for anyone trying to rev it up in the bedroom.
** Note: This post includes affiliate links to help you with the ingredient list – thank me later! **
Helps clear arteries = better blood flow to genitals
It tastes best if the strawberries are frozen when you blend the mixture, it gives off the vibe of a smoothie. You can also leave out the fruit and get straight to the main ingredients. If you’re going for the “Ital” or vegan option, I suggest unsweetened vanilla Almond Milk to give you the smooth consistency. I’m actually tempted to go make one right now before my husband gets home from work…
Peanut Punch Remix
Note:Kimi LeVadge is not responsible for the pregnancies that may result as a consequence of drinking Peanut Punch.
The Dirty Panty Pocket is one of those products that you never realized that you should have invented. Avoid the Walk of Shame – Check out my review video and enter below for a chance to win one of your own!
#KeepYourSelfTidy
Interview with Dirty Panty Pocket’s Owner – Latisha Gallagher:
What inspired You to Start DPP?
As mentioned in my letter, it was an inside joke about where I put my panties. I was a european runway model, nyc it girl, all around globe trotting gal about town. So…it’s safe to say i can live out of my purse for a month. Ha! i food that there are compartments for everything BUT the morning after. And I always had a dirty panty pocket section in my purse or jacket or whathaveyou. It dawned on me that this might help out other ladyfriends too!
Tell Us the DPP Story:
It involves a certain ginger haired gentleman, a restaurant bathroom, and a very long taxi ride to somewhere in Long Island, and a private jet to vegas. But I was prepared! And that’s all I’m saying about that. 🙂
Why is sex ed important?
So people know what they’re doing, duh. That pertains to all areas! Many a life has taken a wrong turn at Albuquerque due to unawareness.
What are your goals for DPP:
I want DPP to be more than just a handbag company. It will be a lifestyle. I have a bag for every possible eventuality. Going out tonight hosting you own version of America’s Got Talent? The Dirty Stay Out clutch. Stuck in an airport? The Passport Pocket zippered clutch. You know that brunch is going to be the usual all day affair? The #daydrunk Bag – it can fit a 6 pack of beers. Met a sexy man last night an now you’re on his plane? The Lost Weekend. Each and every one will have everything you need from toothbrush to linger to snacks to liquor to beachwear, clothing for the stride o’pride, sunglasses and shoes! I’m even devising one for music festivals. That is definitely a place you want to #keepyourselftidy. Dirty Panty Pocket is truly for the lady who is unapologetic about being a woman. The kind of gal that wears her Broad badge with pride. Dirty Panty Pocket will truly be the California Closets of Debauchery.
Get in on the Debauchery – enter below to win a Dirty Panty Pocket Kit Below:
In this podcast, we’re chatting quickly about The Weeknd’s super popular underground song “Thursday,” and the meaning behind being that girl. If you’ve been side-eyeing your lover lately, this post is for you…
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My Thursday Girl Story…
I was on the rebound. My ex and I had broken up for the last damn time, and I had been experiencing a serious dry spell. When you’re a hopeless romantic like me, there’s only so long you can usually go before the loneliness sets in. I tried dating guys that approached me on the street or at the mall, and failed miserably. When you spend most of your life being someone’s girlfriend, you kind of forget how to date and be single. It was a sad sight to see.
This guy was a mutual friend of one of my good friends, and seemed like a good guy. He lived out of town, but I’m no stranger to long distance relationships (my ex lived in New York). We’d Skype, text, and chat on the phone – but he couldn’t talk much because he was working a lot. Or so I thought.
When I’d go OT to see him, I’d always get put up in a nice hotel room because he was going to be at work and I could utilize the gym and other amenities without needing a car to get me around. Once again, so I thought. We did this for a while, and finally he told me that he had a girlfriend. A live-in girlfriend.
Go figure.
Now, things came into perspective. I thought that we could only see each other on certain days because of his days off – but it was because of her days off. I felt like an idiot for months when I realize how I got suckered into being a side piece. Then, I resolved to stop dating for a while and spend time focusing on myself.
The moral of this story is – pay attention. When you realize that you’re not getting the attention you deserve – it’s time to pack up and move the show on the road. Of course, you give benefit of the doubt and discuss the issue with this potential beau before ending things. However, if you are feeling misled – chances are you are being misled. It is easy to ignore the telltale signs until you’re caught up in a situationship and don’t know how to get out. Or – you can be wise and get out before titles get thrown around.
Now, I’m no relationship coach – but the likelihood of contracting a sexually transmitted disease increases with the amount of partners you are sharing with this individual. Unprotected sex is a surefire way to catch an STD, and condoms don’t protect from every single communicable disease. Being with someone who wants to be with you exclusively can minimize your risk of infection – even if there’s no boyfriend or girlfriend title.
We have to protect ourselves – I hope my story can be of assistance to you. Today’s a perfect day to make sure your next Thursday is better.
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Hey Kimi – another random one, lol. This stems from a vine video I just watched…
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This is an excellent example of how urban legends and street chatter can change how we look at sex. Many of us don’t know much about bodily functions, and the smart people don’t want to run the risk of infection. I definitely appreciate the individuals who take it upon themselves to research sex health information – no matter how unique the questions may be.
This gentleman typed in “Pussy Bubbles,” but let’s get a little more medical with our query. Vaginal bubbles can be put into two different categories:
Foamy Substance (Bubbles) On the Vagina:
Typically, any liquid or foam that forms on the vagina is caused by infection. If you watched How to Get Away With Murder last night, Professor Annalise Keating discussed a father and son who contracted Trichomoniasis from the same woman. Sounds gross, but it’s totally possible. According to the CDC (Centers of Disease Control):
“Trichomoniasis is considered the most common curable STD. In the United States, an estimated 3.7 million people have the infection, but only about 30% develop any symptoms of trichomoniasis.”
Symptoms of “trich” can vary from being asymptomatic (no symptoms at all) to severe inflammation (swelling and irritation of the genitals. In men, there may be a burning sensation during urination – which is usually the telltale sign.
“Women with trichomoniasis may notice itching, burning, redness or soreness of the genitals, discomfort with urination, or a thin discharge with an unusual smell that can be clear, white, yellowish, or greenish.”
Sex can be painful while suffering from trichomoniasis, and symptoms can last from months to years if untreated.
Air Bubbles Coming Out of the Vagina:
These are more popularly known as Queefs. Sometimes, air gets trapped in the vaginal cavity and leaves the vagina sounding like a “fart.” This is known as “vaginal flatulence,” and often happens after vaginal childbirth and (more commonly) immediately after sexual intercourse.
About Queefs:
Usually Odorless
Does not contain methane gas like rectal gas
Can be a sign of more serious issues like genital prolapse or rectovaginal fistulas
The action of queefing is biologically normal, but may be considered embarrassing. One great way to minimize vaginal flatulence is to get and keep the pelvic floor and vaginal walls strong through kegel exercises.
Building stronger vaginal muscles reduces air entry into the vagina by clenching more tightly during sex. Adding a drop or two of lubricant may also help by reducing friction between the penis and vagina.
If you feel discomfort or are unsure if your symptoms are “normal,” please seek the advice of a medical profession.
In the day and age of surface piercings and mutilation – penis implants are becoming a popular surgery among men. It’s a somewhat risky procedure, but if successful yields pleasurable results for both partners. There are two types of implants; one for men who suffer from erectile dysfunction and another that is a cosmetic procedure. Today, we will discuss both.
Note: Please be warned – there are graphic photos of genitalia below…
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Penile Implants for ED:
What Is It?
Penile implant surgery is an option for men who suffer from erectile dysfunction but who have not gotten results from other types of treatments. It is a surgical procedure where we implant a prosthesis directly inside the penis and scrotum to allow a man to achieve an erection (UMM, 2012).
Many men utilize these surgeries to remedy erectile dysfunction. Other factors can also affect blood flow to the penis, such as high cholesterol or poor circulation. Consider stimulating blood flow with a penis pump as a non-invasive option.
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How Does It Work?
A penile implant is a device that is placed surgically, either through one incision in the scrotum or through an incision in the lower abdomen, right above the penis.The device is either inflatable or non-inflatable. Typically the device is filled with salt water (saline), and the patient has a pump, which is hidden in the scrotum. By gently pressing on that pump, the salt water travels through a reservoir that is placed next to the bladder and travels into the device itself, which is in the penis. The device in the penis has two chambers, which go into the erectile chambers of the penis. When these are inflated, and the water inflates the device, then the patient achieves an erection. When they are finished, then they can deflate the device.
Before Surgery…
Are there age or health limitations on who can have penile implant surgery?
The implant procedure has been performed on patients as young as 20 years old (trauma patients) and as old as 90. Patients who think they are too old or too sick to undergo penile implant surgery can get successful results in the hands of our experienced team. We have successfully performed the implant procedure on patients with complicating conditions such as diabetes, heart disease, organ transplants, etc.
Are there different types of penile implant surgery?
At the University of Maryland, we offer two approaches to penile implant, also known as sexual restorative surgery. One is the traditional method in which the device is placed through an incision in the scrotum. Another method is the infrapubic penile implant, in which the implant and reservoir are placed through an incision in the lower abdomen, right above the penis. In either approach, we minimize dissection in the penis and spare the patient’s natural tissues.
This procedure takes about 15-20 minutes and is minimally invasive. The patient can go home on the same day as the surgery and down time is only a few days. After the incision heals, it is virtually undetectable as the folds in the scrotal skin will mask any scars.
After Surgery
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Penile Implants for Cosmetics (Graphic Photos):
Penis Implant from Thailand
These inserts are known as Penis Beading, and is very common in countries like Thailand. This “art” dates back as early as the 1500’s and is a growing trend.
Penile Beading
What is it For?
Historically, they were inserted as a mandatory prevention method against sodomy. In current times, they are used more for visual attractiveness and sexual pleasure.
Healing Stitches
How is it Done?
Small slits are cut into the surface of the skin and beads are inserted through these slits. The holes are stitched up and allowed to heal. Removal is done in the reverse order.
Various Sizes of Beads (Photo Credit)
What are the Side Effects?
If done incorrectly, penis beading can cause serious discomfort and/or pain, as well as possible infection if the equipment and environment used is not properly sanitized.
Note: Always research the facility you will use PRIOR to getting the procedure done. A licensed physician or piercing specialist should be used any time a procedure will be done. These are your genitals; any infection can be potentially traumatizing.
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“Idk about all that”
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“I’ve been with a guy who had the diamond in his peen…I didn’t feel any difference“
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“Nah. Cause if something goes wrong, you’re done.”
Kimi LeVadge: “Not really, D. The beading is superficial – it doesn’t cut past the skin. Unless you did it in jail, then I can’t be too sure lol.”
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University of Maryland Medical Center: http://www.umm.edu/urology/ed/implant_ed.htm
Surgery Footage: http://www.garber-online.com/impotence-figures-surgical.htm
Heavy Mods: http://heavymods.tumblr.com/post/30335294949/max-yampolskiy-designed-these-silicone-genital
Squirting Secret, or Simple Sexual Satisfier? The Magic Wand Video Review…
I’ve had people asking what’s so special about the Magic Wand Massager, so I finally made a quick review of the product. If you’ve never owned a “personal massager” before – this is the one for you. At 10 settings and wireless capability, it’s the ultimate in power and functionality. Take a look at the video and judge for yourself!
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Now, rumor has it that if used correctly – the Magic Wand massager is very effective in causing the squirting phenomena that everyone is obsessing over. I can’t definitively say that it works (yet), but I have watched a few “films” that feature it – and it definitely appears to do the job. With the optional attachment heads, it is very much possible to stimulate the g-spot so powerfully that ejaculate is forced out. Maybe one of you can give it a try and let me know how it works…
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Corded Magic Wand
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Whether you choose to use it alone or with a partner, the Magic Wand is definitely powerful enough to create intense sensation.
It’s the stuff of social media memes and jokes, but is it real? Find out more about Micropenis and how it may be affecting someone you know…
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So – what is Micropenis?
Micropenis is an actual medically diagnosed disorder that is commonly mistaken for other conditions. When noticed as an infant, parents have the opportunity to explore treatment measures that become more difficult to perform as the male progresses in age.
How does Micropenis Happen?
During embryo development, a hormonal abnormality seems to take place after the 12th week of gestation.
Diagnosis is done with physical examination of the external genitalia. MP occurs only in XY males (males who possess both chromosomes.) The penis may have a retracted appearance depending on the shaft length and whether the penis is erect or not. The scrotum is still present, but may be underdeveloped.
Measurements are taken with a ruler or caliper while the penis is fully stretched and erect (if possible).
Early diagnosis is crucial because it allows time for exploration of treatment options.
Micropenis is often confused with another genital disorder known as Inconspicuous Penis. This occurs when folds of skin/fat cover the penis and make it less visible. A much simpler issue to correct, Inconspicuous Penis is typically remedied via weight loss.
How is Micropenis Treated?
The primary goal of treatment is to create a comfortable body image for the patient, as he must live with this penis for the span of his life. Finding solutions that increase or create normal sexual function are paramount to successful treatment. Treatments often include:
– Testosterone Treatment
Intramuscular Injections: Includes direct injection into the penis, higher dosages of testosterone are used
Topical Application: Less invasive than injections, enters blood stream through the skin.
– Surgical Treatment
I found a post-operative medical photo example that was safe enough to share with you all. If you’re squeamish about genitalia, scroll no further.
Here is a before and after photo of a patient that has been surgically treated for micropenis. Take a look…
Author’s Note: I wrote this post by request from a reader. Micropenis is a real life disorder that affects a small percentage of men. Those men do exist, and are often in a constant struggle to find happiness both sexually and socially. Please consider this when sharing memes and making jokes – you may unknowingly know someone who is suffering from this issue. Hopefully, by increasing our knowledge of sexual issues, we’ll be able to help our friends and loved ones cope and have successful lives. Be well!
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Hi Vadgesters! Initially this post was scheduled to be a podcast, but I have lost my voice and I sound terrible!
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We all want to bounce back immediately after giving birth, but as we discover – there are newfound levels to recovery post-partum. The challenges that you faced and are currently facing aren’t yours alone – and today we’ll discuss some of the common concerns and misconceptions about sex after childbirth…
1. Your Sex Drive Will Immediately Return
We all know this is false, and there are many reasons for the lack of libido after having a baby. Most of your disinterest can be attributed to the hormones (especially estrogen) going back to normal after carrying a life form in you for so many months. You need these hormones to get wet, to feel aroused and to stimulate that tingle in your vagina. Without it – there’s pretty much no point in trying.
Suggestion: Go on dates.
It takes time to ease back into sex, and part of that starts with increasing the level of intimacy between you and your partner. When you feel comfortable enough to go out without the little one, try scheduling a date night. Go out for a bite to eat, maybe catch a movie or hit up a local poetry lounge. Holding hands, gentle touching and kissing can increase levels of serotonin in the body. Serotonin is linked to mood, sexual desire and function, appetite, sleep, memory and learning, temperature regulation, and some social behavior. Research also shows that it plays a major role in breast milk production, which explains that wave of emotions some mothers feel during milk letdown. Oxytocin also has similar effects, and both are needed to get us feeling back to normal.
2. Your body will look perfect
This is an extremely impractical expectation, but it’s understood due to the bounce back photos in the news and on social media. Seeing a mom in a bikini three days after giving birth can be an ego bruiser for even the most confident of women. It is extremely important to remember that everyone’s body and metabolisms are different. If you were slim before, chances are you will slim down quicker than someone who was not. There are other factors that play a role in your recovery and how you look after giving birth. Peep some scenarios:
This is when a mom schedules liposuction or a tummy tuck to be performed immediately after giving birth. It allows the mom to experience both recoveries at the same time, and have the body she wants. This is often a procedure done when a mommy suffers from diastasisrecti, which is the separation of abdominal muscles.Diastisrecti can cause women to still look pregnant months after giving birth. Mommy Tucks are costly and not always practical or safe.
Suggestion: Check out mommy fitness coaches – like Anowa Adjah. She is my fitness icon right now, because she gave birth to twins (via c-section) almost two years ago and looks like this. She also suffered diastasis recti injuries – can you imagine? It is not an easy process, but her story shows that it is possible to get the healthy body you want – without reconstructive surgery.
The Nigerian Powerhouse – Anowa Adjah
Binding
I always wondered how my grandmother had 13 children and was able to function after giving birth to each of them. The age-old practice of binding (known now as compression or waist training) allows moms to hold their organs in place as they shift back to normal, while constricting the stomach and decreasing appetite. Waist training is very effective, but also has its drawbacks. See my review of post-partum waist training here, and be sure to consult with your physician before trying to do so.
Breast Feeding
It’s not a rumor that breast feeding can help you snap your body back. Studies show that breastfeeding can burn 300-500 calories per day, which can be the kickstart you need to get back in those pre-baby jeans. You don’t store as many calories while nursing, because they are being passed off to your baby, and this works effectively for busy moms who don’t have time to pack on more calories in food. If you can maintain a healthy eating regimen, you can watch the pounds melt away.
Plain ol’ Exercise
Nothing beats it. If you can incorporate even 30 minutes of walking into your day, you will see faster weight loss and an improvement in your overall mood. This is due to the increase in feel-good hormones pumping through the body. Exercise gets the blood flowing to your organs, and that includes your vagina. Blood flow down there increases sensation – and we need that.
Note: Remember that a lot goes into creating a life. Give yourself the same amount of time it took to be pregnant to even start feeling normal. How you feel is far more important than how you look; if you’re not happy – the rest is irrelevant.
There are other biological changes that come with having a baby. Treating your individual issues early can help speed up recovery and get that good tingle back. Some very common post-partum changes include:
These issues happen to most women, but we don’t always see the struggles that other moms are facing. Some of these problems are the reason why it is difficult to engage in sexual activity. Consulting with your OB/GYN can assist you in finding medicinal or holistic solutions to the medical issues that can hold us back from enjoying ourselves.
Sometimes, it’s not the medical things that make it hard to get our sexy time in. The night time feedings, baby crying and overall exhaustion can drain both parents to the point where rolling over seems like too much work. Your body has no time to recover, because it is always on the move, which forces your sexual activity to suffer. You may have all the intentions in the world to give your man the ride of his life, but once you’ve finally gotten the baby down for bed – a pin could drop and wake him/her up. So – how do you remedy this?
Get a babysitter.
Call your mom. Text your best friend. Someone you trust who has experience with babies and doesn’t mind taking care of the little one for a few hours. If you’re blessed to have overnight privileges – cash in that card NOW. Even if you don’t leave the house, those hours of silence are golden and may be exactly what you need to refresh, re-boost and reset. Maybe next time, you’ll actually have sex – instead of sleep!
What post-partum problems are you facing in the bedroom? Share with me and I’ll help you find a solution.
“I have a question, Is it true a female can cum out of her butt? This guy told me a female can do this but I have never heard of this before, I had to ask the expert about this one.”
– Dub Bee, New York
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Hi Dub Bee!
The anus can create its own lubrication, just not typically as much as a vagina. It’s not actually semen or ejaculate, it’s mucous. Membranes create lubrication for bowel movements and often when the stomach is empty. It’s even possible to “ejaculate” this mucous, similar to genital ejaculation. Men and women can do this, by the way.
