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Miami Swim Week + Speed Dating…

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I had a jam packed weekend, and it surely didn’t disappoint. It started on South Beach with Miami Swim Week 2015, with a few of my fellow bloggers; CousinJin of BelleJheanell, Bianca of ElleBStyles, Missy of PopOfStyle and Crissy of CrissysCorner. We definitely learned a lot this weekend, and I look forward to tagging along next year. While I’m not a fashion blogger, swim wear can definitely play a part in how sexy a woman feels during the summer. I took away a lot of valuable coaching info for my clients. Anywhoo – let’s look at the pics, shall we?

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Miami Swim Week 2015 – Through Vadge Eyes…

Miami Swim Week 2015

Of course, a photo op in front of the Miami skyline had to happen. Even in the daytime, Miami has such a sexy vibe with the hot weather and hot bodies. It was nice to peel away from work to enjoy the perks of being a blogger for a bit.

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Miami Swim Week 2015
Bianca and Jheanell on our first food break of the day.

It was such a fast-paced day, we didn’t even have time to eat between fashion shows.

One thing I will stress, as I usually do – is to always stay hydrated! When running the Miami streets, it is crucial to keep water in your system. We had coconut water from the sponsors, as well as cold non-alcoholic drinks as we went throughout the venues. If you want to keep your energy up, stay low on sugar intake and drink as much H2O as you can. Trust me, we were sweating like two freaks in a hot box.

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Miami Swim Week 2015
When the lighting is too sexy to pass up…

I had to take a pic before we stepped out, because I knew the heat was going to drench me in sweat. The glow from perspiration actually gives a nice flushed look to the face – remember this when taking sexy selfies, lol.

Miami Swim Week 2015
@KimiLeVadge, @ElleBStyles + @CrissysCorner at the W Miami Beach…

SmartWater and the W Miami Beach Hotel sponsored this poolside fashion show – talk about sexy! The guests were well-dressed and everyone was so tall (I’m only 5’2)!

Miami Swim Week 2015
Instagram: @kimi_levadge

Check out my blogger girls; BelleJheanell, Elle B. Style, Pop of Style and Crissy’s Corner for full fashion recaps!

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Speed Dating + Singles Mixer with The Cake Shop

After running around South Beach all day, I switched gears (and clothes), and headed out to North Miami Beach for an evening of speed dating. I teamed up with The Cake Shop, Ent. to help Miami’s eligible bachelors and bachelorettes find romance.

Miami Swim Week 2015

We are working together to fill the gap between taken and single. Being single doesn’t have to mean being alone, and it’s totally possible to enjoy the company of other people in your position. Who knows? You may find one that you want to spend more time with…

 

Miami Swim Week 2015
G-Spot Vibes, Travel kits and massage oils for the sexy singles…

Little stations were set up for the singles to browse, and I was on call to answer any questions. The dim lighting made it more comfortable to have sexual discussion – and I’m glad some of the daters felt compelled! I was as modest as a sexpert can be; g-spot vibrators, kegel balls + smart balls, Love Oil and pheromone spray was on display. A lil something for everyone *wink*.

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Miami Swim Week 2015

A good friend of mine, Amber came to support with a few of her beautiful lady friends. We definitely enjoyed a night of laughs and $1 jell-o shots. She’s an amazing community advocate as well; check her out at Marks Community Outreach.

Marks Community Outreach

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I live vicariously through the single people, so it was great to talk about safe sex and intimacy in a smooth setting. We even raffled off goodies from Koitus Kit for the ladies and gentlemen to enjoy!

Koitus Kit

It’s so important for single people to remember sexual responsibility. The Koitus Kit allows you to enjoy your day/night while bringing all the essentials with you in a discreet, small package. I’ll be reviewing it this week – stay tuned!

I had an awesome evening; it was great seeing people exchange numbers, hugs and smiles. If you’re single in Miami and haven’t experienced a Cake Shop event – I suggest you get out to one!

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Up Next: Ladies’ Night…

 

The Ultimate Ladies' Night

The London Eye – Sexy Getaways…

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I am always on the quest to find quick, sexy getaways that are still affordable for myself and my husband. Sometimes I want to go on a trip with my friends, too. My eyes fell onto the London Eye – and now I must get there before the year is over. I’ve been researching things to do there, and there is a super affordable list of activities to do when I get across the pond. This is a great trip for couples or even single men and women looking to find romance overseas. Check it out.

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About the Coca-Cola London Eye:
• At 135 meters high, the London Eye is the world’s tallest cantilevered observation wheel offering guests breathtaking views of the capital.
• The constant and graceful movement of the London Eye gives visitors an ever-changing perspective of the best city in the world.
• Located in the heart of the city on London’s very popular South Bank, the London Eye allows for easy access to the old and new, history, culture and other attractions.
• The Coca-Cola London Eye is the UK’s top paid for visitor attraction, a global icon and a 21st century symbol for modern Britain.
• The Coca-Cola London Eye is centrally located in the heart of the capital, gracefully hanging over the river Thames opposite Houses of Parliament and Big Ben.
• The London Eye is not just a visitor attraction, but a top corporate entertainment venue in London and the perfect choice to celebrate any occasion.
• The London Eye offers great value for money and included in the price is a fantastic 4D cinema experience and interactive guides in the capsules.
• All 32 capsules are fitted with interactive Samsung Galaxy 10.1 tablet guides to help all visitors gain more insight on the sights they can see from the London Eye.
• The London Eye offers great access to the river with an award-winning sightseeing river cruise with live commentary – a perfect counterpoint to the stunning aerial views of London from the London Eye.
• The London Eye has been voted the most romantic destination in the UK and is only second to the Eifel Tower in Europe.

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Sexy Getaways - London Eye

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Turn your Friday nights into an unforgettable experience, with exclusive late night offerings on the London Eye. Every Friday night from 3rd July – 21st August

Summer Lates has returned to the London Eye giving you the chance to enjoy London’s stunning nighttime views with extended opening times on Fridays to 11.30pm. Enhance your night with one of the special tickets listed below.

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Summer Cocktail Experience

Try a cocktail experience with a difference this summer 135 metres above London. Guests will enjoy a variety of original cocktails, created by award-winning The Cocktail Trading Co. exclusively for the London Eye.

The Big Smoke (signature cocktail given to all guests)
A violet and ginger punch

Choose from:
An Eye for Romance
A lychee, rose and bergamot fizz
City Sunset Spritz
A sloe gin, blood orange & rhubarb Spritzer

  • Available on Fridays at 6pm, 8pm and 10.30pm and on Saturdays at 6pm and 8pm
  • Two Summer Cocktails per person
  • Savoury nibbles selection
  • One hour on the London Eye (two rotations)
  • 360 Mini Guide
Adults From
£45.00

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Champagne Experience

Enjoy a glass of Champagne served by your host, while you relax and enjoy the sublime nighttime views of London, in one of the UK’s most romantic spots.

  • A glass of chilled Pommery Brut Royal Champagne
  • 30-minute rotation
  • Save up to 20% online
  • Accompanied entry by personal Coca-Cola London Eye host
  • Complimentary 360° Mini Guide
  • Entry to 4D cinema experience
Adults From
£28.80

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Day and Night Ticket

Enjoy the best of both views with this unique ticket and see the stunning views of London by day and by night.

  • See London by Day and by Night
  • Two 30-minute rotations
  • Save 10% online
  • First admission during 10.00am to 16.30pm
  • Second admission from 16.30pm to closing
  • Entry to 4D cinema experience
  • Samsung interactive in-capsule guides
Adults From
£24.53

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General Tickets

For eight Friday’s this summer you can enjoy the breathtaking views of London from high above the River Thames, all the way until midnight!

  • Save up to 20% Online
  • Entry to 4D cinema experience
  • Samsung interactive capsule guides
Adults From
£19.35

– See more at the official London Eye website 

Do you have dream, sexy getaways you’d like to take? What would you love to do there? 

Sound off and I’ll do a feature on that location for others to fall in love, just like you did! 

Bacterial Vaginosis + My Shower Head…

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Hey Vadgesters! Here’s a great anonymous question that was submitted by one of my readers.  Bacterial Vaginosis affects many women, and can be caused by many factors. I hope the answer helps more than just her. Take a look!

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“I can’t work myself up to buying a vibrator/dildo, so I use my shower head for self-pleasure. However, I have been getting frequent BV infections. I am sure it is due to the pH imbalance I am causing with the shower head. Is there anything I can do to prevent them without giving up my shower head?”

Bacterial Vaginosis is a tricky infection, because it’s caused by so many different factors. It happens when one bacteria that’s normally found in the vagina begins to take over the others. Everyone has bacteria in their genitals; they help the overall function and cleanliness.

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Read More on BV Here 

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The water pH and force of the water may be irritating the normal environment of the vagina, hence the repeat BV issues. One way to fix this, is to test the pH of your water, and see if it needs to be softened (which costs time and money). This is difficult if you are a renter, because all the water in your building is coming from the same source. I’m not sure the landlord/management company won’t blush if you tell them why you want softer water. Try putting the shower head on a lower setting, or holding it further away from you while enjoying the jets.

Another solution – buy a vibrator. Materials on toys are body-safe and made to be hypo-allergenic. As long as you keep your toy clean, your Bacterial Vaginosis worries shall be no more.  Don’t overwhelm yourself; start off with a simple bullet vibrator since you appear to be an external stimulation kind of woman (hence the shower head).  It’ll give you the vibrations and pulsations of the shower head – without all the potential soreness and irritation.

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Which Vibrator is Right for You?

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If you have any more questions – feel free to email me at kimi@vforvadge.com. I’ll gladly walk you through the toy selection process, and refer you to a few BV treatment options as well.

Got an anonymous question? Keep it really discreet and ask me via Ask.fm.

 

Resources: 

CDC.gov

Post Baby Fitness – Train With Spice…

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As a fairly “new mommy” who had a c-section in 2013, post baby fitness has been one of my top priorities. I know how hard it can be to get our bodies back in order. I’ve tried waist training which has its benefits (Read my review here), but I’ve always been a fitness girl. I enlisted the expertise of Danny Spice over the past few months to help me get my body back – and boy, it’s been a journey. It’s only right I share it with you all – in photos.

 Train With Spice

Since I moved to Florida from NY in 2005, I have gone from slim to thick but worked hard to maintain my sexy. After giving birth, however, keeping my sexy got a little bit trickier.  I have always been into weight training, but wasn’t finding the balance I needed to keep my body lean and tone up at the same time. Now, enters Danny Spice. His remote training has been a God send, despite my busy schedule and even busier 1.75 year old.

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This was me when I started. I have always had a hard time with under the bra line  and back fat (one of the hardest spots to burn fat). The c-section gave me this little lower belly puff, too. My breasts were around a 42, waist was at around 32 inches, and bottom 44 inches. I don’t usually weigh myself – too stressful and too fluctuating.

Post Partum Fitness
Before Training with Spice

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The workouts are intense, but time saving – and will guarantee you to bust a sweat from every pore. Even when I don’t follow the regimen to a t (which I should), I stick with the meal plan and have seen serious results.

Post Baby Fitness
Month One, Train With Spice

After the first month, I felt less bloated. The meal plan cut out all the stupid carbs I was wasting my metabolism on (multigrain bagels on my busy blogger days). I stuck to the meal plan vigorously for the first two months and it started getting real! If you look up, you’ll see that my stomach flattened, my back smoothed out a bit and my abs started outlining again. I was ecstatic!

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By May, I was all in. It felt good to start fitting back into clothes I’ve owned for three, four years. Those  Paper,Denim & Cloth camo shorts – pre-baby. Now, I look like they’re mine instead of like I borrowed them from my skinny cousin.

Post Baby Fitness
May 2015

This month, I’ve been super busy – but the meal plan never fails. I give myself one cheat day (Saturdays), and still behave by eating lean and avoiding simple carbs (rice, breads, bagels, etc). I actually enjoy making my own food every day and the repetition makes my cheat meal taste that much better.

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 Read More about Sex and Fitness Here…

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I know my sexy is back. My energy levels are up when I’m working out more, and my libido feels renewed every week. The moral of the story is – any increase in physical activity can help transform your body into what you want it to be. It may not be an overnight change, but it can be done. If you need an extra push in the right direction – a personal trainer is well worth the investment. Even though I’m in Florida and TWS in NY – remote training is working really well for me. On my off days, I pair up with my gym partner or go to yoga to mix it up a little. Even the sexpert needs a kick in the pants every once in a while.

Check out Train With Spice Here – tell him Kimi sent you! 

No, this is not a paid advertisement – I actually paid him for his services… 

Newly Single

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Newly Single | Diary of an Ex-Fiance

Newly single and loving every minute. As a man that is coming out of a 7 year relationship there tons of amazing thoughts roaming free. I finally have the ability to do, think, and say what ever it is I want. Finally I can go home to an empty home, see no one I love, and imagine how much joy it brought speaking to those no longer there. More over I get to be scared and confused about these feelings I don’t understand without the comfort of the person I was most vulnerable with. Better yet I can only hear ghosts of playful laughter and view tokens left by my seeds. Those I helped create, raise, and develop will forever weigh on my heart as I wain from their memories. Best yet I can feel like a failure thanks to the destruction of my relationship only 8 months before our wedding date and forever losing the ability to be a father to MY children.

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Newly Single

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So yeah, I’m only here for the bitches and the drinks. All we do is fuck, drink, and sleep. Most men can’t handle failure in relationships. We act out and usually search and accept comfort from any woman willing to share it. We yearn for that intimacy only found from that woman we loved so much.  So women and sex are things we’ll gravitate towards because it is the closest thing to what we’ve lost. I find myself being more attracted to women with children or those who want children probably in hopes they can fill this gaping hole. The physical pain associated with this heartache is real and at times brings me to my knees but a woman under my arms or sliding on and off my penis would do a great deal to help diminish or subdue this hurt.

Dog or pig I am not. What I am is a product of a broken home and a false belief that boys shouldn’t or can’t express how they feel. I don’t know what to do with how I feel. I don’t know how to feel. I don’t know how to show how I feel. I know that the embrace of a woman comforts me. I know that sex feels good. I know that together they should make me feel better.

Kareem Wright.

A Twerking Butt That Never Gets Tired…

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Can you imagine if that same but heated up on its own and twerked? Behold – the Twerking Butt.

I know, you’ve seen adult toys before. There are even realistic, butt-shaped toys with fleshlights inside that you’d never know were fake if under the covers.

What is twerking, you may ask?

It’s a rhythmic, repetetive butt bouncing motion that was actually made famous by Atlanta dance group – the Twerk Team. Later on, it was attempted (I can’t even say emulated), then thrust into mainstream music videos by Miley Cyrus.  This move, if done right, can create intense sensation during sexual activity and may even work as a great warm up if you’re dancing together beforehand. 

Enough of my rambling, I’ll let PornHub explain how it works….

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Twerking Butt

 

Pornhub Launches TwerkingButt, a New Sensual Device That Blurs the Lines Between Cyber Fantasy and Passionate Reality 

Adult Site Enters the World of Sex Tech with the Launch of a Revolutionary Interactive Adult Toy Meant to Deliver Ultimate Lifelike Sexual Simulation 

New York, NY (July 9, 2015) – Pornhub, the premier online destination for adult entertainment, today announced the launch of its brand new interactive sex toy, the TwerkingButt in partnership with Topco Sales, a leading global adult novelty manufacturer. Designed to provide the ultimate experience in interactive cyber passion, the device features multiple twerking patterns, customizable rhythms, massage speeds, sensual vibrations, and simulated body heat, which can all be custom controlled with the included remote or via your smart phone/tablet (Android or iOS). The TwerkingButt is slated to be officially unveiled to the public at the ANME tradeshow, which is to be held in Burbank, California on July 12th – 14th, 2015.

“We can barely contain our excitement for the new TwerkingButt,” says Corey Price, Vice President, Pornhub. “I think we can honestly say that the release of our new product will mark a new benchmark in the convergence of emerging technology and immersive pleasure to deliver one of the most lifelike sexual simulation experiences on the market today.”

Twerking Butt

The TwerkingButt was developed to replicate the feeling of real intimate contact thanks to its patented CyberSkin technology which warms to an exact body temperature of 98.6 degrees, while also providing ideal levels of friction, elasticity and softness that’s as near to the human sexual experience as possible.

“It took us over 4 years to bring TwerkingButt from concept to reality. Our development team worked tirelessly to combine the latest wireless, APP, and optical technologies as well as our patented Cyberskin, which simulates the sensual feel of true skin-to-skin contact.” says Jimmy Wyne, Director at Topco Sales.

Also included with the product is custom virtual reality goggles and 3D content for a truly immersive experience. Using the TwerkingButt’s companion app, a user can control every aspect of their adventure, from motion to music. This means that the device’s rhythmic vibrations can be synchronized to users’ musical playlists to help achieve peak performance in the palm of one’s hand.

After its scheduled unveiling, the TwerkingButt will hit retail shelves in August, and will be stocked at adult shops both nationwide and internationally. The device will be available in two different versions: classic ($699.00) and deluxe ($999.00). The TwerkingButt companion app, which can be found on Google Play and the iTunes App Store is available free of charge as alternative means of device operation contrary to the wired remote that comes paired with the product itself.

Note: TwerkingButts are currently being sold for a special discounted price for one week only to kick off their announcement. “Classic” units are being sold for $499 (regularly $699) and “deluxe” units for $799 (regularly $999).

Bill Cosby And Why Pudding Can’t Save Him.

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Today I read the news that Black America’s TV father, Bill Cosby – finally admitted to the rape allegations that have been in the media for the past few years.

I had to pause. Then smile.

After that brief moment of relief, sadness took over me. This is just too easy – there has to be more than what’s on the screen.

So, I go on Facebook to see what my peers are saying, and sure enough – we’ve got some defenders.

“Don’t let this distract you from what’s really going on.”

What’s really going on?

You mean, like millions of women getting raped every day? All over the world?

Yeah, that’s really going on.

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Bill Cosby Rape Story

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It baffles me how any self-respecting individual could ever put the potential slander of one man over the shaming of millions of women. Did you really think all of those allegations were unfounded? Decades of druggings and rapings and molestation? No one took any of those women seriously? Now you see why many women don’t bother coming forward.

I mean, what’s the point of telling your friends, when they’re going to advise against calling the authorities? Why go to the hospital for a rape kit, when people will label you and judge from afar? Who’s going to let you cry on their shoulder indefinitely while you heal physically and mentally? You brought this on yourself. Stay home.

That’s what I told myself after a while. The guy I was seeing at the time basically told me I was asking for it. I was “Naive.” You’re right. I was naive to trust someone I’d known for years with the power to allow me an hour to sleep off the drinks I’d had. It was stupid of me to keep all my clothes on (save for my shoes) and curl up into a little ball while I slept under blankets, alone. I was the dumb one for not driving home drunk or sleeping in my car on a sidewalk somewhere on South Beach. Yes, me. Not the friend of my ex who could have just left me alone. Or called his wife and phone boned if he felt so horny.

Silly me.

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But, Bill Cosby is married – why would he do such a thing? Oh, I dunno – for the same reasons that other married men have sex with other women. Thrill, power, a gauge of their manliness. Imagine when the intrigue of those things wear off; when you get tired of the women who actually want you – now you want the ones who don’t. Why don’t they want you, right? They probably just need a little coercing. Maybe a few more drinks, and this roofie will help her loosen up. Would you look at that – it worked! She’s so comfortable, she’s unconscious. Perfect time to make her feel good. Then I’ll generously have my driver take her home and carry her gently to her bed.

A real Prince Charming.

 Bill Cosby Rape Story

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Do we see anything wrong yet? Probably not, I’ll dig deeper. Considering the hypothetical scenario above, and Mr. Cosby’s considerable amount of wealth – what are the odds that a woman with an opposing story would be taken seriously? What would it take for people to believe that she’s not out to get his money? Or take him down as a powerful Black Man? Could he really be a rapist? But he invented Coogi sweaters and Pudding Pops. How did this happen?

It’s simple. Some people are deviants. Male and female alike. Once we as a society come to understand this, just like we understand that serial killers exist – we can restructure how rape is perceived in the world. When we stop acting shy and embarrassed about sex overall – we can take a magnifying glass to sexual assault.

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Molestation. Say it. Mo-les-tayyy-shun. 

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Have you ever even said the word “sexual” out loud before? You know how many people can’t do it without blushing, but have children? It’s scary.

Do I want to come to terms with the fact that one of my children could be sexually assaulted or molested in the future? No, but it’s a possibility. If you’ve watched Law & Order SVU even once in your life you’ve seen a real life rape story. Just like you get sexually aroused when you focus on an object of desire, there is someone out there that gets aroused when someone tells them no. Even more when they decline an advance or push them away. That person is fully capable of plotting their next attack and executing it perfectly. Rape can be completed so well that even the victim is left unsure, but if she thinks she was raped – chances are she was. Believe her, and help her find out what happened. Even if she decides not to pursue any criminal charges – support her. More likely than not – she’s telling the truth.

He gave qualudes to “at least one woman,” “and other people,” according to the deposition. Moral of the story – accolades or wealth don’t make an individual any less of a sexual deviant.

Other people?

*Gasp!* Oh yes honey, men get raped, too. Stay tuned to see what happens next…

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“Truth doesn’t have an expiration date…” – Beverly Johnson

BEFOREPLAY: A Sexual Health Campaign That Works…

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The more I work with Beforeplay.org, the more I appreciate their strides in the sex health world. I pride myself in aligning with other brands that share the same goals and vision, this site is no different. Having sex discussions is not easy, but it’s so necessary for the health and wellness of our world. Check out why Beforeplay.org is a sexual health campaign that works.

By: Greta Klingler

(Family Planning Supervisor, Colorado Department of Health and Environment)

Few things change a person’s life more than becoming a parent. Moving in together, making the choice to commit to a partner for life, changing jobs or rerouting career paths, even buying a car or a home are all huge commitments that certainly change lives in major ways, but there is a major difference between these and getting pregnant. These other things rarely, if ever, happen by accident or without prior planning.

What does happen on accident are nearly half of all pregnancies in Colorado.  So why do so many people find themselves dealing with an “oops” pregnancy?

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Unintended pregnancy is a serious issue with long-term implications, and it’s not just among teens, as some might think. The highest numbers of unintended pregnancy occur among young adults ages 18-29 – more than 15,000 of them each year according to the Colorado Department of Public Health and Environment (CDPHE).  Lack of knowledge about and access to contraception, as well as a certain ambivalence about pregnancy – if it happens, it happens.  Unintended pregnancy can bring real-life consequences to all those involved. Women – and some men – experiencing an unintended pregnancy are less likely to graduate from high school or college, often limiting opportunities to earn a living. Women are also more at risk for intimate partner violence, limited prenatal care (sometimes because of denial that they are pregnant), pre-term labor or having a low-birth weight baby which creates health risks for the child. And children born as the result of an unintended pregnancy are affected as well.  They have a higher risk of experiencing developmental delays, abuse and neglect, learning difficulties and are less likely to be breastfed which can impact their health.  The whole family, communities and our state are affected by unplanned pregnancies.

Over the past seven years, several key players in Colorado have undertaken a multi-faceted approach to address various barriers to individuals planning their pregnancies.  Great strides are being made – capturing the attention of the health care and policy community in the state and around the country – and lives are being improved.  Making contraceptive services more widely available, removing the barriers women face to using the most effective contraceptive methods, advocating for policies, and enhancing knowledge and normalizing conversations about sexual health.

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One of the most innovative aspects is Beforeplay.org, a dynamic public awareness campaign to help young adults ‘Just Talk About It’ o reduce unintended pregnancy in Colorado, particularly among young adults ages 18-29, by normalizing the conversation about sexual health, birth control, STDs,pregnancy planning and other sexual health issues. Using a fresh, realistic look – and sometimes an edgy tone to help break through the noise that surrounds the target audience – Beforeplay.org is relevant to people, and takes on a new look and feel for a public health campaign.  Beforeplay.org provides accurate health information and tools for young adults in Colorado that encourage them to have healthy, informed conversations about sexual health. Beforeplay.org was developed based on statewide research regarding attitudes toward family planning, birth control and STDs and is a partnership of the Colorado Initiative to Reduce Unintended Pregnancy and CDPHE.

Beforeplay.org is anchored by a website (in English and Spanish) that uses an age-appropriate tone to encourage young adults to take control of their sexual health with risk-reduction strategies to lead happier, healthy lives and plan for the future. The website features useful tools for young adults including conversation starters to help  with discussions with partners, friends, family and healthcare providers; a birth control method selector that presents key details about different methods; and a comprehensive health center locator to link young adults to  health providers.

Beforeplay

Since its launch in February 2012, Beforeplay.org has received an amazing response and growing engagement from young adults in Colorado.  The website has attracted more than 3 million views, more than 25,000 people are Facebook fans and people are “just talking about it” through social media and in person.  Various fun posts – like Spring Fever memes – and informatives ones focusing on timely birth control info or issues related to men’s sexual health issues are regular features.

Beforeplay.org staff and more than 170 volunteers also connects with Coloradans at Rockies games, bar crawls, concerts, campuses across the state, art walks and other events helping create a positive atmosphere for thinking and talking about sexual health issues. Sometimes having someone you don’t know broach these issues opens the door for conversations with partners in the future

Beforeplay.org is a major component of a larger state effort to increase access family planning services and information that is being linked to substanital decreases in teen and overall fertility rates, subsequent teen births, the number of abortions in Colorado and other significant improvements in health and well-being. Because Beforeplay.org is part of a broader strategy, it will be challenging to specifically identify its impact on reducing unintended pregnancies in Colorado.  That said, it is certainly filling a large void that existed to create a space for people to get information, tips and connected to health care they need – and making these topics ones worth talking about.

Best Part about Being a Dad – From Dads.

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I love polling real-life people on their feelings, and what better time to do that than Father’s Day? Today, I got great feedback from quite a few fathers today, and I am honored to bring you some of their comments.

Dads!! What’s your favorite part about being a dad? What scared/scares you the most about it? What would you tell youngins wanting to get a girl pregnant?

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Dads

Reg – “That you get to see things thru a child’s eyes one more time is the coolest thing in the world.”

Chris – The best part is watching them grow and learning to do things on their own. I hate it when they’re sick, because I wanna do everything in my power to make my child feel better but all I can do is take them to the doctor and hope it’s nothing serious.

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Dads
Photo Credit: debilevine.com

John – “I think everything about being a father is my favorite part. I just love my girls and being with them and around them. The one thing I will miss when they get older is just have them laying on top of me sleeping it’s a peaceful moment.”

“My only fear is not being around to raise via death I’ve never been afraid to die until I had kids I want to be there for them and raise them show them a better way.”

“If a youngin’ doesn’t have his life together I’ll tell him to wait having a kid is a blessing but you gotta have yourself together first before having one.”

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Andre – “I have a lot of favorite parts, I love watching them learn n them showing me what they know. Both my sons get super excited about learning something new I love it! I was the same way with my pops. The scariest thing is worrying about them getting hurt , not talking scraping n bruises . Talking getting into a bad fight or a bad accident. I was kinda the same way with my younger brother coming up, its a lil worse with my sons.”

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Donald – “No one before has ever depended on you for existence and survival. Not even your wife. That is immense responsibility. The urgency. The immediacy. You can hold them in your hand. And you blink and you need two. And then you blink twice and they are subsisting and motivating on their own. They are faster and smarter than any adult will ever be without the poison of opinion and grey. In their existence it either is or it isn’t and i marvel at that.”

“They force you to be better people and to consider things that were formerly off the table.”

“And you love with no conditions. If you faithful. If you dont get fat. If you have a job. If you do what i say. If i dont outgrow you. Not a single one of those applies to the love you have for a child.” 

“I fall in love daily. I cry at all milestones amd i relish every second. With the understanding that some day she will probably think im the lamest fucking dinosaur ever and my invincibility was a childhood myth. Amd that sometimes Im not a nice person and my choices are not always right. And even after that it would still all be worth it.”

“You probably didn’t ask for all that but such is life.”

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Errol: “Favorite part = watching him learn and grow while figuring things out, watching him do this for the first time really touched my heart a man in the making.”

“Scariest part = one day his mother gonna get hit by lighting and I won’t be there to see it, other than that scariest thing is watching him in pain or sick. I [baby] up quick, I almost slapped the doctor when he had to get his shots for the first time. “

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Franc – “Id tell men to prepare your self for the beauty and headache of being a father 33% of every dollar you earn should go to your child… Respect and honor the mother no matte what… Throw your pride out the window… Educate yourself …”

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I’d love to keep this going. Feel free to add your feedback in the comments below. What’s the best part of being a dad?

HPV Vaccines + Screenings May Reduce Cervical Lesions

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New breakthroughs in HPV Vaccines studies are very encouraging in the sex health world. Not only do we need to build awareness on STDs and the dangers they can lead to, but we need to study these diseases to watch how they evolve and progress. Hopefully these advances can help control and ultimately eradicate the disease overall…

A new analysis indicates that rates of high-grade cervical lesions decreased in young US women after vaccines were made available to protect against human papillomavirus (HPV), but the trend may be due in part to changes in cervical cancer screening recommendations. Published early online in CANCER, a peer-reviewed journal of the American Cancer Society, the study illustrates some of the challenges in monitoring a vaccine’s impact during a time of concurrent changes in screening.

More than half of high-grade cervical lesions, which are abnormal tissue changes that can lead to cancer, are caused by persistent HPV infection that can be prevented if a person receives an HPV vaccine. Monitoring trends in the incidence of these lesions is helpful for evaluating the impact of HPV vaccination.

A team led by Susan Hariri, PhD, of the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, found that in the first few years after HPV vaccination was introduced in the United States (2008-2012), there were large and uniform declines in high-grade cervical lesions in young women across the country who were aged 18 to 20 years, and to a lesser extent, in women aged 21 to 24 years.

Dr. Hariri noted that high-grade cervical lesions are asymptomatic and can only be detected through routine cervical cancer screening. Because screening recommendations were changing during the time period of this study, the investigators also looked at trends in cervical cancer screening utilization. “In particular, screening is no longer recommended in women before age 21 years, and we found substantial declines in screening in 18 to 20 year olds that were consistent with the new recommendations,” said Dr. Hariri. While screening also declined in 21 to 24 year old women, the decreases in screening were much smaller. “We think that the decreases in high-grade lesions in this group reflect changes in screening but also may be partially due to HPV vaccination.” Dr. Hariri added that the greatest benefit of HPV vaccination—reducing the burden of cervical cancer and other HPV-associated cancers—will take many years to evaluate because of the long lag time between infection with HPV and the development of cancer.

In an accompanying editorial, Harinder Brar, MD and Allan Covens, MD, of the University of Toronto, stated that the study is significant because it is the first to look at the incidence trends of high-grade cervical lesions in the post-vaccination era. “The study highlights that while preliminary data demonstrates a drop in… incidence rates, the results may be confounded by the changes in cervical screening guidelines.”

 

Source: Wiley Science Newsroom