There has to be a nice way to say everything – and sometimes your delivery will need
to vary based on the person you are speaking to. Here’s a few suggestions:
If this is a woman you have intercourse with on a regular basis, the two of you will
probably have a good level of communication between the two of you. Always make sure you’re
in private.
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1. “Have you been feeling okay?”
If she answers with a “yes”, it will probably be followed by a “why”.
“I noticed that your scent is a little different – “down there”. I just want to make sure you’re good.”
Odors in the genital region typically signals disease or infection, major sanitary issues – or simply just a little sweat.
If the odor smells fishy – it may be an STD or a vaginal infection like yeast or Bacterial Vaginosis. BV and yeast infections are not necessarily contagious, but they can cause irritation to a male partner if condoms are not being used. Those must be treated by a doctor, and politely asking her to get checked out is probably the best solution.
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2. Nice Smelling Bath Soap.
If this lady is your girlfriend and she comes over often, don’t be scared to purchase
feminine hygiene products from your local Rite Aid or pharmacy. Summer’s Eve and
Vagisilnow carry body washes and wipes catering to the pH of a woman’s lady parts. (Click the names to go to their sites)
Odor is sometimes caused by slight irritation from sperm, and laying around after sex
can definitely bring this on. A quick shower or warm washcloth after intercourse may solve this problem right away.
She’ll think it’s cute that you’ve got soap at the house – just for her. 🙂
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If it’s a one time thing, sometimes a simple text will do the trick. After she leaves your place, of course.
“Hey, I noticed a little odor coming from down there – maybe you should see a doctor.”
She probably won’t be too happy when she reads this, but at least she’ll be conscious of it and get it checked out. It also saves the next person a little trouble, as well as possibly avoiding transmission of an STD.
This past week, world famous Porn Star Mr. Marcus sent out a public apology after single-handedly spreading Syphilisthrough
the California Adult Entertainment population. He caused nationwide panic as filming for many adult films ceased immediately
while production companies got their actors tested.
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While Mr. Marcus did get tested, according to him he only received one of the normal three shots of treatment that are given to patients. This allowed the disease to combat the vaccine and continue to exist in the body.
In addition to this, he left out crucial information when showing proof that he had been tested for STDs. His dishonesty
costed millions of dollars to the industry, and is a topic of discussion everywhere.
According to Adult Video News, he admitted he was diagnosed with the STD on July 12, but continued to perform after getting the results. He also admitted to tampering with the test results from Talent Testing Service.
The women he performed with retested negative for syphilis.
Mr. Marcus did, however, abstain from sex for 10 days per the doctor’s orders and took penicillin until July 24 when he returned to the sex set and hid the results.
“My personal doctor doesn’t know what I do for a living,” Mr. Marcus said. “So his thing was just don’t have any sex for 7-10 days. Once I did that shot I felt pretty confident. Every doctor I talked to up to that point said ‘you get the shot. That’s it.’ If you had the syphilis in your system a lot longer than that you need three shots. But based on what he determined from my blood and looking at my symptoms, he said the one shot was good enough. So I did the one shot and I didn’t have to do anything else.”
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Getting tested is crucial for anyone who is sexually active, as it is the only way to be certain that he/she is not infected.
Many diseases carry no symptoms in certain stages, and some do not show symptoms ever – though they can still be transmitted to another person. Unprotected sex with partners is an easy way to spread disease, which is why usingcondomsis extremely important at all times. Realistically, infidelity does happen sometimes and the chance of being infected exists until proven otherwise.
If you are experiencing symptoms of syphilis or feel you have been exposed to it – see a licensed physician immediately. Only they can properly diagnose and treat disease. Follow directions carefully to avoid transmitting the disease to anyone else during treatment.
In recent news, Syphillis has caused a massive shut down of California’s porn industry. It only takes one person to spread the
disease to many. Knowledge is the number one method of prevention, so on this post we’ll jump into the signs, symptoms and treatments of Syphillis.
Syphillis has four stages, each one carries different symptoms.
Primary Stage (Highly Contagious):
During this phase of syphilis, a sore (chancre) that is usually painless develops at the site where the bacteria entered the body. This commonly occurs within 3 weeks of exposure but can range from 10 to 90 days. A person is highly contagious during the primary stage.
In men, a chancre often appears in the genital area, usually (but not always) on the penis. These sores are often painless.
In women, chancres can develop on the outer genitals or on the inner part of the vagina. A chancre may go unnoticed if it occurs inside the vagina or at the opening to the uterus (cervix). The sores are usually painless and are not easily seen.
Swelling of the lymph nodes may occur near the area of the chancre.
A chancre may also occur in an area of the body other than the genitals.
The chancre usually lasts for 3 to 6 weeks, heals without treatment, and may leave a thin scar. But even though the chancre has healed, syphilis is still present and a person can still pass the infection to others.1
Secondary Stage:
Secondary syphilis is characterized by a rash that appears 2 to 8 weeks after the chancre develops and sometimes before it heals. Other symptoms may also occur, which means that the infection has spread throughout the body. A person is highly contagious during the secondary stage.
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A rash often develops over the body and commonly includes the palms of the hands and the soles of the feet.
The rash usually consists of reddish brown, small, solid, flat or raised skin sores that are less than 2 cm (0.8 in.) across. But the rash may look like other more common skin problems.
Small, open sores may be present on mucous membranes. The sores may contain pus. Or moist sores that look like warts (called condyloma lata) may be present.
In dark-skinned people, the sores may be a lighter color than the surrounding skin.
The skin rash usually heals within 2 months. on its own without scarring. After healing, skin discoloration may occur. But even though the skin rash has healed, syphilis is still present and a person can still pass the infection to others.1
When syphilis has spread throughout the body, the person may have:
A fever of usually less than 101 Degrees F (38.3 degrees C).
A sore throat.
A vague feeling of weakness or discomfort throughout the body.
Weight loss.
Patchy hair loss, especially in the eyebrows, eyelashes, and scalp hair.
Swelling of the lymph nodes.
Nervous system symptoms of secondary syphilis, which can include neck stiffness, headaches, irritability, paralysis, unequal reflexes, and irregular pupils.
Latent (hidden) Stage
If untreated, an infected person will progress to thehidden stageof syphilis. The latent stage is defined as the year after a person becomes infected. After the secondary-stage rash goes away, the person will not have any symptoms for a time (latent period). The latent period may be as brief as 1 year or range from 5 to 20 years.
Often during this stage, an accurate diagnosis can only be made through blood testing, the person’s history, or the birth of a child with congenital syphilis.
A person is contagious during the early part of the latent stage and may be contagious during the latent period when no symptoms are present.
Relapses:
About 20 to 30 out of 100 people with syphilis have a relapse of the infection during its latent stage.2 A relapse means the person was symptom-free but then started having symptoms again. Relapses can occur several times.
When relapses no longer occur, a person is not contagious through contact. But a woman in the latent stage of syphilis may still pass the infection to her developing baby and may have a miscarriage or a stillbirth or give birth to a baby infected with congenital syphilis.
Tertiary (late) Stage:
This is the most destructive stage of syphilis. If untreated, the tertiary stage may begin as early as 1 year after infection or at any time during a person’s lifetime. A person with syphilis may never experience this stage of the illness.
During this stage, syphilis may cause serious blood vessel and heart problems, mental disorders, blindness, nerve system problems, and even death. The symptoms of tertiary (late) syphilis depend on the complications that develop. Complications of this stage include:
Gummata, which are large sores inside the body or on the skin.
Cardiovascular syphilis, which affects the heart and blood vessels.
Neurosyphilis, which affects the nervous system.
Quite a few historical figures have been noted with Syphilis infection – including Napoleon Bonaparte, Henry VIII, Theo van Gogh and Adolf Hitler. While the disease is treatable, it is known to cause psychological disorders in its later stages if proper medical attention is not paid.
Aside from abstinence, Condoms are the best method of protection against Sexually Transmitted Diseases whenever one chooses to have sex. If you are experiencing symptoms of syphilis or feel you have been exposed to it – see a licensed physician immediately. Only they can properly diagnose and treat disease. Follow directions carefully to avoid transmitting the disease to anyone else during treatment.
Trial Packs of Sir Richard’s Condoms were distributed to a small group of women, who took them home to give them a try. The following comments are candid, anonymous reviews of the product.
How was it? No need for detail if you’re not super comfortable.
It was fine. like normal i guess? only thing I can note is good lubrication, cuz I was fresh out of period phase so I wasnt in the mood to be fingered, and it didnt take too much work to..get going, lmao.
So the lube was good?
Yea
Anything else you’d like to add?
Hmm wat else… The packaging is tiny, so you cant use it for disposal, but that’s a small issue.
Ooo, also, idk what the word is, but the condom seems to be a good deodorizer. when I took out the trash there was no “there’s a used condom in here” scent.
Masturbation is defined as “manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure. (Princeton, 2012)” With that being said, it is sexual stimulation using your hands, not sexual intercourse. Intercourse is defined as “sexual activity between individuals, especially the insertion of a man’s penis into a woman’s vagina until orgasm and ejaculation occur.” Since you are not actually penetrating another living being – it is not considered losing your virginity. So, rest assured – you’ve still got your V-Card.
Sources:
Definition of Masturbation and Intercourse: http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=masturbation
The mythical G-Spot has been a topic of controversy for years, with many believing that such a spot does not even exist. Named after the man who discovered it, the (Dr.) Grafenberg spot is said to create super powerful orgasms in women; often resulting in squirting or gushing (those are discussed here). Many uneducated men (and women) mistake this ejaculation for urination and fear achieving these levels of orgasms because they don’t want to pee everywhere. Fortunately for everyone – this is not true.
Despite being released from the urethra (the tubular structure that transports urine) and being watery in texture, doctors state that no urine is involved in female ejaculation (AKA Cum). “In fact, the fluid is released from the Skene’s glands, which surround the urethra and resemble the male prostate (Strovny, 2012) .” It’s not pee – but if you have weak vaginal muscles it can still happen, so be sure to practiceKegelexercises throughout the day.
Enough about the science – let’s move on to the anatomy. Where exactly is the G-Spot?
While exploring these erotic zones – please make sure to practice safe hygiene. Clean hands and nails are crucial in this act, as any dirt or grit may cause infection in her ladyparts. See here for common infections due to poor hygiene.
The best way for a partner to discover her G-Spot.
You are more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused, and using fingers are generally more effective than a penis.
1. Ask her to lie on her belly, legs apart, and hips rotated slightly upwards.
2. Insert two fingers (palm down) and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch.
3. Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen, just above the pubic hairline, and apply a soft, downward pressure. This often helps to stimulate her G-Spot.
Position one
Guide her on to her hands and knees, with her buttocks raised and her head down. Kneel behind her and grasp her by her waist. As you penetrate her vagina in this position the head of your penis will hit her G-Spot automatically.
Position two
Guide her on to her back, raising her buttocks and lower back. As you mount her, gently bend her legs so that her knees touch her breasts. Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.
Position three
Lie on your back, with your legs extended. Have your lady straddle you, with her knees positioned outside your legs, she will be facing your feet with her back turned to you. In this unique position, your penis will easily hit her G-Spot.
Achieving orgasm once the G-Spot is located requires practice and cooperation between two partners. Both must be comfortable in their surroundings and with each other. Do not worry if it isn’t found on the first try – there are plenty more opportunities to try again :).
Before we begin, let’s define what squirting is exactly. Squirting takes place when a woman ejaculates, and the liquid that is produced projects (squirts) from the vaginal cavity. This is similar to “gushing”; where the ejaculate flows out at a heavy pace without the shooting motion. Neither should be confused with regular urination – as they are two different events.
The act of squirting is an accomplishment to some, but if it happens by accident it may be a little intimidating to others. Many couples and individuals alike seek to learn the secrets that cause squirting. Research suggests that it is intense stimulation of the mythical G-Spot (discussed here) that triggers the ejaculation flood gates. Others contest this theory, although there is no evidence to show otherwise.
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As with other sexual feats, the art of squirting should be discussed with one’s partner prior to having intercourse. If achieving this is a goal, then both participants must be on board and prepared for what may or may not come (pun intended). The key to mastering any sexual talent is to be comfortable with oneself as well as your partner. Squirting should never hurt or feel uncomfortable, and participants must also beware of overstimulation due to excessive “practicing”.
Before we start, let’s define the term “Queef.” The formal definition, according to UrbanDictionary.com is “an expulsion of wind from the vulva during coitus; a vaginal fart.” Queefing usually takes place during or after sexual intercourse, and happens to many women everywhere.
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The question is – does queefing make you uncomfortable durng sex? Generally, the answer should be no. Air builds up in the vaginal cavity during rigorous sex, and is usually let out once the penis exits. Noise may escape when the penis tries to re-enter or when the woman relaxes her muscles after sex is done. Most people who have had intercourse before have heard this sound, and it feels about as uncomfortable as gas building in your stomach (at the very most). Queefing should never be painful. Queefing should never smell bad.
The level of comfort you have will depend on how at ease you are with your sexual partner. Understanding that it is a natural occurrence is the first step in getting over the awkward sound. It’s not about the position of sex or the tightness of the vagina – it’s a matter of air being vacuum packed into a confined space, and released when the pressure is lessened. Think of a hot water bottle, or a whoopee cushion. At the very least – it should serve as a great way to share humor with your partner and understand each other better sexually. There’s nothing awkward about that.
If you feel pain or smell anything unusual during this occurrence – please see a licensed physician promptly.
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In the industry of adult novelties, the female is paramount. Stores are lined with toys catered to pleasing women; vibrating bullets, dildos, g-spot stimulators – you name it. Not much is left for the self-pleasuring male – but one product has taken the erotic market by storm. Meet the FleshLight; a silicone vagina alternative. Fleshlight offers various shapes, sizes and skintones for your “pleasuring” pleasure.
Shoppers are encouraged to build their own; with hundreds of combinations available – including a vibrating option. Start with your base/handle, then move to your orifice (choose from “lady,” “mouth,” or “butt”), then pick a texture. Textures vary from “original” and “very tight” to “super ribbed,” and “vortex”. Each texture presents a different sensation that can be intensified by the vibrating option.
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Price points range from $42.00 (Amazon.com) to $55.00 (Fleshlight.com) with many including a discrete storage case to make travel easy and seamless. Reviews can be found here.
Frequently Asked Questions (via Fleshlight.com)
Is this product built to last?
Our soft, pliable, non-vibrating Real Feel Super Skin® masturbation sleeve is made from a patented, high-quality material designed to replicate the sensation of penetrative sex. The molded sleeve comes housed in an atttractive and sturdy canister that resembles an ordinary flashlight, allowing for simple and discreet storage. It’s easy to use and clean, and is 100 percent safe. With proper usage, your Fleshlight will give you a lifetime of enjoyment!
How big is the Fleshlight?
The Fleshlight is approximately 10 inches in length and 4 inches in diameter.
Does it vibrate?
The Fleshlight does not require batteries or electricity to function. However, the Fleshlight Vibro uses 3 Fleshlight Bullet vibrators to produce intense stimulation!
Are Fleshlight sleeves made with latex or plastic or silicone? No. The Fleshlight material is a company secret covered by a series of US patents. No other sex products are built with the same feel and durability as the Fleshlight. Words can not explain this one of a kind product!
Does the Fleshlight material contain phthalates?
Phthalates are defined as “any of various salts or esters of phthalic acid used especially as plasticizers and in solvents.” There is quite a bit of controversy surrounding the use of phthalates in sex toys but Interactive Life Forms, Inc. is pleased to assure it’s customers that the Fleshlight material DOES NOT CONTAIN phthalates.
How do I use the Fleshlight?
Warm your Fleshlight sleeve by removing it from the case and soaking it in a sink/tub filled with warm water. If necessary, drain the water and repeat the process with new warm water. Do NOT boil or microwave your sleeve!Shake off the water and re-insert the sleeve into the Fleshlight case, adjust the tightness of the cap at the bottom to vary the suction, and finish by applying a liberal amount of lubricant to the orifice and yourself. If the Fleshlight still feels too cold to you, then next time try warming the lube in the sink/tub at the same time as the sleeve. The Fleshlight is now ready for use.
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