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Blog Talk Radio – The S&M Show: All About the V…

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Tonight at 11pm, I will be speaking on my first radio interview – how awesome is that? I hope you all will have time to tune in, we’ll be discussing the Vadge and empowering women everywhere. I’ve included the link below, and you’ll be able to call in, log on and ask questions or just listen. Thank you all for your continued support. Let’s vadge out!

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Here’s the full link:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thegreatsandmshow/2014/02/27/the-sm-show-season-2-episode-5

The Best Accessory You’ll Ever Carry…

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I have been stopped at airports on my way to hosting Passion Parties, and there’s something especially humiliating about TSA digging through your bag and emptying out its contents. Imagine a dildo or bullet vibrator coming out. The Lipstick Vibe solves that problem completely, and allows you to travel with your B.O.B. at any and every occasion.  Peep the video, and head over to LeVadge Shop to order one for yourself!

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Love, Life and Style: Passion Parties – What Are They?

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Most women desire to explore their sexual wants and needs, but are afraid to seem “creepy” or “perverted.” Many have questions about what are the best products and techniques for awakening their sex drive or keeping spice in their relationships. Nearly all women want to maintain their sexual health and wellbeing. Some just don’t know where to start.

“Passion Parties is the premier sensual products company in the United States and Canada. We are celebrating 19 years of bringing quality sensual products to men and women throughout North America. Our exclusive line of products is designed to encourage intimacy between partners.

Sensual aids and toys are more popular than ever. Yet many people need or want to be discreet about purchasing such products. Through in-home parties, we bring the value of product knowledge, education, and confidentiality simply not found in the retail environment.”

 

Passion Parties is a great way to explore some of the highest-quality and most popular pleasure products in the industry. The best part about Passion Party products is that they are not advertised on TV or in magazines, but they are tested and approved by women you know and can trust. Nearly everyone has heard about Passion Parties, and it’s because word of mouth is the best advertisement. Nobody recommends products they did not enjoy.

The best part about Passion Parties is that they are held in a comfortable setting, among friends who are trusted and respect confidentiality. Your Passion Consultant will be knowledgeable in her field and ready to assist you with all your needs. There’s no pushy salesperson, just a bunch of friends  enjoying each other’s company – while previewing awesome products. Once you recognize your comfort level, you can select the products of your choice.

It’s that simple.

What Products Are Available?

http://kimikitty23.yourpassionconsultant.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ever heard of the Rabbit Vibrator? Sex And the City ring a bell? Your consultant is the only way to get your hands on this incredible product. The Rabbit Vibrator takes solo play to the next level. With new, updated features and a sleek design – there’s never a wrong time to whip this bunny out (Well, except for when company’s over).

This is just one of the amazing products we offer – Learn more about the “Bunny Shine” Rabbit Vibrator here.  Preview more Passion Party products in future articles.

 

To book a Passion Party, preview our collection or become a consultant – email VForVadge@gmail.com and get in touch with Kimi, your Passion Consultant.

Vadge On, my friends!

 

2014;The Year of Self-Love…

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I realize how taboo sex is. No one wants to talk about it, but everyone is whispering about something new. If no one had sex, the world wouldn’t be overpopulated. Japan mandates smiley faces and animals on their sex toys, because they wish to be “modest” with their sexuality. Ironic, isn’t it? My goal for this year is to teach everyone about self-love. If you can’t please yourself – who will?

Let’s start with the basics.

What do YOU see?

Look In The Mirror

Take off your clothes. What do YOU see? Do you like it? Love it? Hate it?

Forget the things you don’t like – I want you to grab a pen and paper (yes, right now) and scribble down four things you like about your body.

I like my skin tone, I love the curve of my backside, the way my eyes squint when I smile – and my small feet.

What my partner thinks about my body is secondary to the way I feel. He will interact with me based on the vibe I give off.

While transitioning out of my post-baby body, I was a little unsure of how he perceived me – so I worked on how I saw myself.

I started off walking around the house fully clothed, then without pants or with pants and no shirt. Now – I barely keep my clothes on.

He loves it. Of course I asked him how he felt about my body, but his responses were simply motivation.

I realized that my body was mine alone, I have to live in this skin – I must take this temple and enjoy it.

Once you learn that – everything else falls into place. Weight loss, weight gain, fitness, health – all of it is based on how much you value yourself.

Get a Pedicure

Do Something Nice For You

Sometimes, waiting on your significant other to do it is like waiting on Haley’s Comet.

Whether you’re single or not, treating yourself to something nice is a great pick-me-up for those “bleh” days.

Get a pedicure. If this isn’t a pay week, consider buying the polish, remover and grooming kit to do it yourself.

When you take off your socks to get in your bed (or anyone else’s), it’s such a sexy feeling to have soft feet gliding under the covers.

Maybe buy some new music. Lianne LaHavas or Lana DelRey make the perfect music to vibe to.

Lianne La Havas

A huge part of appreciating what people do for you, is realizing that you can do it yourself.

Go get a massage, or buy a nice back massager. Treat yourself to a nice lunch. Take a quiet walk on a sunny day.

Whatever it is, do it for you.

Do It Yourself…

Masturbate

You knew it was coming (pun intended).

Vibrators were invented in the 19th Century as a cure for “hysteria.”

It sounds funny, but doctors were on to something.

“Until the 20th century, American and European men—including physicians—believed that women did not experience sexual desire or pleasure. They believed that women were simply fleshy receptacles for male lust and that intercourse culminating in male ejaculation fulfilled women’s erotic needs. Women were socialized to believe that “ladies” had no sex drive, and that duty required them to put up with sex in order to keep their husbands happy and have children.”

Basically, we were not expected to have sex for our own enjoyment. In this day and age, however, we are empowered to do quite the opposite.

There is nothing wrong with doing it yourself.

Try using your fingers and a drop of lube. Ready for the next step? A simple bullet vibrator will do the trick.

Running water in the bathtub works too (I’ll teach you how to do that another time).

The point is – learning how to please yourself guarantees your empowerment.

When you know what you want in the bedroom, you can get what you want anywhere.

The office, with your friends, on vacation – anywhere.

Sex appeal truly starts from within.

To start a movement – it only takes one. Is it you?

Resources: 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201303/hysteria-and-the-strange-history-vibrators

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Valentine’s Day: Top 5 Sex Toys

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Something romantic for your beau

With Valentine’s only days away, it’s never too late to pick up a few treats for your sweet. I’m bringing you the top 5 adult toys to make sure your Valentine’s Day does not disappoint.

 

 

 

Make other massages jealous
Make other massages jealous

5. Massage Wand

First, your partner asks for a back rub, then BAM – you’re giving a full body massage. A wand is one of the most subtle ways to purchase a vibrator without all the awkward glances away from the cashier. It actually works as relief for aching muscles, but can be used for so much more. Get your hands on a mini-wand, and you can bring the pleasure anywhere.

 

 

 

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4.  TPE Sleeve

Whether you’re single or with your lover for Valentine’s Night – the sleeve is built to satisfy. Constructed to feel like the real thing, a drop of lube makes this the perfect addition to a great night. Partners can use this as a buffer when performing various “love acts,” so there’s never a dull moment.

A man that will stick with you...
A man that will stick with you…

3. Suction Base Dong

Looking for a toy that’s really hands free? Try a dildo with a suction base. Bring this bad boy in the shower for real fun. The strong suction keeps it braced to the wall, so you can enjoy all the perks.

Get A Buzz Tonight
Get A Buzz Tonight

2. G-Spot Vibe

If you’ve never experienced a G-Spot orgasm – now is the time. One of the most intense sensations you could ever imagine, you and/or your partner are in for a big surprise.

 

 

Vibrating Lipstick
Carry your vibes in style

1. Lipstick Vibe

The best invention since – anything. Carry your vibes in style, and no one will be the wiser. This lipstick vibrator may be small, but it’s one-touch motor packs a punch.

Slip it in your purse for an after-dinner treat…

There’s an adult toy to suit any and every need – it’s time that you find out what satisfies you. In the Year of Self Love, the possibilities are endless!

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Awkward Question: How Are Masturbation Sleeves Made?

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I know you’ve been gazing at your toy wondering who came up with such an idea – but do you ever want to know how it’s made? Today we’ll take a look at how the infamous Fleshlight is manufactured, and for your time  – you’ll get a sweet discount on your own masturbation sleeve. You ready?

Masturbation sleeves are used by men to pleasure themselves without having to feel the touch of their own hands. They are shaped like various orifices to suit many preferences. Some of the world’s most popular porn stars have been casted to create fleshlights in the shape of their genitals. In this video, the beautiful Riley Steele casts her mouth and anus for two featured Fleshlights.

Riley Steele

Fleshlights and masturbation sleeves aren’t just for solo play – I’ve created a video on how your partner can join in on the fun.

Video: How to Use a Male Masturbation Sleeve

Handy Sleeve with Manga Box
Handy Sleeve with Manga Box

Enjoy 10% off your very own masturbation sleeve with the code: VADGEHND

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Resources:

http://www.thelmagazine.com/

VideosFleshlight on YouTube

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Love, Life and Style Guest Writer: “My Personal Testimony;” A Story of Abortion and Domestic Violence

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With a topic as sensitive as abortion, I feel that it is important to get the story from many points of view. It is important when making life-changing decisions to know what the effects could potentially be. Mystiqua’s account of her struggle with domestic violence and the abortion that followed is a real-life account that everyone should read.

[quote]”That is not how it works, there are tons of mental and emotional stress that are involved. I went through highs and lows, not knowing if I would be forgiven for such a sin so gruesome. I suffered through a lot of pain, hurt, envy, anger, and distress from it. Not to mention the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a “fiancé” that was abusive to me sexually, mental, and physically. My triumph only came really, after I met my present husband… and I realized that I was indeed forgiven by my Heavenly Father. I was washed clean through the blood of the Messiah.  He prayed with me, studied the Word and helped me to see that not only was I forgiven but I needed to forgive myself. Once I did that and allowed myself that freedom, I was able to move on. Now I try to share my testimony with women that have been through this same thing. Abortion is not a simple remedy…it is something that can haunt you for a very long time. If you let it and not become redeemed by the blood of the Lamb…can haunt you for the rest of your life. It is time to stop running from the issue but talk about it and help these women to see that there is a lot more to it. A lot more than a person can “mentally” handle.” [/quote]

 

About the Contributor:

 

The Mommy LifeStyle Logo
The Mommy LifeStyle Logo

 

Mystiqua is the wife and help-meet to her amazing husband Andre’. She is the mother of their 6 beautiful children, each one adding daily to her joy. Mystiqua is the founder of The Mommy Lifestyle http://themommylifestyle.com which is a blog dedicated to homeschooling (especially in the African American community) and encouraging and building women in their roles as godly wives, mothers, and keepers of the home. All while keeping their own personal feminine style and beauty.

Having endured bitter storms and fiery trials including domestic violence and abuse, Mystiqua is a living testimony of the fulfillment of Yahuah (God’s) promises of beauty for ashes. Having been made free from a life that held her bound, she has a heart for hurting women and her passion is seeing them made whole by the hem of His garment and the power of His love, she knows there is victory on the other side.

 

Post-Partum Compression Wear | VForVadge

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So, how can Post-Partum Compression wear help you?

It is said that a woman must allow herself the same duration that she was pregnant to lose the pregnancy weight. Four months into motherhood, and losing the baby weight was a breeze. For some new mothers, however – getting rid of the pooch proves to be a longer lasting task. 

**Note: I’ve included some affiliate links to help with your shopping experience. You’re welcome! **

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Most (if not all) Caribbean and Latina women know about “faja’s;” they are the shape-wear that many women wear under clothing to smooth the silhouette. After childbirth, many mothers of the new mom will assist her in obtaining shapewear and help to put them on during the daily routine. The faster shape-wear is worn, the faster the healing process can begin. 

 The easiest form of faja is the unitard. It holds you in everywhere. Now, if you have a large stomach it won’t be hidden – but it does smooth out the appearance. This is also beneficial after a c-section as it helps to hold your tender organs in place. The panty-like closure is more comfortable for c-section moms because the pressure is displaced evenly. Mesh unitards can be worn in the shower if necessary, and dried off while getting dressed. I’ll talk about waist shapers at another time.

 


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Compression helps curb hunger by minimizing the space a stomach has to expand, as well as flatten the stomach while the uterus and other organs shift back into place. It is often a lifesaver when getting in and out of bed, because all of the organs are held firmly in place. It saved my life during the first few weeks home with baby.

 

The best part is, it’s undetectable under your clothes. The healing process is your business alone. No one needs to comment on your methods or judge you for them. Check out my pictures and you’ll understand.

 

 

I hope to start more rigorous ab work this week, but my incision is still healing so I have to be careful. I am in no rush, as my husband and I are enjoying the new hips and butt I have gained through pregnancy. It offsets the stomach 🙂 

 

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Ready to get more extreme? Read more about Aggressive Waist Training…

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Feel free to contact me for more questions about compression shapewear for postpartum recovery. I’m always available at vforvadge@gmail.com, or in the contact box below. Talk to you soon!

Vadge Out,

Kimi

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Love, Life and Style; The Weight of a Feather – Book Review

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The Weight of a Feather is a series of random short stories, depicting life’s journeys. Each story “ends” cleverly (or doesn’t end at all), leaving more for the imagination to wonder about. Of course, until the next story snatches your attention.

From trials to triumphs and vice versa, these stories are a warm embrace for anyone who has experienced love, loss and life in general. It begins with the title story, that in reality is a story that many older individuals may relate to. A young girl spends months befriending a “pet” chicken that roams freely on her family property – only to have it make the ultimate sacrifice by ending up on her dining table. My mother once shared the exact life occurrence when she was the same age as the main character. To this day, she is unable to enjoy pets, as she recognizes as an adult that life can be fleeting and unexpectedly disappointing.

One story that was especially poignant to me was “The Negotiation,” where a widowed husband finds a clever way to make sure that his late, dear wife’s car never gets sold. This story struck a special chord, as I recently lost my grandmother in 2013. Mementos are especially important to keep our loved ones’ memories alive. I was left wondering what would come of the old man, and used my imagination to creatively shape his destiny.

The paradigms shift from tale to tale – a mother mourns the lost life of her son by putting herself in a brief exile in “Born Beneath a Balsamic Moon.” She finds very little healing in the pain she mentally inflicts upon herself, but feels it is the only way to feel connected to his soul. A chance encounter with who seems to be a random homeless man creates the epiphany she needs to start life anew. There was beauty in this story; like a phoenix the mother was able to rise from the literal ashes.

Irony plays a major part in “Rainbow Farm (or the Ghost of Christmas Past), as Affirmative Action leads society to a reindeer Santa. I had to chuckle while reading this story, and wonder what inspired it. What life experiences could the author have had to hint at the subtle tragedy of discrimination through such blatant humor.

I will pass this book on to each of my friends who request a good read. As we travel through life, it is crucial to remember the great gifts that we are given. Life itself is a gift that many of us take for granted each day. The Weight of a Feather is a light book, but holds a place in my heart forever.

 

About the Author (By the Author):

I talk too much. I get overexcited when something catches my interest. I’m vegetarian because how can I eat animals? I may as well eat my cat! When time allows, I escape to the bush or the mountains to restore a sense of calm and timeless rhythm to my life.
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With the beat of Africa in my blood, my poetry and my novels are set in this continent, which has deep passion as its heart. The driving motivation of my characters is the search for love in all its forms.
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I write because I believe that words have great power: they can bring comfort, joy and hope. They can reveal secrets and lies. And, while they may not change the world, they can – at their best – change people’s lives, even if only for a moment.

Although I now live in Johannesburg, the economic powerhouse of Africa, my childhood was played out in the Zimbabwean bush. Born in a little village called Zvishavane, I’ve spent most of my life in South Africa. My diverse career path has had me working as a waitress in a steakhouse; as a bartender in an English pub (to earn money to pay for a hot air balloon ride for my Mom and myself!); and as an accountant, which was my career for many years.

Fascinated by evolutionary astrology, I resigned as Chief Financial Officer for an internationally linked accountancy firm when I married one of their partners, and spent the next decade dabbling in writing novels, while studying and practising evolutionary astrology. I loved helping people through crisis times in their lives but, eventually, I was so drained from all the emotional counselling, I decided it was time to follow my own destiny and concentrate on my dream of writing fiction. So…here I am!

Shadow taking charge.

I’m married to Beric Croome and have one furchild, a black cat called Shadow who adopted me in August 2012.

 

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5 Things You Need to Know About Your Vagina

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5 Things You Need to Know About Your Vagina

 

From the Writer’s Desk:

As a fellow vagina owner, I know the importance of being familiar with oneself. Self Love is so important, and I’d like to start by talking about the basics of Vadge care. After all, no one will take better care of it than you will – and that’s the way it should be. Take a look at these facts about your vagina, and get some bonus tips to keep your Hoo Hoo healthy in this winter chill…

Vadge Out,

Kimi


5 Things You Need to Know About Your Vagina

With all the things we have to think about on a daily basis the last thing we want to worry about is what is happening down there. Here are some tips to help keep your hoohoo healthy.

  1. It benefits from exercise.  Just like you do sit-ups to workout your abs, it’s beneficial to workout the muscles in your vagina.  Besides giving you a tighter grip during sex, it also may make it easier to climax. Here’s how you exercise your vagina:  Clamp down as if you’re stopping your urine flow, hold for 10 seconds, then release. Do 3 sets of 15 a day.

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2. It’s just one part of your down-there region. Most of us use the word vagina to refer to our private parts. But technically, the term describes only the narrow canal that runs inside your body from the vulva (the visible area that includes the inner and outer labia, clitoris, and perineum) to the cervix (the lower portion of the uterus).

If you smell something “off”, it might mean that you are off balance or you have an infection. Over cleansing your hoohoo removes all the goodness Mother Nature put down there and added fragrance simply provides another molecule for bacteria to grow on. Use a product that is fragrance free like  and see your doctor if a funky odor persists.

3. Cleansers with fragrances might make it smell worse. If you smell something “off”, it might mean that you are off balance or you have an infection. Over cleansing your hoohoo removes all the goodness Mother Nature put down there and added fragrance simply provides another molecule for bacteria to grow on. Use a product that is fragrance free like healthy hoohoo and see your doctor if a funky odor persists.

4. Wear cotton underwear. Synthetic fabrics can cause irritation to your vagina. Cotton is a much friendlier fabric for your nether regions and let’s “her” breathe.

5. Don’t clean hoohoo with soap. Using soap, no matter how mild and natural, can disrupt your vagina’s pH level (which is naturally acidic) and cause irritation and discomfort. The vagina is a self-cleaning part of the body that does a great job at keeping things regulated.

Wintertime TLC for hoohoo