Being pregnant has its daily quirks, one of which can be strange dreams. If you have had a dream about sex during your pregnancy – you are not alone.

Via Parents.com

Q. I love my husband, but now that I’m pregnant, I’m having lots of erotic dreams, and some have nothing to do with him! The dreams that bother me the most are the ones where I’m having sex with women. I know I’m not gay, so what could these dreams mean?

A. Pregnancy is a time of life when your dreams are wilder than ever. Extra blood flow to your genitals, raised estrogen levels that increase vaginal secretions, and sensitive, enlarged breasts mean your sex drive may be raging. The result? Your pregnancy dreams may reflect your joys and fears about your body in some unexpectedly lusty ways. Moreover, since you’re waking up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom or massage a leg cramp, you tend to remember more of your nighttime imaginings and more vividly.

If your dreams trouble you, keep a journal and try to dissect what they might mean. Remember, dreams are not literal messages from your subconscious but more complex reflections on your life. For instance, if some of your erotic dreams have to do with old boyfriends or strangers, perhaps part of your subconscious is saying a final goodbye to that “lost” self as you cross the threshold into parenthood. And those dreams about women probably have less to do with being a lesbian and more to do with appreciating your body in new ways.

“Now that you’re pregnant, you’re going to be very focused on your body,” says Sallie Foley, a sex therapist and coauthor of Sex Matters for Women (Guilford, 2002). “And your dreams may reflect the fact that you love the new life your body is creating. You’re discovering that a woman’s body is pleasurable, exciting, and powerful in ways you’ve never experienced before.”

Holly Robinson is a writer who lives with her husband and their five children north of Boston.

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Consider talking to your partner, midwife or doctor about the dreams you are experiencing. Sometimes, there are feelings and emotions that need to be released in order to sleep peacefully.

Relaxation techniques may help alleviate some of the weirdness in your dreams. Turning the tv off 20-30 minutes before bed, playing soft music – or reading a feel good book may bring sweeter dreams your way. Having a dream about sex (or ten) is far from unusual, and may be a great way to open a discussion with your partner about your intimate desires.

Have you ever had a dream about sex during your pregnancy? Tell us more in the comments!

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Resources:

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a547388/strange-dreams-pregnancy-sleep

http://www.parents.com

So, let’s talk Aggressive Waist Trainers. You may see them all over your Instagram, Twitter and Facebook timelines and wonder “how do they work?“

**Note – I’ve included a few great affiliate links to help you during the shopping process. You’re welcome! **

This is not a new concept, and we’ve discussed it before on a previous article – modern designers have simply put a practical spin on things. Waist training is a gradual process of waist reduction using a latex waist cincher or corset ,Also known as waist cinching this practice came to prominence during Victorian times.  For medical use,”Belly wraps” were initially used for patients with back pain, and later for recovering liposuction patients. The compression helps to improve posture by increasing abdominal support.

Women’s Latex Sport Girdle Waist Training Corset Waist Shaper by YIANNA

See my previous Compression Wear Post Here

I have since shrunken out of my compression body suit and waist band, and graduated to an aggressive waist trainer. This trainer contains boning, like a corset (because it is pretty much the begginner’s version of one), and creates an hourglass shape by slowly ‘cinching’ the waistline. I chose the aggressive latex vest, because I can exercise in it and sweat out all the toxins absorbed throughout the day.

Check out my progress here 

Typically, results can be seen by the second week of consistently wearing the waist trainer – 8 to 10 hours per day. Proper eating and hydration are crucial to seeing desired results.

Currently, I have noticed a two inch decrease in my waist and I have been wearing it for 8hrs on my second day. When I remove the vest, my waist is still significantly more defined.

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Like to work out, and need comfort while waist training? Check out this belt…

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*This is not a paid advertisement. I have purchased the product with my own funds and used it for personal results.

Resources:

http://prettygirlcurves.bigcartel.com

http://sn3akrfr3akr.blogspot.com

http://www.webmd.com/baby/features/belly-wraps-post-pregnancy-hit-or-hype

Considering male enhancement? I discuss natural alternatives to prescriptions and surgery in this quick podcast. All questions can be answered at VForVadge@gmail.com

Moringa Root (Enhancement of Sexual Energy and Strength):

Known for its medicinal benefits, moringa is native to the sub-Himalayan areas of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan. It also grows in the tropics.

Each part of the plant is used to make medicine or herbal remedies.

Moringa also contains proteins, vitamins and minerals. It is an antioxidant and is known to help protect cells from damage (overall health and wellness).

Moringa is also used to reduce swelling, increase sex drive (as an aphrodisiac), prevent pregnancy, boost the immune system, and increase breast milk production. Some people use it as a nutritional supplement or tonic. Natural male enhancement is one or moringa root’s biggest known attributes.

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Traction Method For Penis Enlargement:

Gradual traction stimulates the growth of the suspensory ligament; corpus cavernosum, and the rest of the penile tissue.

Traction is used to create new tissue for skingrafts, elongation of bones and to create new skin with hair for treating baldness.

Traction showed penis growth in multiple clinical trials over a 4-6 month period. Patience is key for safe, effective penis enlargement.

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Penis Pump for Increased Size:

Effective as a short-term solution to erectile issues and size concerns.

Erections are created naturally by drawing blood to the penis, using a vacuum technique.

Erections can be maintained by using a penoscrotal ring.

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Resources: 

http://www.livescience.com/13820-male-extender-works.html

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/223019.php

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1924986/

Know the risks: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3547530/

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http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/ingredientmono-1242-MORINGA.aspx?activeIngredientId=1242&activeIngredientName=MORINGA

How can I keep it hard for her? I’m so tired these days…

With all the daily stresses of life, sometimes it’s hard to get aroused and stay there. After a long day of work, you may have the desire to please your partner – but find trouble keeping your erection firm for long periods of time. This is often caused by stress and fatigue – but alas, there is hope! Here’s a quick suggestion to get it up AND keep it up.

Behold: The Vibrating Ring.

You may not be big on toys, so consider this a “device” that is designed to strengthen your erections. The elastic ring is installed on the end of the shaft closest to the testicles after erection. The blood used to cause such an erection is then trapped inside of the shaft, which causes the penis to stay harder, longer.

If you want longer lasting play, consider the Progressor; it integrates a c-ring and a bullet vibrator to bring hours of vibration to you and your partner.

Remove the sleeve, and you have a vibrating bullet, perfect for any kind of stimulation.

About the Progressor:

Not only does the ring serve a “medical” function, but it offers the opportunity to please yourself and your partner. Try one on today!

Resources: 

http://passionparties.com

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I have been stopped at airports on my way to hosting Passion Parties, and there’s something especially humiliating about TSA digging through your bag and emptying out its contents. Imagine a dildo or bullet vibrator coming out. The Lipstick Vibe solves that problem completely, and allows you to travel with your B.O.B. at any and every occasion.  Peep the video, and head over to LeVadge Shop to order one for yourself!

Most women desire to explore their sexual wants and needs, but are afraid to seem “creepy” or “perverted.” Many have questions about what are the best products and techniques for awakening their sex drive or keeping spice in their relationships. Nearly all women want to maintain their sexual health and wellbeing. Some just don’t know where to start.

“Passion Parties is the premier sensual products company in the United States and Canada. We are celebrating 19 years of bringing quality sensual products to men and women throughout North America. Our exclusive line of products is designed to encourage intimacy between partners.

Sensual aids and toys are more popular than ever. Yet many people need or want to be discreet about purchasing such products. Through in-home parties, we bring the value of product knowledge, education, and confidentiality simply not found in the retail environment.”

Passion Parties is a great way to explore some of the highest-quality and most popular pleasure products in the industry. The best part about Passion Party products is that they are not advertised on TV or in magazines, but they are tested and approved by women you know and can trust. Nearly everyone has heard about Passion Parties, and it’s because word of mouth is the best advertisement. Nobody recommends products they did not enjoy.

The best part about Passion Parties is that they are held in a comfortable setting, among friends who are trusted and respect confidentiality. Your Passion Consultant will be knowledgeable in her field and ready to assist you with all your needs. There’s no pushy salesperson, just a bunch of friends  enjoying each other’s company – while previewing awesome products. Once you recognize your comfort level, you can select the products of your choice.

It’s that simple.

What Products Are Available?

Ever heard of the Rabbit Vibrator? Sex And the City ring a bell? Your consultant is the only way to get your hands on this incredible product. The Rabbit Vibrator takes solo play to the next level. With new, updated features and a sleek design – there’s never a wrong time to whip this bunny out (Well, except for when company’s over).

This is just one of the amazing products we offer – Learn more about the “Bunny Shine” Rabbit Vibrator here.  Preview more Passion Party products in future articles.

To book a Passion Party, preview our collection or become a consultant – email VForVadge@gmail.com and get in touch with Kimi, your Passion Consultant.

Vadge On, my friends!

I realize how taboo sex is. No one wants to talk about it, but everyone is whispering about something new. If no one had sex, the world wouldn’t be overpopulated. Japan mandates smiley faces and animals on their sex toys, because they wish to be “modest” with their sexuality. Ironic, isn’t it? My goal for this year is to teach everyone about self-love. If you can’t please yourself – who will?

Let’s start with the basics.

Look In The Mirror

Take off your clothes. What do YOU see? Do you like it? Love it? Hate it?

Forget the things you don’t like – I want you to grab a pen and paper (yes, right now) and scribble down four things you like about your body.

I like my skin tone, I love the curve of my backside, the way my eyes squint when I smile – and my small feet.

What my partner thinks about my body is secondary to the way I feel. He will interact with me based on the vibe I give off.

While transitioning out of my post-baby body, I was a little unsure of how he perceived me – so I worked on how I saw myself.

I started off walking around the house fully clothed, then without pants or with pants and no shirt. Now – I barely keep my clothes on.

He loves it. Of course I asked him how he felt about my body, but his responses were simply motivation.

I realized that my body was mine alone, I have to live in this skin – I must take this temple and enjoy it.

Once you learn that – everything else falls into place. Weight loss, weight gain, fitness, health – all of it is based on how much you value yourself.

Do Something Nice For You

Sometimes, waiting on your significant other to do it is like waiting on Haley’s Comet.

Whether you’re single or not, treating yourself to something nice is a great pick-me-up for those “bleh” days.

Get a pedicure. If this isn’t a pay week, consider buying the polish, remover and grooming kit to do it yourself.

When you take off your socks to get in your bed (or anyone else’s), it’s such a sexy feeling to have soft feet gliding under the covers.

Maybe buy some new music. Lianne LaHavas or Lana DelRey make the perfect music to vibe to.

A huge part of appreciating what people do for you, is realizing that you can do it yourself.

Go get a massage, or buy a nice back massager. Treat yourself to a nice lunch. Take a quiet walk on a sunny day.

Whatever it is, do it for you.

Masturbate

You knew it was coming (pun intended).

Vibrators were invented in the 19th Century as a cure for “hysteria.”

It sounds funny, but doctors were on to something.

“Until the 20th century, American and European men—including physicians—believed that women did not experience sexual desire or pleasure. They believed that women were simply fleshy receptacles for male lust and that intercourse culminating in male ejaculation fulfilled women’s erotic needs. Women were socialized to believe that “ladies” had no sex drive, and that duty required them to put up with sex in order to keep their husbands happy and have children.”

Basically, we were not expected to have sex for our own enjoyment. In this day and age, however, we are empowered to do quite the opposite.

There is nothing wrong with doing it yourself.

Try using your fingers and a drop of lube. Ready for the next step? A simple bullet vibrator will do the trick.

Running water in the bathtub works too (I’ll teach you how to do that another time).

The point is – learning how to please yourself guarantees your empowerment.

When you know what you want in the bedroom, you can get what you want anywhere.

The office, with your friends, on vacation – anywhere.

Sex appeal truly starts from within.

To start a movement – it only takes one. Is it you?

Resources: 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201303/hysteria-and-the-strange-history-vibrators

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With Valentine’s only days away, it’s never too late to pick up a few treats for your sweet. I’m bringing you the top 5 adult toys to make sure your Valentine’s Day does not disappoint.

5. Massage Wand

First, your partner asks for a back rub, then BAM – you’re giving a full body massage. A wand is one of the most subtle ways to purchase a vibrator without all the awkward glances away from the cashier. It actually works as relief for aching muscles, but can be used for so much more. Get your hands on a mini-wand, and you can bring the pleasure anywhere.

4.  TPE Sleeve

Whether you’re single or with your lover for Valentine’s Night – the sleeve is built to satisfy. Constructed to feel like the real thing, a drop of lube makes this the perfect addition to a great night. Partners can use this as a buffer when performing various “love acts,” so there’s never a dull moment.

3. Suction Base Dong

Looking for a toy that’s really hands free? Try a dildo with a suction base. Bring this bad boy in the shower for real fun. The strong suction keeps it braced to the wall, so you can enjoy all the perks.

2. G-Spot Vibe

If you’ve never experienced a G-Spot orgasm – now is the time. One of the most intense sensations you could ever imagine, you and/or your partner are in for a big surprise.

1. Lipstick Vibe

The best invention since – anything. Carry your vibes in style, and no one will be the wiser. This lipstick vibrator may be small, but it’s one-touch motor packs a punch.

Slip it in your purse for an after-dinner treat…

There’s an adult toy to suit any and every need – it’s time that you find out what satisfies you. In the Year of Self Love, the possibilities are endless!

For more toy options – visit LeVadge Shop

I know you’ve been gazing at your toy wondering who came up with such an idea – but do you ever want to know how it’s made? Today we’ll take a look at how the infamous Fleshlight is manufactured, and for your time  – you’ll get a sweet discount on your own masturbation sleeve. You ready?

Masturbation sleeves are used by men to pleasure themselves without having to feel the touch of their own hands. They are shaped like various orifices to suit many preferences. Some of the world’s most popular porn stars have been casted to create fleshlights in the shape of their genitals. In this video, the beautiful Riley Steele casts her mouth and anus for two featured Fleshlights.

Fleshlights and masturbation sleeves aren’t just for solo play – I’ve created a video on how your partner can join in on the fun.

Video: How to Use a Male Masturbation Sleeve

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Resources:

http://www.thelmagazine.com/

VideosFleshlight on YouTube

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