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Awkward Questions: Where Is the G-Spot?

Posted August 15, 2012 by Kimani in Sex Health

The mythical G-Spot has been a topic of controversy for years, with many believing that such a spot does not even exist. Named after the man who discovered it, the (Dr.) Grafenberg spot is said to create super powerful orgasms in women; often resulting in squirting or gushing (those are discussed here). Many uneducated men (and women) mistake this ejaculation for urination and fear achieving these levels of orgasms because they don’t want to pee everywhere. Fortunately for everyone – this is not true.

Despite being released from the urethra (the tubular structure that transports urine) and being watery in texture, doctors state that no urine is involved in female ejaculation (AKA Cum). “In fact, the fluid is released from the Skene’s glands, which surround the urethra and resemble the male prostate (Strovny, 2012) .” It’s not pee – but if you have weak vaginal muscles it can still happen, so be sure to practice Kegel exercises throughout the day.

Enough about the science – let’s move on to the anatomy. Where exactly is the G-Spot?

While exploring these erotic zones – please make sure to practice safe hygiene. Clean hands and nails are crucial in this act, as any dirt or grit may cause infection in her ladyparts. See here for common infections due to poor hygiene.

The best way for a partner to discover her G-Spot.G-Spot location picture

You are more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused, and using fingers are generally more effective than a penis.

1. Ask her to lie on her belly, legs apart, and hips rotated slightly upwards.

2. Insert two fingers (palm down) and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch.

3. Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen, just above the pubic hairline, and apply a soft, downward pressure. This often helps to stimulate her G-Spot.

Position one

Guide her on to her hands and knees, with her buttocks raised and her head down. Kneel behind her and grasp her by her waist. As you penetrate her vagina in this position the head of your penis will hit her G-Spot automatically.

Position two

Guide her on to her back, raising her buttocks and lower back. As you mount her, gently bend her legs so that her knees touch her breasts. Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.

Position three

Lie on your back, with your legs extended. Have your lady straddle you, with her knees positioned outside your legs, she will be facing your feet with her back turned to you. In this unique position, your penis will easily hit her G-Spot.

Achieving orgasm once the G-Spot is located requires practice and cooperation between two partners. Both must be comfortable in their surroundings and with each other. Do not worry if it isn’t found on the first try – there are plenty more opportunities to try again :).



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About the Author


A NY transplant in Florida, Kimani has taken on the task of educating the world on sexual health and education. The Mount Vernon native has seen AIDS and HIV spread through her community like wildfire, and hopes to cease the transmission of these and other diseases one person at a time. If you know better, you're inclined to do better.

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