Energetic. Stimulating. Maybe even a bit unnerving. All of those adjectives, in a sexual context are absolutely delicious…And all can come from simply having someone eat your pussy well, or from your basic missionary position. Nothing new there.

But what if that’s what you want, that exciting and potentially earth-shattering sexual experience? You’re tired of the same ol’, same ol…You want something that arouses you differently. Something sensual. And maybe most of all, something unusual.

That’s where you enter the world of fetish, and perhaps if you’re really adventurous, “untraditional” sex. Things with names like BDSM, ménage á trois, swinging…Activities with out-of-place names like water-sports, cum-swapping, and paraphilia…

Now, before we go any further, please understand that, in all instances, your personal safety and health – and that of your partner(s) – should be paramount, both mentally and physically. So, before you decide to engage in any of these behaviors, make sure you’re taking precautions. At all times, practice safer sex, and be with a person or people you trust.

With that said, let’s get into it.

I had my first sexual experience early in life. While it wasn’t physical, it was still a sexual experience. It occurred when I inadvertently observed one of my babysitters (a neighborhood girl) engaging in – no, let’s keep it real – getting fucked by who I can only assume was her boyfriend. She thought I was sleeping in another room of the house. But I wasn’t.

I wasn’t repulsed by seeing what I saw. I wasn’t scarred by it. If anything, I was intrigued by it. Dare I say, mentally aroused by it.

The sight of that teenage boy vigorously fucking, what even I knew then to be a beautiful girl, was intensely interesting to me. When she wrapped her ankles behind his head and he drove into her, hard and deep, making her both pant and blurt out unintelligible utterances, I remember thinking “that is what I want to do…I want to make girls feel good.” You see, I knew, even at that age, that what she was feeling, what she was experiencing was pleasure. Unadulterated, simple and base, pleasure. I knew then that power could come from delivering pleasure.

And since that moment, I’ve been dedicated to finding whatever I could do to bring a woman that same, intense pleasure.