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“The Side Chick Quotient”; Why You + Her = <3

Posted October 10, 2014 by Kimani in Love. Life. Erotica.

She’s the woman we all worry about; the chick that swoops in and seduces your man in the club. The sexy girl at the supermarket reaching seductively for eggs. You wonder if he’d take her home, and worry that he will – but after this, you’ll hope that he does…

Nene Alter Egos

So, why would you want a side chick near your man? With divorce rates in America at almost 50%, 6,646 divorces per day and over 46,000 per week – that’s one marriage ending every 13 seconds! These odds seem stacked against matrimonial happiness, which is why the side chick may be beneficial to you. Today, she is you. I’ll teach you how.

Why would I want to be the side chick?  

Let’s think about it. 56% of people surveyed in a recent national study said infidelity was the reason for their divorce. 73% said lack of commitment aided in their choice to end the marriage. In said study, “about half of divorced individuals said they wished they or their ex-spouse had tried harder to work through their differences (USV, 2014). Bringing “another woman” in the mix could rekindle a few flames and get the engines roaring.

Now, before you attack me for my crazy idea, let me explain. In this situation – you will become the side chick. She’s everything your man seeks that he feels you aren’t providing.

“But, I do it all, Kim. I cook, clean and take care of home. What else am I supposed to do?”

You take care of home, but do you take care of him? Are you satisfying his needs outside of the kitchen (or maybe in the kitchen, lol) and when the kids go to bed? If your answer is no, let me pour you some tea. We need to talk.

Marriage is more than sharing in financial and household responsibilities. Same thing goes for domestic partnerships or long term couples. It’s all about staying attracted (and attractive) to your partner and keeping the spice in your marriage. Sometimes this involves stepping out of your routines and comfort zones to reach for something daring. Being a side chick takes guts – are you ready?

Next: How to Be a Side Chick in 5 Easy Steps…

  Note: I

That person must have the will and desire to be faithful in order to have a successful relationship. The purpose of this editorial is to shed light on the importance of intimacy in a committed relationship. We often get caught up in the motion of life; work, school, kids, family, stress – and forget to show our partners love. Transforming into an alter ego and giving them the business guarantees that they’ll know for SURE that you haven’t forgotten about his/her needs. I promise.

About the Author


A NY transplant in Florida, Kimani has taken on the task of educating the world on sexual health and education. The Mount Vernon native has seen AIDS and HIV spread through her community like wildfire, and hopes to cease the transmission of these and other diseases one person at a time. If you know better, you're inclined to do better.

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