How is Low Testosterone Treated?

But Wait, What is Low Testosterone?

Treatment options are available; including  (but not limited to):

Hormone Creams and Gels:

 The most common type of therapy is gel therapy, which is used by approximately 70% of patients. Men simply rub a gel onto their shoulders or upper arms after taking a shower.

Testosterone Injections and Patches

Bead implants are small plastic/silicone balls filled with testosterone. They are implanted under the “skin of the buttocks and the hormone is secreted over a 3-4 month period.

 Testosterone enters the bloodstream directly through these methods, offering an effective response. Oral testosterone exists, but experts believe they have negative effects on the blood stream.

What Can I Expect From Hormone Treatment?

Results vary by each individual, but most men see an improvement in energy level, sex drive and overall erection quality. Bone density, physical strength and muscle mass may increase in some men.

If you or your partner are experiencing symptoms of low testosterone, be sure to seek the advice of a licensed physician. Self-diagnosis can lead to incorrectly treating a condition.

Resources:

http://www.webmd.com/men/guide/testosterone-replacement-therapy-is-it-right-for-you

http://www.urologyhealth.org/urology/index.cfm?article=132

While we pride ourselves in sexual education here at VForVadge.com, we are a community of sexual beings who seek a healthy outlet for our feelings and thoughts. I received an anonymous piece of erotica that I would like to share with you all. Take a moment to read, “An Anonymous Confession of My Breast Obsession.”

I don’t know if it was my adaptation to married life and the acceptance that if I was going to be committed to my marriage that “extracurricular” full on sexual activity would not be an option; perhaps it was always a lingering fixation that hadn’t come to fruition and would remain dormant until my 30’s. Whatever it is, I am breast obsessed! There are certain things of the human anatomy that we tend to take for granted when they are a part of us. Gone are the days of boyish boisterous boasting of penile splendor. I don’t even imagine, as I did insanely in my youth that anyone would care to see it, prompting me to whip the monkey out during any and nearly every make out session. As I sit here however, on my side of the fence, I realize that I want to see the breasts of nearly every woman I consider attractive, but appealing to me in even the most casual (often platonic) way.

Burdened with the sorely painful knowledge that all breasts, nipples and areole are as unique as fingerprints I burn in my desire for the knowledge of them. V necks, blouses, bikini tops and even turtle neck sweaters are a taunting denial, mere puzzles in the enigma of glorious mammary knowledge. I have an affinity for the unintentional (better known as the nipple slip) and the awkward anxiety of my social interaction of women I know is appeased with the inadvertent or voluntary knowledge of the fact that I have “been to the land of milk and honey.”

My sexual frustrations abated. We can be friends. I don’t need to behave in typical manly fashion with unwanted advances. I am content. I have seen your breasts.

The crisis for now in some peculiar Oedipus-like fashion, has been averted.

I give you, my breast obsession.

 – Anonymous

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What Do I Do if I Always Finish First?

I also wanted to ask you a question. Unlike many women who have a problem reaching orgasm. I happen to be extra sensitive so sometimes I finish before him. Is there anything I can use so I last longer?

You’d be surprised how many people share the same issue. You can start by stimulating him before yourself  – maybe orally or manually. It can provide you with a delay for a few minutes. There are also numbing cremes or sprays that desensitize the genitals to a certain degree, if method one doesn’t work.  

If I use a numbing cream will it effect him as well?

 If you’re not using a condom, he may get a slight buzz, but not much. If you orgasm before him, you can still seal the deal orally, manually or with a masturbation sleeve.

Or – Consider using a condom to lighten the sensation a little. 

Find a masturbation sleeve here

Wow, that’s sexy. What was Beyonce doing?

In the Partition video, “Yonce” is exhibiting a style of sensual expression called “boudoir.” A boudoir is a lady’s private bedroom, sitting room, or dressing room. The term comes from the French verb bouder, meaning “to be sulky.” The term boudoir can also describe a style of photography. The theme “creates a sensual image of the subject ‘in boudoir style,’ most popularly, candid photos of the individual partly clothed or in lingerie. Nudity is typically implied/suggested. Photo subjects participating in boudoir are typically inspired by upcoming wedding days, anniversaries or birthdays. Other popular reasons are Valentine’s Day, recent weight loss or surgery or for servicemen/women overseas.

Today, let’s talk about what Queen Bey has taught me about Boudoir and being sexy.

1. We Can Do It All Year Long.

The great part about it is that there doesn’t need to be a special occasion. If you wake up feeling sexy one morning, pull out your cute undies for evening time. If the two of you have a day off, spend it home alone together. Sometimes we get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, and forget the sexy things.

Read: How to Spice Up the Bedroom

Boudoir is a great way to ease into spicing up your love life. If you’re single, it is empowering to know that you can still be sexy for yourself. Understanding what makes you feel your best is a key component in building a healthy relationship. Pick a free day when you’re not expecting any company. Designate it as you time.

2. I Don’t Have to Buy Anything

Use what you have at home; a bath robe, sexy PJ’s – or even just bra and panties that look cute together. My favorite sexy home look is thigh-high socks, boy shorts and a comfy tee. Enjoy the soft fabric across your skin. Revel in the little things.

3. My Partner Can Join

Okay, so I can’t dance like Beyonce in her Louboutin heels. I can, however, practice a few moves in the mirror while she sings. If he’s still shy about participating, he sure can watch…

4. Sometimes, Bedhead is Sexy

My unruly afro doesn’t always make for a sexy, curly look when I get out of bed. One solution I’ve found is a flirty satin scarf or headband.

Let your hair peek out somewhere; either through the top or out the front.  You’ll look even sexier when your partner doesn’t have to wait three hours for you to get ready. 😉

5. I Am Sexy

In “Partition,” Bey is daydreaming about doing something frisky for her man. I realized after watching the video, that we all universally want the same things. No matter what, shape, size, skintone, height, hair texture – your partner is going to find you sexy regardless. Why not give him/her a little treat?

Wanna start off easy? Throw your own Boudoir Passion Party with a few friends! What better way to practice than with your girls?

Get Yours! 

This week, I had the honor of attending Latham Thomas’ Mama Glow meet-up. South Beach set the mood for a beautiful Miami day, and the event did not disappoint. It was a day of meditation, relaxation and reflection for mothers, expecting mamas and ladies hoping to start families.

En route to the Mama Glow event

We began by introducing ourselves and despite our varying professions, most of us had common ground in blogging or website ownership.  After getting the formalities out of the way, Latham initiated a brief meditation session; chanting “om” and allowing ourselves to expel the rushed energy we built up navigating the metro traffic. It was awesome. She talked about the importance of mothers taking time for themselves, and allowing time for personal restoration and care. Health and sexual energy was a great topic of discussion, as we can’t make babies without both factors.

My cousin (and fellow mommy blogger) Jheanell (Belle Jheanell) met a lovely lady on our way into Soho Beach House, and flowed into the event in the breeze of her aura. To our surprise, that beautiful spirit was Tracy Mourning. She engaged us with her life story, struggles and triumphs – right before sharing her non-profit lovechild; HoneyShine, Inc. I fell in love with the concept, and hope to work with her very soon.

Tracy Wilson Mourning

About HoneyShine:

Founded as the Honey Shine Mentoring Program in 2002 by Tracy Wilson Mourning Honey Shine has grown in many ways over the last 10 years, in 2010 Honey Shine received 501c3 status as Honey Shine, Inc.  Honey Shine’s mission is to encourage the balance of mind, body and soul in girls and young women by providing nurturing experiences that enlighten their paths and empower their future.

The “Aspire to Shine” workshops offered to the girls in the program, who are affectionately called ‘Honey Bugs’, address life-skill lessons and educational experiences that involve: health, nutrition, sex, and drug education; career mapping and education.

Workshops are held at a variety of South Florida attractions outside of the girls’ own communities; to help them in the development of personal goals, self-respect and self-esteem; financial literacy; journaling, self-exploration and expression.

Latham and Tracy shared the floor gracefully, and Mama Glow had my attention. The concept not only revolves around mothers, but around women as a whole. We all share the same organs, and deserve the same level of care.

Latham Thomas

About Mama Glow:

Mama Glow is an abundant, radiant energy that comes from within. It’s about your initiation, birthing yourself as a powerful woman, as you prepare to give birth to your bundle of joy. Birth is our rite of passage, and Mama Glow is our birth rite—to walk in grace, power, and wisdom, to have understanding, reverence, and trust in our bodies. Having faith in the benevolent universe and being an active participant in the co-creation of your fabulous life. This act of standing in your power ignites a force within that glows from the inside out. It’s a personal style that reflects confidence, beauty, radiance, and balance.

Different walks of life, united by the desire to find happiness within ourselves. The discussions touched on a myriad of topics; settling around motherhood, fertility and taking care of self. What felt like an hour was actually four, and we walked out feeling renewed, refreshed and bonded. I met a group of awesome women who may never be in the same space ever again. Like Ice Cube said – “today was a good day.“

Group Shot at MamaGlow with Latham Thomas

South Beach, Miami

Belle Jheanell, Kimi LeVadge and Chanell Nicole – mommy bloggers

Resources:

http://bellejheanell.com

http://www.honeyshine.org/

http://mamaglow.com/

http://www.sohobeachhouse.com/

Being pregnant has its daily quirks, one of which can be strange dreams. If you have had a dream about sex during your pregnancy – you are not alone.

Via Parents.com

Q. I love my husband, but now that I’m pregnant, I’m having lots of erotic dreams, and some have nothing to do with him! The dreams that bother me the most are the ones where I’m having sex with women. I know I’m not gay, so what could these dreams mean?

A. Pregnancy is a time of life when your dreams are wilder than ever. Extra blood flow to your genitals, raised estrogen levels that increase vaginal secretions, and sensitive, enlarged breasts mean your sex drive may be raging. The result? Your pregnancy dreams may reflect your joys and fears about your body in some unexpectedly lusty ways. Moreover, since you’re waking up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom or massage a leg cramp, you tend to remember more of your nighttime imaginings and more vividly.

If your dreams trouble you, keep a journal and try to dissect what they might mean. Remember, dreams are not literal messages from your subconscious but more complex reflections on your life. For instance, if some of your erotic dreams have to do with old boyfriends or strangers, perhaps part of your subconscious is saying a final goodbye to that “lost” self as you cross the threshold into parenthood. And those dreams about women probably have less to do with being a lesbian and more to do with appreciating your body in new ways.

“Now that you’re pregnant, you’re going to be very focused on your body,” says Sallie Foley, a sex therapist and coauthor of Sex Matters for Women (Guilford, 2002). “And your dreams may reflect the fact that you love the new life your body is creating. You’re discovering that a woman’s body is pleasurable, exciting, and powerful in ways you’ve never experienced before.”

Holly Robinson is a writer who lives with her husband and their five children north of Boston.

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Consider talking to your partner, midwife or doctor about the dreams you are experiencing. Sometimes, there are feelings and emotions that need to be released in order to sleep peacefully.

Relaxation techniques may help alleviate some of the weirdness in your dreams. Turning the tv off 20-30 minutes before bed, playing soft music – or reading a feel good book may bring sweeter dreams your way. Having a dream about sex (or ten) is far from unusual, and may be a great way to open a discussion with your partner about your intimate desires.

Have you ever had a dream about sex during your pregnancy? Tell us more in the comments!

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Resources:

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a547388/strange-dreams-pregnancy-sleep

http://www.parents.com

So, let’s talk Aggressive Waist Trainers. You may see them all over your Instagram, Twitter and Facebook timelines and wonder “how do they work?“

**Note – I’ve included a few great affiliate links to help you during the shopping process. You’re welcome! **

This is not a new concept, and we’ve discussed it before on a previous article – modern designers have simply put a practical spin on things. Waist training is a gradual process of waist reduction using a latex waist cincher or corset ,Also known as waist cinching this practice came to prominence during Victorian times.  For medical use,”Belly wraps” were initially used for patients with back pain, and later for recovering liposuction patients. The compression helps to improve posture by increasing abdominal support.

Women’s Latex Sport Girdle Waist Training Corset Waist Shaper by YIANNA

See my previous Compression Wear Post Here

I have since shrunken out of my compression body suit and waist band, and graduated to an aggressive waist trainer. This trainer contains boning, like a corset (because it is pretty much the begginner’s version of one), and creates an hourglass shape by slowly ‘cinching’ the waistline. I chose the aggressive latex vest, because I can exercise in it and sweat out all the toxins absorbed throughout the day.

Check out my progress here 

Typically, results can be seen by the second week of consistently wearing the waist trainer – 8 to 10 hours per day. Proper eating and hydration are crucial to seeing desired results.

Currently, I have noticed a two inch decrease in my waist and I have been wearing it for 8hrs on my second day. When I remove the vest, my waist is still significantly more defined.

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Like to work out, and need comfort while waist training? Check out this belt…

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*This is not a paid advertisement. I have purchased the product with my own funds and used it for personal results.

Resources:

http://prettygirlcurves.bigcartel.com

http://sn3akrfr3akr.blogspot.com

http://www.webmd.com/baby/features/belly-wraps-post-pregnancy-hit-or-hype

Considering male enhancement? I discuss natural alternatives to prescriptions and surgery in this quick podcast. All questions can be answered at VForVadge@gmail.com

Moringa Root (Enhancement of Sexual Energy and Strength):

Known for its medicinal benefits, moringa is native to the sub-Himalayan areas of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Afghanistan. It also grows in the tropics.

Each part of the plant is used to make medicine or herbal remedies.

Moringa also contains proteins, vitamins and minerals. It is an antioxidant and is known to help protect cells from damage (overall health and wellness).

Moringa is also used to reduce swelling, increase sex drive (as an aphrodisiac), prevent pregnancy, boost the immune system, and increase breast milk production. Some people use it as a nutritional supplement or tonic. Natural male enhancement is one or moringa root’s biggest known attributes.

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Traction Method For Penis Enlargement:

Gradual traction stimulates the growth of the suspensory ligament; corpus cavernosum, and the rest of the penile tissue.

Traction is used to create new tissue for skingrafts, elongation of bones and to create new skin with hair for treating baldness.

Traction showed penis growth in multiple clinical trials over a 4-6 month period. Patience is key for safe, effective penis enlargement.

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Penis Pump for Increased Size:

Effective as a short-term solution to erectile issues and size concerns.

Erections are created naturally by drawing blood to the penis, using a vacuum technique.

Erections can be maintained by using a penoscrotal ring.

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Resources: 

http://www.livescience.com/13820-male-extender-works.html

http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/223019.php

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1924986/

Know the risks: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3547530/

http://shop.vforvadge.com

http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/ingredientmono-1242-MORINGA.aspx?activeIngredientId=1242&activeIngredientName=MORINGA

How can I keep it hard for her? I’m so tired these days…

With all the daily stresses of life, sometimes it’s hard to get aroused and stay there. After a long day of work, you may have the desire to please your partner – but find trouble keeping your erection firm for long periods of time. This is often caused by stress and fatigue – but alas, there is hope! Here’s a quick suggestion to get it up AND keep it up.

Behold: The Vibrating Ring.

You may not be big on toys, so consider this a “device” that is designed to strengthen your erections. The elastic ring is installed on the end of the shaft closest to the testicles after erection. The blood used to cause such an erection is then trapped inside of the shaft, which causes the penis to stay harder, longer.

If you want longer lasting play, consider the Progressor; it integrates a c-ring and a bullet vibrator to bring hours of vibration to you and your partner.

Remove the sleeve, and you have a vibrating bullet, perfect for any kind of stimulation.

About the Progressor:

Not only does the ring serve a “medical” function, but it offers the opportunity to please yourself and your partner. Try one on today!

Resources: 

http://passionparties.com

http://shop.vforvadge.com 

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