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Awkward Question: Adult Circumcision – Should I Do It?

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What can happen if I do? Will it ruin my sex life? 

In male human anatomy, the foreskin is a retractable double-layered fold of skin that covers the glans (bulbous end of penis) and protects the urethral opening when the penis is not erect. Male circumcision is the surgical removal of some or all of the foreskin from the penis. (Beverly, 2012)

Many men of various ethnicities and ages have spent their lives living with uncircumcised penises. While many studies claim health and sexual benefits to keeping the foreskin on the penis, some complain of pain and discomfort during intercourse. Weighing out the pros and cons of this major procedure is crucial to making the right decision.

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When considering the procedure itself, one must recognize the difference between infant circumcision and adult circumcision. As a baby, the foreskin is thin and easy to cut, while the adult foreskin is loaded with extremely sensitive nerve endings called Meissner’s corpuscles, which help increase penile sensitivity. Once these nerves are cut, they do not regenerate – results may give you no change in feeling (after healing) or no sensation at all.

How It Works: 

Once the penis is numb under local anesthesia, the procedure only takes about 30 minutes. The inside of the foreskin is detached from the shaft using a blunt probe; the foreskin is then grabbed and pulled forward over the head of the penis and clamped straight across with a long forceps. The skin is carefully cut, as not to injure the head of the penis. (Beverly, 2012)

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After the procedure is complete, doctors advise that patients do not masturbate or participate in any sexual activity for four to six weeks. Most normal activity can resume in  a matter of days.

Despite claims that circumcision helps fight penile cancer and AIDS contraction, the number of infants being circumcised has dropped over recent years. In 2010, the rate of U.S. male-infant circumcision was approximately one out of every three — 33%. Pretty soon, that may be even lower.

Benefits of Saving Your Foreskin: 

According to polls, The majority of women rate intercourse with an intact male (uncircumcised) as more pleasurable than with a circumcised male. (AskMen, 2011)

Post-adult circumcision, many patients felt regretful for their decision.

Benefits of the Procedure: 

Studies show that adult circumcision increases the amount of time men take to ejaculate, which may be seen as an advantage. This may be due to the weakening of nerve sensitivity – which may mean the man feels less sensation during intercourse.

Any man considering this procedure is urged to consult with a licensed physician prior to making their choice. The surgery cannot be reversed.

 

Resources:

http://www.circumcision.org/adults.htm

http://men.webmd.com/news/20040202/adult-circumcision-affects-sexual-performance

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dzimmer_700/710_adult-circumcision.html

http://www.beverlyoakssurgery.com/urology/adult-circumcision

Awkward Question: Can My Vagina Fall Out?

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[dropcap]C[/dropcap]an my vagina fall out?

The answer is yes, but probably not for the reasons you think. This event is called Vaginal Prolapse, and is quite common. Prolapse takes place when muscles are strained beyond their ability to stay in place, and certain repeated actions can trigger this:

  • Obesity
  • A long-lasting cough
  • Frequent constipation/straining
  • Tumors on the pelvic organs

Pelvic prolapse tends to be more likely in older women, during or after menopause. Childbirth and prior surgeries in the pelvic area may cause the organs to weaken and fall through. Bladder prolapse is the most common, followed by urethra, uterus, vagina, small bowel and rectum. The organs literally fall through the orifice and protrude from it.

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Symptoms of pelvic prolapse include:Feeling pressure from pelvic organs pressing against the vaginal wall. This is the most common symptom.

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Other Symptoms of Pelvic Prolapse include:

    • Feeling very full in your lower belly.
    • Feeling as if something is falling out of your vagina.
    • Feeling a pull or stretch in your groin area or pain in your lower back.
    • Releasing urine without meaning to (incontinence), or needing to urinate a lot.
    • Having pain in your vagina during sex.
    • Having problems with your bowels, such as constipation.
    A physical exam as well as a pelvic exam will be necessary to properly diagnose this disorder and treat it according to the specific organ – but a doctor’s visit is a must. The severity of prolapse can vary, and treatment may range from kegel exercises (discussed here) to invasive surgery.
    As always, if you feel pain or discomfort and feel that this may be the cause – please see a doctor immediately.
    Medical Reference from Healthwise.
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How to Make Fireworks in the Bedroom All Year Round…

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This weekend celebrates America’s independence; when the sun’s up we’ll see barbecue on the grill, cold drinks and lots of heat.  After dark, the fireworks really start the celebrations. Today, we’ll talk about how you can set those fireworks off in your bedroom tonight – or any night for that matter. Finding new ways to surprise your partner can keep the spice in a relationship for years to come. You ready?

Mentholate Your Mouth

Mentholate Your Mouth…

Try brushing your teeth before kissing your partner or going down on him/her. The minty paste will create a cooling sensation on the genitals and on the tongue. Toothpaste will generally last about 10-15 minutes, so you may have to brush again to repeat the feeling.

Nibblers Nipple Balm: Flavored Foreplay Fun

For a longer lasting sensation, try Nibblers.

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Soaked Cotton Balls


Drench a cotton ball in a sweet liqueur like amaretto or crème de menthe, then run it down his treasure trail and around and behind his testicles, licking up the liqueur as you go and planting tiny kisses on his most responsive body parts. “The alcohol will evaporate quickly, leaving behind a tingly, cool sensation,” says Joan Elizabeth Lloyd, author ofTotally Private: Answers to Questions Lovers Long to Ask.

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Pillows

Using pillows in varying positions not only provides leverage for yourself and/or your partner, but if done correctly, can bring increased sensation to your erogenous zones.

While in the Missionary position, prop your back up with two or three  pillows. This will allow more blood to flow into your genitals, which increases sensitivity and strengthens orgasms.

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Panty Hose
“Wrap a pair of nylons around your hands like gloves,” advises Paget. “Then give him a slow, sensual hand job through the fabric.” Why he’ll be in ecstasy: It’s easier to massage his penis through the sheer, silky nylons than with a dry hand. “And he’ll also be turned on by feeling this ultrafeminine fabric on his skin,” adds Lou Paget, author of The Big O: Orgasms.

Need your pantyhose for work? Try the Smitten instead…

Need those Pantyhose for work? Try using the Smitten instead…

Pop Rocks
Pop Rocks During Oral?

Pop Rocks

Not only do the exploding candies make kissing more exciting, but it can make oral sex “pop off,” too.

Put a generous amount in your mouth during foreplay. Allow your saliva to accumulate, then begin fellatio.

The popping candy will create a gentle crackle and  pop will create a unique sensation while you pleasure your man.

Order ANY product from LeVadge Shop – get a free pack of PopRocks with your purchase. 

Try at least one of these new tricks per month for a definite good time. Sexual adventure is the key to an awesome love life – why not sweeten it up a bit?

If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask me:

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Resources: 

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Vibrators: Which One is Right for You?

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That’s me! #Repost By @irickyvasquez “This very special tube of lipstick is a girl’s best friend! PRESS PLAY. ▶️✔️ | All the benefits of sex toy store, none of the creepy dark aisles. Enjoy shopping in the privacy of your own home – online, or custom order by text/email. Bridal shower gifts available by request. Sex health coach @Kimi_LeVadge brings it all to you – with free local delivery… #RickyVApproved ✅✅✅”

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From The Writer’s Desk: 

Women ask me all the time about vibrators and how they work. Do they hurt? Does it have to go in me? Will my guy get upset? How do I know what size to get? I don’t know what to do! 

Don’t panic – I’m here to walk you through choosing your first vibrator.

The key is to know what you want out of a vibrator before you even look at one. Are you into penetration? Do you prefer clitoral stimulation? Do you want both?  These are the main points, everything else is secondary.

As for the question of whether your partner will get upset – always remember that sharing is caring 🙂

Nuff Love,

Kimi 

Many options are available. This week, we will begin with:

                                                                                       The Bullet/Egg: 

This is primarily for clitoral stimulation. Some egg shaped bullets may provide mild penetration, but they’re not built to go very far into the vagina. Multi-level bullets give you various stages of intensity, while single-level bullets still get the job done with less.

                                     

Also Try:

 Doc Johnson’s Go Vibe for a

quick fix.

Finger Vibe: 

The Finger Vibe can be used by yourself or with a partner, as it provides interactive participation for both of you. A good finger vibrator is multi-level, and  waterproof like the one featured on our store site. It’s small, but very powerful.

Black Steel (AKA “Rabbit”) G-Spot Vibrator:

This is a top-tier vibrator, as it provides multiple methods of pleasure in one package. Rabbit vibrators are the most popular types of adult toys on the market, and come in various sizes with different functions.

The featured Black Steel provides G-spot stimulation as well as clitoral with an added bonus of rotating steel beads inside the shaft. These beads, while working with the vibration power, increase sensation to the G-spot for an awesome experience.

All of these products are available for purchase at our store site –

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Sources:

http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/803194/fun-sex-facts

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Urinary Tract Infections (UTI); Symptoms and Treatments

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What is a UTI? 

Your urinary tract is the system that makes urine and carries it out of your body. It includes your bladder and kidneys and the tubes that connect them. When germs get into this system, they can cause an infection.

Most urinary tract infections are bladder infections. A bladder infection usually is not serious if it is treated right away. If you do not take care of a bladder infection, it can spread to your kidneys. A kidney infection is serious and can cause permanent damage.

How are UTI’s Caused? 

Urinary Tract Infections are often caused by bacteria getting into the urethra (the tube that transports urine from your bladder to outside your body). The germs that usually cause these infections live in your large intestine and are found in your stool. If these germs get inside your urethra, they can travel up into your bladder and kidneys and cause an infection.

Women tend to get more bladder infections than men. This is probably because women have shorter urethras, so it is easier for the germs to move up to their bladders. Having sex can make it easier for germs to get into your urethra.

What are the symptoms?

You may have an infection if you have any of these symptoms:

  • You feel pain or burning when you urinate.
  • You feel like you have to urinate often, but not much urine comes out when you do.
  • Your belly feels tender or heavy.
  • Your urine is cloudy or smells bad.
  • You have pain on one side of your back under your ribs. This is where your kidneys are.
  • You have fever and chills.
  • You have nausea and vomiting.

Call your doctor right away if you think you have an infection and:

  • You have a fever, nausea and vomiting, or pain in one side of your back under your ribs.
  • You have diabetes, kidney problems, or a weak immune system.
  • You are older than 65.
  • You are pregnant.

How are UTI’s diagnosed?

Urine samples are tested by your physician for bacteria that causes the infection.

 How do I prevent a Urinary Tract Infection? 

Drink lots of fluids (water)

Limit sugar intake (UTI’s tend to be higher in those with diabetes)

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For women, urinate right after sexual intercourse

Do NOT attempt to hold urine; if you have to go – do it when possible.

Post-menopausal women may want to ask their doctors about using vaginal estrogen to prevent recurrent UTIs.

Over-the counter remedies are available to fight urinary tract infections, such as pure cranberry juice and plenty of hydration. Please see a licensed physician if you are experiencing symptoms of a urinary tract infection. Only a doctor can prescribe antibiotics to rid you of the infection.

Information courtesy of WebMD

Getting Sexy the Natural Way: Jolie Bloom Soothing Body Butter Bar

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As you all may know, I am a modern day hippie; I enjoy mostly natural items in my daily life. This includes body care items, especially because they are absorbed into our pores and eventually blood stream. Anywhoo – I have had the honor of previewing Jolie Bloom’s Soothing Body Butter Bar; which is a luxe combination of essential oils and oatmeal compacted in an awesome bar shape.

Let’s talk about it, shall we?

Jolie Bloom Oatmeal Body Bar
Jolie Bloom Oatmeal Body Bar

 

Now, the instructions were to apply while my skin is damp. Clearly, I don’t follow directions very well, because I took it into the shower and rubbed it on after rinsing off. I felt silly, but after I rubbed the “lotion” in, my skin was über soft!

Jolie Bloom Body Butter Bar
Jolie Bloom Body Butter Bar

 

I went to Atlanta on a business trip, and was pleasantly able to pack my bar without having to worry about TSA guidelines. The maximum amount of lotion allowed is 3oz, definitely not enough to last an entire weekend! The cute cardboard box also makes great transport.

Jolie Bloom Body Butter Bar

Did I mention that the ingredients are super easy to understand? No parabens, phthalates, chemicals – just all natural goodness:

Shea Butter, Cocoa Butter, Mango Butter, Beeswax, Oats and Jojoba Oil.

I am here for the MANGO BUTTER!!

 

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I highly recommend the body bars for anyone who likes to be moisturized; they last all day and leaves no residue. My pores look and feel awesome, even on my elbows and knees. It’s definitely a sexy feeling

to get undressed after a long day and have your skin look and feel touchably smooth. I rubbed it on my face and discovered that it acts as a super luxe lip balm. I kept rubbing my lips together all morning, lol.

The story behind Jolie Bloom can be found in the video above – it’s an awesome concept and definitely an inspiring way to get through your day. If you don’t feel good on the inside, it shows on the outside – and vice versa. I’ll be ordering tomorrow on the official launch day!

There’s more than just moisturizers and bath bars – Jolie Bloom also offers deliciously scented candles, too. Just take my wallet now.

Get your JolieBloom products here

Note: I was not paid for this review. I received a product sample and chose to write about my experience.

Men; What Your Hands Say About Your Penis…

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What Your Hands Say About Your Penis…

Growing up, us girls heard a lot of urban legends about how to gauge a “man’s” size. As teenagers we were told big hands and feet equaled big peen. In my adult life, I heard that you could “guestimate” the length and girth using the thumbs. Now, scientific evidence shows that we weren’t that far off. The answer lies in the fingers…

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Via Men’s Health:

We dare you to not look at your hand after reading this: Guys with shorter index fingers than ring fingers tend to have bigger penises than guys with the opposite digit scenario, finds a new study in the Asian Journal of Andrology.

How did researchers get this information? Very carefully. While men who came in to a Korean hospital for urological surgery were anesthetized, scientists measured consenting patients’ penises. (“Thanks for coming in for penis surgery! Mind if we measure it while you’re knocked out?”)

Fun fact: Since shorter members stretch more than longer ones, the stretched measurement—used by the researchers—is more telling about the size of an erect penis. Other researchers measured the patients’ index and ring fingers.

What Your Hands Say About Your Penis...
“Let me see your hands…”

The connection: The testosterone men get exposed to while they’re still fetuses controls both penis and finger length, the researchers explain.

The early testosterone exposure reflected in your fingers (and elsewhere) affects you in many other ways, explains Denise Brooks McQuade, a scientist at Skidmore College not affiliated with the study. Guys with shorter index finger than ring fingers—known as a low digit ratio—tend to have a higher risk of prostate cancer, be better at sports and financial trading, and have higher sperm counts.

We know by now you’ve 1) Looked at your hand and 2) Adjusted your hand’s position so that your index finger looks shorter. Want to figure out your digit ratio for real? Watch this video from Men’s Health to learn how to accurately measure it. (You can quit feeling self-conscious now: The average size of an erect penis is a not-at-all-intimidating-to-think-about 5.5 inches.)

Now that you know what your hands say about your penis, are you on your way to measure?

Resources:

http://news.menshealth.com/what-your-hand-says-about-your-penis/2011/07/04/

http://www.menshealth.com/video/useful-stuff/what-your-fingers-say#/search/finger/created/a/1 

Wintertime TLC for Your HooHoo

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As the temperatures drops each year and we start putting on extra layers, it’s a great time to check-in with your most precious parts and make sure they too are getting ready for a healthy, happy winter.

Here are a few tips to keep your girlie parts in tiptop shape this season:

As you start layering-on the leggings, jeans and long underwear, please remember that girlie parts need to breathe. The pelvic area needs air circulation to keep both sweat and bacterial growth in check. A great opportunity to get some airtime is while you sleep. Leave those panties on the floor and let her breathe at night.

A great opportunity to get some airtime is while you sleep. Leave those panties on the floor and let her breathe at night.

In addition airing her out, wear natural fabric as much as possible. Nylon and polyester underwear and pantyhose react differently to sweat and bacteria, often trapping moisture and odor. Here are some healthier alternatives:

If you’re wearing fewer dresses and skirts in favor of tight-fitting jeans and leggings, rethink the thong. These “no panty line” favorites are also really good at transferring bacteria from back to front. Enough said.

Even though the temps are cold and a hot bath sounds delish, keep those baths free of harsh soaps and bubble bath additives. Bar soaps, body washes and bubble bath liquids can remove the delicate vaginal flora. This protective mucosal membrane acts as a barrier, keeping bad bacteria at bay.

As colds and flu proliferate in winter, be mindful of antibiotic use, which kill normal protective flora. If that cold turns into a visit to the pharmacy, when you’re finished with your antibiotics, follow-up with eating extra helpings of unsweetened yogurt to help repopulate the good guys in your system.

Ok you’re good to go! Now toss-on a few layers, grab your skis, snowboards, snowshoes and sleds and have fun this winter with your healthy hoohoo!

Via Healthy HooHoo

Enter My Summer Fling $150 Amazon Gift Card Giveaway!

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So, in celebration of my birthday and the first days of summer – I’ve linked up with some of my favorite bloggers to bring you an awesome giveaway! The winner gets a $150 Amazon Gift Card to spend on whatever he/she wants. Summer’s here, and who wouldn’t love extra cash to enjoy it with?

Follow the rules below and gain your entries now! 

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A special shout out to the BLM (Bloggers Like Me) team for getting together with me and hosting this giveaway!

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