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Hey Vadgesters!

I am so into social media, and I have become enamored with the rapper Plies and his new movement called “Sweet Pwussy Satday.” Now, if you couldn’t decode that – it stands for Sweet P*ssy Saturday; a day to hold the vagina up in reverence as it deserves to be – and cater to its every need. Plies gives weekly accounts of his vaginal escapades on Instagram, and when you’re able to understand him – they are quite entertaining. Part of the fun is deciphering what he’s saying in the first place.

Anywhoo – I decided to give my ladies some tips to help them get ready for Sweet Pwussy Satday. We may think these tips are a given, but many men and women can attest to experiencing Pwussy (Vadge) that was the opposite of sweet. Let’s make sure we’re prepared – ladies…

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5 Ways to Prepare Your Vagina for Sweet Pwussy Satday…

1. Shave/Wax.

I suggest getting your hands on a good shave cream, like the ever so famous Coochy Rash Free Creme. This helps keep the area protecting your vagina looking neat. Whether you choose to keep some hair is up to you, but keeping a low profile helps your partner to navigate you better.

2. Exfoliate

Whether you shave or not – exfoliating the mons area of the vaginal region can help to soften the skin and the hair. Being touchably soft can be the difference between getting treated like pie or getting the boot.

3. Keep It Clean

As simple as that sounds, sometimes it needs to be revisited. If a shower is not available at the time (long flight, after a jog, etc.) – freshen up with unscented wipes. If you’re able to hop in the tub, try to choose a soap without parabens. You can add as many tabs as you want using this technique. Chemicals in soap and body wash can create irritation and sometimes infection. Air your vagina out for as long as you can before putting on clothing.

4. Hydrate.

Water, water – everywhere. The key to good sex is lubrication, and the key to lubrication is water. If you’d like to see “jucier,” more wet vagina – sip water through the day. Every day – not just Sweet Pwussy Satday.

5. Pick the Right Recipient

Once you let someone in, there’s no changing that. Please be sure to be choosy in who you allow around your vagina. It is a sacred, important place that must be respected.

Bonus Tip – ask him to take out his golds (gold teeth) if he has any.

I hope you enjoyed this special Saturday post, and that you keep the Sweet Pwussy Satday alive!!

 “Save The Balls” Campaign; Porhnub’s Movement To Raise Awareness for Testicular Cancer Awareness Month 

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As a sex health advocate, I take pride in discussing causes specific to certain diseases and illnesses. Now that cancer has hit close to home – it means even more to me that we all take initiative and get checked out. Pornhub happens to be one of my favorite sites for umm – research, but they are also crusaders in the fight against testicular cancer. Through their “Save the Balls” campaign, the leader in porn stands to bring awareness to millions – including readers like you. Please Like and Share this page by clicking in the box to the left after you read – you never know who’s life you may save…

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Pornhub, the premiere online destination for adult entertainment, today announced its “Save The Balls” campaign to raise awareness for Testicular Cancer Awareness Month. As part of the campaign, Pornhub has released its first ever public service announcement (PSA) to be featured on special full length videos uploaded to Pornhub by Babes.com, Twistys, Reality Kings and Brazzers. The campaign, which will run through April, will also feature a “Save The Balls” landing page, where you can go learn more about the disease that is the leading cause of ailment in men between the ages of 18 and 35.

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Pornhub has teamed with globally recognized advertising agency McCann-Erickson to develop the “Save the Balls” public service announcement, which depicts adult actress Charlotte Stokely using a life-size phallic model to instruct viewers on the proper methods for performing self-examinations, and check for unusual lumps or bumps in the “ol’ coin purse.” The video, which begins with a suggestive tone, quickly hits home with a message that asserts the importance of regular, and unfortunately overlooked, self check-ups to identify potential risks and aid in the early detection of testicular cancer.

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“The incident rate of testicular cancer has been increasing for decades. With nearly 55 million visitors to Pornhub each day, we wanted to do our part in raising awareness towards combating this disease,” said Corey Price, Vice President, Pornhub. “Pornhub has had its share of successful philanthropic initiatives in the past and this is no one different. Our main demographic aligns with those who are most affected by testicular cancer. By encouraging our user base to perform self-examinations we can truly ‘Save The Balls’ of fans and viewers around the globe.”

Pornhub’s decision to tap into its partnerships with the largest adult studios and websites in the world will ultimately maximize potential reach of its public service announcement via the unique integration, thus ensuring millions of impressions daily. The site aims to use this opportunity to continue its sustained presence in health advocacy and awareness, a position previously established with similar initiatives such as the “Save The Boobs” campaign during Breast Cancer Awareness month. In this particular case, Pornhub’s hoping to lend a hand toward helping a completely a different, yet equally important pair of globes.

For more information on the “Save the Balls” campaign please click here.

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About Pornhub:

Founded in 2007, Pornhub is the leading free, ad-supported adult video streaming website, offering viewers the opportunity to upload and share their own videos. With over 3 million videos and over 50 million visitors a day, Pornhub truly is the best adult site in the world.  Pornhub has built the largest dedicated membership base in the adult community, with over 4 million engaged and loyal members, offering viewers a fun and sophisticated social experience directly in site, complete with messaging, photos, achievement badges and much more.

Hi Vadgesters!

Many of you have been asking questions about how to have better sex lives – and this question is no different. When you have a reproductive disorder, it may be difficult to function sexually due to the symptoms. Even without any reproductive issues, sex can be made better through dietary change. Today, let’s review how improving eating habits can affect your sex life for the better. Feel free to listen to my latest podcast to hear me talk about it (please don’t laugh at my cracking voice). I appreciate you all for tuning in and trusting me with your questions! 

– Kimi 

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How Does My Diet Affect My Sex Life?

Our bodies function based on the nutrients they are able to draw from the foods we eat. This is true in the gym when trying to get fit, as well as in the bedroom while trying to get intimate. If your body is not energized, it can affect your ability to perform sexually. Disorders such as obesity can affect blood flow to the genitals, making erection and vaginal arousal more difficult. Feeling discouraged by lack of arousal can kill the entire mood for both partners.

PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) and Endometriosis often share symptoms that can make having sex (or doing anything) extremely difficult. While consulting with your doctor – it is a good idea to begin researching diets created specifically for these disorders and making those changes when you can. Often times, the nutrients in certain fruits and vegetables can nourish the body to help create resistance to disease and alleviate many of the symptoms without/alongside medication. It’s similar to beginning a workout regimen and deciding to eat better at the same time. You could eat poorly and see the same results, but they will come much slower – if they ever show up at all.

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How Can I Start Making Changes Now?

It’s easy.

• Eat Better. Add more fresh foods to your diet. Limit processed foods when you can. If you stop somewhere for lunch, look at the menu and pick something wholesome. Once you pinpoint your specific issue, research diets that can help with it. Everything is not copy and paste; some foods may suppress a hormone and stimulate another. Having a better sex life can be as simple as lowering your blood pressure and sodium intake.

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• Get some vitamins in your life. Check your local health food store or pharmacy for multivitamins based on your needs. First Response has teamed up with VitaFusion to create gummy multivitamins for Reproductive Health as well as Pre/Post Natal Health. If you’re not inclined to pills, gummies may motivate you to take your multivitamins daily.

• Get Active. Did you know that working out releases endorphins that make you feel good (and often horny)? It doesn’t matter how much you do – start off to the best of your abilities and work towards more. Not only may you see a decrease in weight, but you may feel an increase in libido (sex drive).

• Keep track of your changes. Get a cool notebook and write down what you’ve changed this week. If you notice anything different (feelings, changes in appearance/mood, etc.) – write it down. Bring this information to your doctor and discuss your concerns. Not only does it look good to be informed, it feels good.

• Stay positive, but realistic. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and you may not see change overnight. While diet change may not cure your disorder, it can and will improve your quality of (sex) life overall.

• Remember, you are not alone. Take some time and look for online groups of people working towards similar goals. Facebook often has groups made for support, and it helps to know that within your personal journey – others share similar sentiments.

A reader shares her battle with Endometriosis – Read Here

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I’ve compiled a brief list of credible sites with information that may help on the journey to better sex health: 

PCOS – Polycistic Ovary Syndrome (WomensHealth.gov)

Endometriosis (Dr. Weil)

Obesity and Sex Drive (Web MD)

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As always, I am here if you have any questions, concerns or comments.

Feel free to contact me at Kimi@vforvadge.com, on Instagram or on Twitter.

As an advocate for all communities, especially my Carib and Latino areas – it is extremely important for each culture to have a sex health resource they can trust. Not only are educated individuals more likely to protect themselves, they are more inclined to share information with their friends and family. I am honored to promote BeforePlay.org and BeforePlay.org/es (Sex Health in Spanish) as a safe platform to learn about taking care of your sexual life…

Como defensor de todas las comunidades, especialmente a mi Carib y áreas latinos – Es muy importante que cada cultura tenga un recurso de salud sexual que pueden confiar. No sólo son educados personas más propensas a protegerse a sí mismos, son más propensos a compartir información con sus amigos y familiares. Me siento honrado de promover BeforePlay.org y BeforePlay.org/es como una plataforma segura para aprender sobre el cuidado de su vida sexual…

Enjoy/Disfruten,

Kimi

Beforeplay.org/es Beforeplay.org Launches a Spanish Website and Engages the Hispanic Community about Sexual Health and Well Being.

Beforeplay.org, a Colorado public health initiative aimed at reducing the number of unintended pregnancies, has recently launched a new Spanish website, Beforeplay.org/es. The new Spanish language site provides useful resources on a range of sexual health topics, including: information about birth control and contraceptive methods, pregnancy, STDs, and ways to initiate important sexual health conversations. Beforeplay.org seeks to normalize the conversation about sexual health in Colorado communities, and engaging Hispanics is a priority for the initiative. In a 2010 report by the Colorado Department of Public Health and Environment (CDPHE), Hispanic women represented 44.4 percent of the births resulting from an unintended pregnancy. Unintended pregnancy has a significant impact on educational attainment. The Hispanic graduation rate in 2007 was 57.1 percent.

Hey Vadgesters!

Adam & Eve was awesome enough to gift me their new “Thruster” Thrusting Rabbit for review. I loved it so much, I got two so I could share with you all! Please enjoy the review – and feel free to enter my giveaway for a brand spankin’ new thrusting rabbit when you’re all done.

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I really enjoy the ergonomic design of the Thruster – the designers were very conscious of a woman’s anatomy and they were definitely paying attention with every curve. The shape and design makes it unique from any other thrusting rabbit I’ve seen, and it’s so quiet!

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The fact that it’s fully submersible leaves room for a lot of creative fun. It’s a great toy to take on a quick staycation or even just a trip to the shower. If you’re into baths, this is an awesome toy for extended play.

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Have you ever tried a Rabbit Vibrator? What about one that thrusts? 

How about owning one? I’ve opened my thrusting rabbit giveaway for everyone to enter – please be nice and tell your friends!

Enter The Thruster Giveaway Here! 

Missed the giveaway? Get your own here! 

Hey Vadgesters! If you watched my last video – you know that I was gifted a Thruster by Adam and Eve. It’s such an awesome toy, that I got another one to share with you all. Here’s your chance to win it – feel free to enter now!

The Thruster is an incredible rabbit vibrator with many more capabilities than the average dual-stimulation toy. Check out my review for more details.

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I had the honor of attending Penthouse Magazine’s NYC party at the Museum of Sex in Manhattan, and it was definitely a night to remember.

In my professional opinion, everyone should visit at least one sex museum in their lifetime. I plan to see all of them. MoSex offers an interactive experience that is not only educational but fun.

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After the museum closed, the party started at the adjacent Play Lounge – where drinks flowed and the DJ played an array of hits. We mingled, danced and enjoyed each other’s energy. A live performance by girl group HrtBrk definitely lightened the mood and got everyone in good spirits.

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I got my swag bag with Kabang Energy Candy – which I actually ate and LOVE now. It’s not all natural, but it’s clutch for insomniac nights that precede busy days.

 Sir Richard’s Condoms were in the building, as well as Weed Depot; the largest marijuana directory EVER.

 I forgot to mention that the lovely Big Ang from VH1’s “Mob Wives” was there – featuring her newest wine and provided the delicious drinks for everyone that night. Big Ang is a sweetheart and she mingled with everyone.

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I got my Skin Diamond issue of Penthouse Magazine, too!

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Last month, we took a tour of the infamous World Erotic Art Museum on South Beach (Miami). It was a lovely experience with great guests. While everyone wasn’t captured in photographs, I’m glad to provide a quick recap of the night at WEAM…

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Guests were treated with drinks and gift bags to sweeten the evening.

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The Gift Bag Rundown: Vegan condoms by Sustain (Get them Here), Kegel Balls and vibrating Penis Ring from LeVadge Shop. Peppermint Sugar Scrub from Kimi’s Playthings.

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I provided light drinks to get the guests ready for the night. ULTRA Music Festival was just blocks away in Downtown Miami, so the ladies were already feeling a party vibe.

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The great part about WEAM is the layout. While we mingled and got acquainted, the guests were still able to view artifacts and artwork in the specially set up lounge area. The WEAM staff made sure that everyone felt comfortable in such a taboo atmosphere.

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If that porcelain penis looks familiar to you, it’s because it is from the ever famous movie Clockwork Orange. You may remember it being used as a weapon in the film – now you can admire it close up.

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After the tour, I got the group together and we did a talk about fellatio techniques and the importance of kegels. I hope each person left fully equipped to please their partner or themselves that night.

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My goal for these events is to create a healthy environment for sex conversation. After all, (almost) all of us came from sex and will eventually have sex – why not talk about it? I hope these events are enlightening and eye opening for at least one person, and I look forward to putting together another one. Stay tuned!

Many thanks to everyone who made it out in the midst of Ultra Weekend and terrible parking.

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Welcome to VNatural.

Vnatural was created after I took my pregnant self to the pharmacy looking for natural personal lubricant one night. Not only did I find none, but everything I found had weird chemicals that could harm my unborn child. I teamed up with my product partner Valerie who is a raw food chef and we formulated a food-based lubricant. From there, our focus was to create natural body care products with sensual applications. This goal helps us to encourage self-confidence and foster intimacy amongst our customers. To date, we have a cozy lineup of products that are natural and effective.

Safe for everyone – perfect for adults.

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Have you ever read the ingredients in your lube? What about your body wash?

Did you go and read it now?

See anything that’s easy to pronounce?

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I had this problem when I was pregnant. As a sex health coach, I know about all of the studies regarding personal lubricants and pregnancy. They made me paranoid; afraid to use anything in fear that it would affect my beautiful fetus.

I tried using coconut oil (not condom safe), and the stores had no natural lubes on their shelves – so I couldn’t just run out and grab some when it was time to get freaky. So, what did I do?

I made my own.

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My partner Val and I formulated an all-natural lube that is water based and condom safe, with a price point that won’t make you cringe. The food-based ingredients are completely edible, so don’t be afraid to take a nibble of your partner.

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Feeling sexy is not just about sex; it’s about knowing your worth and exuding the confidence that comes with it. Our goal is to help men and women feel empowered to share that confidence with others.

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The Line Up:

Looking for a slick sensation, without all the hard to pronounce ingredients?

“Natural Glide” provides a long-lasting, sensual slip for those intimate moments.

Made with all-natural ingredients, this lube is water-based and condom approved.

The food-based preservative is totally edible, for sex so good – you may want to take a taste…

It’s perfect for solo play, too!

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“All Over My Bawdy” Sensual Body/Room Spray

Enjoy a light, sexy mist of this spray  – or get your bedroom ready by filling the air with sensual scents…

Coming Soon…

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Exfoliate, rejuvenate and energize your body with this all-natural coffee scrub. Featuring Espresso Ground Coffee – it’s sure to get you buzzing to start your day…

Caffeine is noted for:

• Anti-inflammatory benefits

• Cellulite Fighting

• Energy Booster

Simple ingredients – super results.

Click here for a full product review.

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“Similar to invigorate, except envigorate refers to an understanding that this feeling is not for one’s self. It is an energy that is meant to be spread unto others. Closely related to the ‘Pay it Forward’ philosophy.

The world would truly be a better place if everyone made it a point to envigorate everyone around them.”

Looking sexy starts with feeling sexy, and feeling sexy starts with looking sexy.

Begin your day or end your night with this softening, “Envigorating” sugar scrub by VNatural. Its all natural ingredients leave your skin exfoliated and supple.

Natural peppermint extract helps shrink pores, as well as reduce irritation and promote circulation – leaving a beautiful glow.

Benefits of Peppermint Oil (Active Ingredient):

Redness Fighter

Acne Treatment

Reduce Hunger Cravings

Anti Nausea

PCOS Symptoms

Herpes Suppression and more…

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Our Ylang Ylang Scrub’s all natural aphrodisiac qualities have been used for centuries to stimulate sensuality and attraction.

Made in small batches to guarantee freshness and quality.

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Love Oil by VNatural

Multiple uses – one oil. Enjoy an intimate massage, rub out muscle aches, moisturize your hair, rejuvenate the yoni – the possibilities are endless with this naturally aphrodisiac-infused oil.

Looking and feeling sexy should go hand in hand. Enjoy multiple uses in one easy to use, aphrodisiac-infused oil.

Acne |  Anti-Wrinkle | In-Shower Moisturizer | Hair Oil | Massage | Yoni Oil | Muscle Aches | Body Oil | Blemish Fighter |

| Hair Sheen | Stretch Marks | Eczema | Anti-Redness and more.

Kukui Oil – Beneficial to hair and skin. Great for sunburns and skin treatments.

Ingredients:

Kukui  Nut Oil – chapped skin/psoriasis, sunburn treatment, eczema, dandruff, dry hair, etc.

Frankincense – Natural stress-relief, anti-aging, wrinkle fighter, scar remedy, etc.

Lavender Essential Oil – improves sleep, wound treatment, acne fighter, eczema, psoriasis, anti-oxidant, etc.

Geranium Rose – hormone balance, stress reducer, fights inflammation, fights menopause symptoms, etc.

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Honey Love Micro-Exfoliating Masque

Oily or acne-prone skin?

Worry no more with the Honey Love Masque.

All-natural ingredients give your face a gentle, yet effective clean.

Demerara sugar cleans the surface, while finely textured spices get deep into the pores to brighten.

Enjoy the soothing, anti-bacterial properties of honey as it fights redness and irritation.

Ingredients:

All of our products are made in small batches to guarantee freshness and quality.

More sensual treats coming soon in LeVadge Shop

Resources:

Dr. Axe

We’ve talked about Vacation Cutting before – but it is not very often that you find a woman brave enough to talk about her experience as a survivor of female circumcision. I was honored to be able to sit down with her and tell her story. For the sake of her privacy, she has remained anonymous – but the story is just as powerful…

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• How old were you when you had the procedure done? Was it something you did willingly?

• I don’t remember when it was done.

• Where was the procedure/ritual done?

• It was done in France

• What was the explanation for why this ritual was done?

• I didn’t get any explanation of how it was done.

• Did the ritual affect your sex life in any way?

• I wouldn’t know the difference between the before and after , but I do enjoy sex when it’s done right with the right person of course I have to teach the person what to do and how to please me but overall I do enjoy sex.

 

• What are your thoughts on having it done?

• Well, what’s done is already done but I wish I knew the difference.

• Any feedback you would like to add for the readers?

• It made me feel a little uncomfortable knowing that I am in a country where people know or heard about it but actually don’t understand it . Therefore it kind of make me uncomfortable to express my sexual desire and to always have to explain people about it.

• Has there been any benefit at all to the procedure?

The only benefit out of it is it makes the vagina smaller.

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I still have a hard time looking at medical pictures of the procedure, but I was able to obtain a drawing that explains pretty clearly. This is a great opportunity for education and awareness.

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Share your thoughts – do you think these types of rituals should still be done?

Is tradition enough to justify continuing with female circumcision?