Have you always wanted to learn how to use a penis ring?
I finally got my husband in front of the camera with me – so we reviewed the Adam and Eve Company’s Butterfly Couple’s Ring together.
I can’t wait to hear what you think!
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The Butterfly’s Specs:
7 Speeds
Waterproof
Silicone Material
Hypoalergenic
Clitoral + Penis Stimulation
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A penis ring is a great toy for couples who are looking to gently add something new in the bedroom without overwhelming the other partner. Some people aren’t into “toys,” but their lover may be.
Now that you’ve fallen in love with The Butterfly Penis Ring – you want one, don’t ya?
As human beings, we often grow up with certain misconceptions about sex and intimacy. We pick them up from chatting with friends, watching tv – movies, too. Can you think of any questions you’re unsure of? Have you ever wanted answers to some of the myths you’ve heard?
Barbara Lee, author of the book Sacred Sex: Replacing the Marriage Ethic with a Sexual Ethic, who coaches organizations and people all around the world in making healthy sexual choices, says it is time to get real about what to expect from sex and intimacy.
Barbara speaks some truth about sex myths many people have been lead to believe.
Myth – You must orgasm to be satisfied.
Truth – Sometimes sexual interaction does not produce an orgasm and that is perfectly fine. It is not a sign of failure if you don’t have an orgasm or if your partner doesn’t have an orgasm. Stress, health issues, sleepiness or even an unexpected leg cramp can all act as deterrents to a sexual climax, but that doesn’t mean that sex isn’t still enjoyable, fulfilling and intimate.
“Don’t believe the myth and fake an orgasm,” Lee says. “If you are too concerned about how you or your partner ‘performs’ then you are not spending enough time relaxing, being authentic and enjoying yourself.”
Myth – Men are always in the mood and ready for sex.
Truth – Men are not sex machines in perpetual motion just waiting for their next opportunity to engage and explode. Men are sometimes not in the mood. A man’s sexual desire has a lot to do with his own sense of self-worth, his emotional state and his comfort with his partner. Sexual interest naturally comes and goes, it ebbs and flows. Even for men.
Myth – No one wants to be caught cheating.
Truth – Many people, particularly women, have affairs because they want to be caught. They want the affair to call attention to the problems in the marriage. They want the affair to be the catalyst that ends the marriage so that they can move on. Sometimes they need the assurance of a new relationship before they feel they can leave an unhappy one.
Myth – Affairs break up marriages.
Truth – Affairs do not create problems within a marriage. Affairs are what people do when they are unable, for whatever reason, to deal directly with the problems they are having with their partner. When two people are having difficulties, an affair allows them to “blame” the cheating partner or even the third party.
Myth – Sex addiction is all about sex.
Truth – Sex addiction is not so much about sex as it is about unresolved issues within the individual. There are generally underlying issues of shame and lack of self-worth that fuel a need for outside affirmation. Responding to this by heaping on additional layers of shame is not productive and in fact can contribute to the very problem that needs to be solved.
Check out Barbara’s websites for more information on her writings. She’s an amazing resource for sex and intimacy education.
Guess who snagged an interview with the iconic Larry Flynt? Me! We chatted about Hustler Hollywood and the sleek, sexy new look it’s been re-birthed with. While I thought the original logo was cute, this new typography style is far more sleek, sexy and discreet – just like Hustler stores…
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Kimi LeVadge – What inspired the new look of HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD?
Larry Flynt – It was time to modernize and create a more sophisticated look for the brand. It’s a reflection of our products and our customers.
K.L.V. – How has being a pioneer in the adult industry shaped the direction of HUSTLER in 2015?
Flynt – Being a pioneer requires that you take chances and anticipate change. We are constantly doing that in all of our businesses, from publishing to retail to gaming. You can’t be stagnant – evolving with the times and knowing what people want now and in the future is important. I also learned very early that diversification is key, as technology is constantly changing. That’s why there are so many different, successful businesses under the LFP umbrella.
K.L.V. – Do you use social media? If so, which one’s your favorite? If not – would you?
Flynt: I have a twitter account, but no Facebook page.
K.L.V. – Your company is doing great and is secretly a household name. Are people becoming more comfortable with sex?
Flynt – Absolutely people are becoming more comfortable, as they should be. Barriers are breaking down little by little, but changes are happening. The media, from blogs to TV shows and movies to news programming, is accelerating the shift in attitude. The information that is infiltrating the mainstream is allowing people to realize that it’s okay to like sex and talk about it freely and openly.
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About the new Hustler Hollywood
“Shedding the flaming heart and sporting a sleeker, bolder logo, HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD is completely rebranding itself as a smarter, sexier and unapologetic modern lifestyle conglomerate.
Refocusing its attention on a wide range of products, HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD now offers both HUSTLER and non-HUSTLER apparel, accessories, gifts, jewelry, beauty, lingerie and swimwear items. Every HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD store will now provide a full, broad and diverse shopping experience with consumer interest specifically in mind.
Along with a new logo comes a new look for the stores themselves. Ten of the current 13 locations have undergone remodels within the past two years, and the facelifts are providing a sleek, sophisticated look and feel to enhance the enjoyable shopping experience.
The re-branding is powered by the new tagline: “Smart. Sexy. Unapologetic.” The statement embodies HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD’s mission, vision and attitude in the spirit of the Company’s compelling, iconic founder, Larry Flynt.
“In the past year, we have developed an experienced and qualified team of professionals from a variety of backgrounds, bringing a fresh approach to our business,” said Philip Del Rio, HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD’s Vice President of Retail Operations, who himself has a background in fashion retail, with companies such as Ed Hardy, AG Jeans and Superdry. “With a new brand and new mindset, we’re ready to take our stores and our customers to the next level.”
Be on the lookout for a HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD store near you, as expansion continues with four additional locations planned to open before the end of this year.
For more information, please visit our website hustlerhollywoodstores.com and check us out on social media @HustlerStores”
[tweetthis]We all know that exercise can help you stay healthy, but did you know it can boost your sex drive?[/tweetthis] Yes, your workouts can help get your sex life (back) in shape. Today, I’ll give you easy ways to boost energy, rev up your sex drive and get your body to look how you feel – sexy.
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Sex in the Kitchen
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First, let’s talk about my favorite topic – food. As the saying goes; ”abs are built in the kitchen” and so is the libido. Eating certain foods can release hormones that put you in the mood, and you don’t need any special recipes or fancy chefs either. Here are six libido – boosting foods, in no particular order.
Oysters – Packed with zinc (a mineral that helps fertility), this crustacean also contains antioxidants and other trace elements needed for sexual function. Try sprinkling a little lemon on an oyster during dinner, you may notice easier arousal during sexy time.
Yohimbe – This African herb has been used as an aphrodisiac for centuries and is known as the natural Viagra. The yohimbe tree bark contains the natural chemical yohimbine and can be found in energy drinks and sports supplements.
Broccoli – Added to your salad or next to a nice steak, the Vitamin C in them helps with blood circulation and is also known to increase female sex drive.
Watermelon – Yes, seriously. At 92% water, watermelon filled with a nutrient called Citruline that ultimately relaxes the blood vessels to increase blood flow. Similar to the effects of Viagra, you may be able to skip the little blue pill. Now you see why Beyonce was drinking it.
Eggs – No matter how you like to eat them, eggs are loaded with protein which boosts stamina, and L-arginine which has been used to treat erectile dysfunction. Plus, they’re low in calories – so you can burn some in the bedroom instead.
6. Ginseng – University of Hawaii researchers discovered that using ginseng supplements boosted women’s libido in a month, with many saying their overall sex life improved as well. The root has been used since ancient times as an aphrodisiac in many different cultures. Ask any of your Jamaican friends what Bedroom Bully or Baba Roots are – they know…
[tweetthis]Just like food and sex, fitness and stamina go hand in hand.[/tweetthis] Working out can increase blood flow to the genitals and pump out the hormones necessary for sex drive. Try simple moves like squats, leg lifts and reverse crunches at home for a “head start,” then turn it up a notch at the gym to really go hard.
Weighted machines will not only help you burn fat, they increase the ability to produce hormones like testosterone, estrogen and serotonin. In addition, the muscles you work then begin to burn more fat, which eventually sculpts your entire body. Just imagine, your visual sexy will match how you feel in no time. You’ll typically begin to see visible results in two to three weeks.
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Leg Adductor
I call these [tweetthis]“Power #Kegels.”[/tweetthis] While pushing the weights inward on the leg adductor (inner thing muscles) machine, squeeze your vaginal muscles. Release them when you open your legs to do the next rep, and squeeze again as you push inward. This move alone can help increase the strength of your vaginal walls, as well as fight incontinence and urinary tract infections. Don’t worry fellas, these moves are not only for women. Maintaining control of the kegel muscles can help men hold longer, stronger erections as they are better able to control blood flow to the penis.
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Lying (Prone) Leg Curls
Lying (Prone) Leg Curls are for those looking for a rounder, stronger looking butt. Three sets of ten and you will feel it in the morning. Start by lying face down on the machine, brace your abdominal muscles against the bench and place the cushions above your Achilles tendons (the narrow part above your heel). Lift steadily until the weights will go no higher, bringing your feet towards your cheeks. Lower your legs gently, and start again. This move not only works on the gluteus muscles, but strengthens the lower back as well. Get that arch ready, ladies.
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Gym Tip: While doing leg curls, keep your toes pointed out and your feet aligned with each other. Don’t turn your ankles in or out, which allows for better control and avoids injury.
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Assisted Crunches work great if you are recovering from surgery or just had a baby. This simple machine supports the back while allowing you to use your abdominal muscles to raise your torso upward. Three sets of twenty will allow your muscles time to adjust, but still gives you some burn around the second to third rep.
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The Stair Climber
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The Stair Climber is my least favorite machine. We have a love-hate relationship; I hate getting on it, but I love the way my booty looks. Using this machine 2-3 times a week can really tone up the thighs and butt muscles. Choose a comfortable level to start off with, download a movie to your phone and go ham. 30 minutes is the ideal duration for this workout.
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Weighted Ball Crunches
Weighted Ball Crunches are a little more advanced, but give serious results. This move works the upper and lower abdominals and also strengthens the arms. Three sets of ten are suggested for beginners.
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There are a few different kinds of Abdominal Curl machines at most gyms, choose the one that is most comfortable for your skill level. The machine pictured allows you to use your arms to support the weights, but puts all the effort on your abs. Do this one until “failure”; when you cannot do any more.
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After a day or two of these workouts, you’ll be walking like Robocop, but in about two weeks you will see results that you may not expect. Not only will you start to look the way you want, but you’ll feel it, too. Part of your sex drive is affected by confidence levels, so loving the way you look in the mirror plays a big role in how you get down when you’re naked. Try these simple moves, the worst that can happen is you get a little sexier…
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Have you started a new workout regimen? Do you want to? Weigh in, let’s talk!
As we bring National Masturbation Month to a close, wouldn’t it be nice to see what other people are doing with their hands? AdamAndEve.com created a great visual to help us understand that we’re not alone – even when we are. Learn who’s touching what in this nifty infographic. Not only does it help to know how many people are masturbating, it’s a great way to open up about self-pleasure and what makes you (or your partner) tick.
Most women stated that they had their first orgasm between the ages of 18 and 24; a surprisingly large range!
Toy Parties are an excellent way to mix knowledge with pleasure. My Kimi’s Playthings line travels all across the country with me; teaching women about their sexual selves as well as tools and tricks to keep it spicy. Whether it’s a Girls’ Night In, Bachelorette, Birthday or Divorce party – it’s guaranteed to be a great night. Customize the package, and I’ll bring the party to you and your friends. Miami, Fort Lauderdale, New York City – this Toy Party Travels!
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May is National Masturbation Month, and I know how much you love touching yourselves. I took my research to the streets and polled real people anonymously on how they rub one out. This is a great way to open discussion about self-pleasure, because it seems so taboo in society. Not to mention, has us so confused as to what’s right and what’s wrong when it comes to sex. So, let’s talk about it – how do real people masturbate?
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It is very normal to please yourself.
We can’t see what people do within the privacy and comfort of their own homes – but know that there are a lot of individuals masturbating on this earth.
Nearly 1/2 of women between 18 and 60 have used a sex toy like a dildo or vibrator, according to a survey via Robert Morris University.
As you read this, someone is touching themselves.
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Just like it’s normal to self-please, it’s completely normal not to.
Maybe it’s not your thing. Maybe you haven’t felt compelled to try it yet. Maybe it just didn’t do the job for you. Whatever the reason is – it’s okay to not masturbate.
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Everyone has their own style.
You can make it special or make it quick. Some people prefer dim lights and soft music, others can do it anywhere. Many individuals need to watch porn to inspire them, while some can simply close their eyes and imagine.
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Do you. Literally.
What you do behind doors is for you alone. There are people who will try to make you feel bad for making yourself feel good, yet they live unhappy lives. Let no one guilt you.
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It’s good for your health.
Seriously. Not only does masturbation release endorphins that can calm you and make you feel good – it helps increase circulation to the genitals. It is also a stress relief method for both men and women, so instead of being cranky all day – rub one out.
Seminal Fluid is one half of the necessary ingredients for creation of life. Throughout medical history, however, women’s health came secondary to the needs of men. It has taken decades to decipher the codes of the female body; what makes her tick, how she gets aroused – what irritates her flora. This journey is far from complete. Oddly enough, it is often the male anatomy and what it contains that causes irritation to the female body. Take for example, semen. It is notorious for changing the vaginal pH and causing yeast infections or Bacterial Vaginosis. Now, South Australian researchers have discovered a new link that may explain symptoms a serious reproductive issue.
SOUTH Australian researchers have published the latest piece in a long-term research puzzle investigating the biological activity of seminal fluid.
“In laboratory studies, our research found that seminal fluid enhances the survival and growth of endometriosis lesions,” says the Robinson Research Institute’s Dr Jonathan McGuane, who is a co-lead author on the paper.
Endometriosis affects around 1 in 10 women, and results from outgrowths of uterine tissues into the abdominal cavity of women with associated pain, menstrual problems and lowered fertility.
While the causes of endometriosis are thought to be multifactorial, a link between endometriosis and seminal fluid had not previously been established.
Director at the Robinson Research Institute and co-author on the paper,Professor Sarah Robertson said although these results will be followed-up with further studies, they are consistent with other research in the field.
“Our own and other research shows that rather than just being a vehicle for sperm, seminal fluid induces a biological response in female tissues,” she said.
“In most cases, this activity contributes to setting up an environment which is immunologically receptive for the implantation and growth of the embryo.”
Professor Robertson’s own PhD and postdoctoral studies at the University of Adelaide in the 1990s were some of the very first investigations in the world looking at the interaction between the immune and reproductive systems in women, and how seminal fluid impacts on this.
“But maybe there is a flip-side to this effect,” she said. “Perhaps in some women seminal fluid is one of the factors that contributes to development of a higher risk for developing endometriosis.”
“At this stage there’s not enough evidence to suggest women with endometriosis should change their sex lives,” said Professor Robertson. “But we do think it’s a factor we need to explore more.”
Forced menopause can happen in so many ways, such as a hysterectomy as recently experienced by actress/advocate Angelina Jolie. Whether we’d like to admit it or not, women get one step closer to menopause each day we wake up. Some women will experience menopause earlier than others – often due to forced menopause. The symptoms can range from mild to almost debilitating and affect a woman’s day to day functions. As your advocate, I am constantly researching the latest in solutions and treatments to help in leading normal sexual lives – and now I bring you MonaLisa Touch…
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Frequently Asked Questions
The Issue
Even with the passage of time, many women still retain their youthful energy and enthusiasm, but post-menopausal changes can affect a woman’s quality of life in unexpected ways. Hormone replacement therapy may not be the best option for a lot of patients, as treatment outcomes can be uncertain. Now there is an alternative therapy for vaginal revitalization that can help millions of women who are silently suffering and unable to undergo other treatment options.
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What is the MonaLisa Touch?
MonaLisa Touch is a medical laser that delivers controlled energy to the vaginal tissue to revitalize the cells in the vaginal mucosa (vaginal tissue) so that these cells make more collagen, an essential ingredient in vaginal cell health.
How does it work?
MonaLisa Touch implements CO2 laser energy that is delivered via side-firing probe inserted into the vaginal canal. A two-part pulse targets surface (epithelial) tissue and deep (lamina propria) tissue to promote vaginal mucosal revitalization.
What clinical trials have been conducted on the MonaLisa Touch?
A multisite study was conducted by Dr. Mickey Karram, Director of Fellowship Program on Female Pelvic Medicine & Reconstructive Surgery at The Christ Hospital, Cincinnati, OH and Dr. Eric Sokol, Associate Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Stanford University Medical Center. Preliminary findings from a trial evaluating the laser treatment on postmenopausal women* and breast cancer survivors experiencing vaginal health issues show positive results.
The trial assessed the use of CO2 fractional laser therapy on 30 women with vaginal health issues due to natural or forced menopause. All of the patients in the trial were treated with The MonaLisa Touch laser.
Where can I have this done?
The MonaLisa Touch is an in-office procedure performed by an obstetrician/gynecologist.
Does the procedure hurt?
The procedure is virtually painless and requires no anesthesia. Some patients may experience some discomfort the first time the probe is inserted, but the actual treatment is not painful. Many patients report that it feels like a gentle vibration.
How long does it take?
Patients receive three treatments, spaced six weeks apart, which each take less than five minutes to perform.
When will I see results?
Most patients feel improvement after the very first treatment, although the procedure calls for three treatments that are generally spaced over a 12-week period.
How long does it last?
Patients should expect to come back annually for a maintenance treatment. MonaLisa Touch was first available outside the US where more than 5,000 patients have been treated worldwide with up to an 18-month follow-up.
What are my limitations after the procedure is done?
Patients should refrain from sexual activity for 2-3 days. Your doctor will determine a post-procedure regimen that is right for you.
For which patients is this treatment appropriate? The MonaLisa Touch is appropriate for any female who has gone through menopause, as well as those who are experiencing post-menopausal symptoms as a result of a hysterectomy or breast cancer treatments.
How can I find out if a physician in my area is offering the MonaLisa Touch treatment?
Patients interested in MonaLisa Touch treatment can visit www.SmileMonaLisa.com to find a physician in their area. If a physician is not currently available, patients have the option to receive additional details once the treatment comes to their market.
How much will the procedure cost?
Patients should contact their healthcare professional for additional information.
Is this procedure safe for women with breast cancer?
Yes, MonaLisa Touch treatment is particularly well suited for patients who cannot, or prefer not to receive estrogen therapy.
Will the procedure be covered by insurance?
No processing code has been established.
*Women in the study either experienced natural menopause or forced menopause as the result of hysterectomy or drug-induced suppression of ovarian function (chemotherapy, radiations, anticancer drugs such as Tamoxifen)
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We’ll talk more about MonaLisa Touch in the coming weeks, but it appears to be a wonderful innovation in the forced menopause and women’s health world. I’m excited to see how this progresses and hope the information provided is an asset to someone.
Questions? Comments? Contact me – kimi@vforvadge.com.
