Sex Education for the Real World…


Foreplay: How Important is It? (Podcast)

Posted October 3, 2014 by Kimani in Love. Life. Erotica.

I’m finally back in the Podcast world, and my first stop on the journey is about foreplay.  Why is it important?  Do we really need it?  Find out why you need foreplay, press play!

Many issues regarding intercourse stem from a lack of stimulation beforehand. The purpose of foreplay is not just to show affection,  it has a biological purpose as well.

Women often suffer from vaginal dryness during intercourse,  and become seLf-conscious because they blame themselves.  For most of these women, the solution is quite simple – touch her! Touch yourself! Once you know what makes you feel good, you can guide your partner to do the same. 

Even if it’s just a casual encounter, take a little time to get warmed up. You wait 15 minutes to let the car get warm before you drive it in the winter,  right? Same thing goes for the vagina.  Get the lube heated so the  pistons can rotate smoothly.  Last thing you want to do is end up smoking on the side of the road (bed).

I’d love to get your feedback!  Is foreplay important to you?  

About the Author


A NY transplant in Florida, Kimani has taken on the task of educating the world on sexual health and education. The Mount Vernon native has seen AIDS and HIV spread through her community like wildfire, and hopes to cease the transmission of these and other diseases one person at a time. If you know better, you're inclined to do better.

  • Charlie

    Slap, choke,bite, suck, tickle, nibble,touch,kiss,blow,lick,stroke,pinch,breathe,race,pop,pull,push. A tiny list of things involved in foreplay. Now, a lot of these words can be used in a more aggressive way but then they can also be gentle. Whatever comes to mind when these words are read and processed, take the time to digest them. Feel them. Imagine them, then re imagine them. Even the thought of them is foreplay. Foreplay is the prep and the end all be all. Foreplay can tell a lot about the individual lover as well as the couple both in and out of the bedroom. For example, as common as ass slapping has become due to media and the rise/popularity of the porn industry, the way someone may like to be slapped, where, how much, the intensity of it tells a lot about their past, how well they know themselves in the present, & what sorts of fun may be headed y’all way in the upcoming moments. Even for the booty call and the one night stands, you can learn A LOT about yourself and just how freaky you can be. FOREPLAY IS SUPER IMPORTANT!

    • Charlie, you’re absolutely correct. As a practitioner of BDSM, foreplay has a role in our lifestyle as well; it’s something that people who enjoy ‘vanilla” sex tend to think we overlook. As you point out, it might be…unorthodox to some, but the act of choking, or spanking or biting a woman “in the life” might be as erotically exciting as whispering sweet nothings in her ear while gently fingering her wet p*ssy, giving her a sensual total body massage or playing with her nipples or ears…Foreplay as a show of being “present” in the moment, and engaging your partner while pleasuring them is essential no matter how one provides outlet for their sexual energy…

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